Need Advice.

[HBGirl]

DH and I have been actively trying for 8 cycles. I have tested as highly fertile. DH has a high count but 4% morphology.

On this information we have decided to stop "trying" as its doing my head in.

So, my question is, how do you not try? How do you cope with just leaving it to nature?

 

[nicky636]

hi there
I think that it would help if you stopped placing all your worth and happiness on you getting pregnant. I know it must be very important to you, and it still can be very important, but maybe just try and distract yourself and your efforts onto something else, whatever it may be.. but its definitely a gradual thing like your mind set won't change over night, maybe put a lot of effort into your health like eating clean and healthy/ working out, which boosts your fertility whilst keeping you occupied

 

[HBGirl]

Thanks so much for the reply. I must say I have relaxed completly about it, my focus has changed from needing to be pregnant to wanting it. Still, that fear of it will never happen for me still lingers.