Well I have just turned 21 the other week and yesterday finally got the courage to tell my mum I'm pregnant and she was strangely calm about it . . . because she thinks she will be able to convince to have an abortion I just want to cry and cry my mum cried histerically at 1 point last night because all this isnt what she wanted for me and she just made me feel so bad and guilty for being pregnant and as usual its all about her and how she feels and how upset I'm making her. What do I do ? The old me would have screamed and shouted at her an we would have argued until it was all blown out of proportion but I havent risen to any of it this time but it's always about me being there for her and doing what pleases her .