flumpandme
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Hi Ladies
I had a baby 5 weeks ago tomorrow, and me and the father were on and off for most of my pregnancy, he came back into our lives in the last 2 weeks of my pregnancy and was involved heavily in our child's life till last sunday.
he has asked to see his child for one week out of 4 so every three weeks he expects me to let him take my baby 257 miles away from me to live with him for the week, i said no to this and now he is asking for one/two days a month when he will travel up see the baby and then travel back down.
im worried he may try to abscond with the baby, do you think i am been over protective, what would you ladies do ?, i dont wnat him to take him away from the house but how can I stop him with out looking paranoid. i feel completely devastated, emotional and abandoned
Vicky
I had a baby 5 weeks ago tomorrow, and me and the father were on and off for most of my pregnancy, he came back into our lives in the last 2 weeks of my pregnancy and was involved heavily in our child's life till last sunday.
he has asked to see his child for one week out of 4 so every three weeks he expects me to let him take my baby 257 miles away from me to live with him for the week, i said no to this and now he is asking for one/two days a month when he will travel up see the baby and then travel back down.
im worried he may try to abscond with the baby, do you think i am been over protective, what would you ladies do ?, i dont wnat him to take him away from the house but how can I stop him with out looking paranoid. i feel completely devastated, emotional and abandoned
Vicky