bbyno1
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its a hard one..
he could of sent her texts before because to text someone just saying hey sexy might be a bit too full on for a 1st time text so maybe they have had past text history who knows?his name wasnt at the end of the text so that shows that she must know hes number already?
your head will be all over the place and you wont know what to think until you speak to him..
like you say you think he wouldnt cheat so maybe hes just doing it for abit of attention and to be receiving different kinda texts from the average texts that you guys send?not to sound harsh ..
i know my OH must get bored with mine because i always end up sending the same kinda msgs lol..
explain that its not because u didnt trust him,just because your pregnant,hormones all over the place,you dont feel 'sexy' in yourself anymore and that he has actually given you reason to want to go down hes phone by him holding it so tight to him all the time which is out of character and now that you have found something your not in the wrong for looking anyway so dont let him turn things around on you
it would be different if you was all sneaky about it like going down hes phone while hes alseep and you find absolutly nothing then maybe feel the guilt but given the text you found dont feel bad x
he could of sent her texts before because to text someone just saying hey sexy might be a bit too full on for a 1st time text so maybe they have had past text history who knows?his name wasnt at the end of the text so that shows that she must know hes number already?
your head will be all over the place and you wont know what to think until you speak to him..
like you say you think he wouldnt cheat so maybe hes just doing it for abit of attention and to be receiving different kinda texts from the average texts that you guys send?not to sound harsh ..
i know my OH must get bored with mine because i always end up sending the same kinda msgs lol..
explain that its not because u didnt trust him,just because your pregnant,hormones all over the place,you dont feel 'sexy' in yourself anymore and that he has actually given you reason to want to go down hes phone by him holding it so tight to him all the time which is out of character and now that you have found something your not in the wrong for looking anyway so dont let him turn things around on you
