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hmmm...it's hard to say, i'm sorry i'm of no help. I hope when you test tomorrow morn you AND Laus both get your bfp! Then you don't have to stress about your tems and this and that. It really is no fun at all, between ovulating and the witch unless you get 2 lines. :hugs: it will all be over soon, on a good note being preggo! ;)
 
oh i meant i'm expecting af today or tomorrow...today by cd27 but tomrrow because of 11 day luteal phase. Kind of anxious to see what my bbt will be in the morning!
 
hi gals! you ladies cheer me up! thanks for all the kind words.
bray, you bd again?! you are a committed lady!
mama, i'm glad the temp went back up - woot woot!
laus, hope all you're feeling is good! fx!
afm, B*tch got me! (warning: vent/rant ahead): i cried a little in the shower - which is SO freakin' frustrating because i *thought* was prepared for it, but it was still so sad.... argh! at least i have some info, i guess, but this cycle was F'd bad - i mean, 44 days? ov on cd31? my lp was good though... and had really "great" (strong positive and pain) ovulation, good timed intercourse - and the last couple days i only had like a few wipes of blood, so i was REALLY hopeful (which REALLY sucks!) - so i'm angry and sad and frustrated. and why do people around me end up preggers? i. dont. get. it. i'm trying to take a deep breath, get ready for the plunge into september, but the breaths keep coming out in ragged almost crying gasps, which is not cool in the work place. i thought about taking a sick day, but decided laying on the couch all day looking at my dirty house and endlessly thinking about how we DONT have a baby, toys, etc etc and how i dont even know if i'll be able to go to my best friends baby shower, or my sisters shower.... yep, decided that would be worse than just throwing myself into distracting work. oh yea, and i'm fat. i put on like 4 pounds in a week - which i thought "p'shaw, i can totally play that off if i get a BFP!" - which i didnt! AND we haven't had sex for like a week because the closer i get to AF the more shut down i get - 'cause obviously if you *might* be pregnant, having sex could "shake it loose" (i know this is crazy but it just always seems like i'll be feeling really positive and hopeful, then we have sex, and i instantly start my period. AND i had NO SYMPTOMS - so thanks a lot, body! cramps 2 days ago? psych! no sore boobs? psych!
i'm SO sorry. i know you all understand but i probably dont have to write it all out - i just feel so pent up and aggressive and want to punch my uterus. and since only 2 people know we're ttc - and one of them is pregnant! - this is where i go to bare my heart. *sigh* (dabs eyes with tissue) (takes deep breath) (orders more opks).
 
oh, my hw! :hugs: :hugs: :hugs: We are all here for you, this is what it's about, to be here for you, we're your friends, and we go through the exact same thing as you. We will comfort you in any way can just to make you feel better. I am very sorry she got you today, and I know how you feel like we think we're prepared to get the witch but when she comes, we freak out. I was being a little bitchy yesterday towards hubs and he asked why and i said i don't know maybe my period is coming...and then it doesn't help when you aren't getting that expected bfp we worked so hard for and timed most perfectly. I know here isn't much I can say to help you feel better....and I don't know what kind of job you have but I encourage you to go to work...you are a responsible adult and you can't let this get to you, i know you're upset, but go....believe it or not it will make you feel better. You can't let the :witch: win, show her who is boss and go to work...don't let her win and put you down all day thinking about the what could be. It's a new day, it's a new cycle...you just try try again until that witch don't ever come back for 9 months!
 
hey mama great news on the temp, gl huni :)

Bray thats great hun, your symps sound positive huni :)

I have NO cm whatsoever now so think its only a matter of time myself before she gets here.

hw, oh huni here is really the place to get all that shi* of your chest! I wish i had a magic wand to take your pain away. There is no other comparison to the feeling when that bitch shows her face. I know you hate your body right now huni and believe me i have wanted to go muhammed ali on mine on a few occasions but like mama said dont let the witch get you down! You can try again this cycle. I know that's not what you want to hear and your prob asking yourself 'why'? All we can do is keep moving forwards sweetie and know that along this hellish journey we have each other to vent, cry, share etc.... Go chill out this weekend, have a few glasses of wine and forget about your body, opk's and all the other stuff, treat you and dh to a night out and let yourself relax. I wish there was something i could say hun to erase your pain but know that were here for you ANYTIME :hugs: :hugs:
 
Hw- I'm so sorry and you're so brave to admit the way we all feel. I haven't been trying as long as you, but its so depressing. We have to trust it will happen when it should, but it feels like everyone is getting prego around us! Just keep the faith and try not to take it out to much on the OH. We want them to keep wanting to have babies with us! Lol.
 
Hi ladies! I am new to this site! DH and I are TTC, been trying for over a year. He had a few problems but hopefully we got them fixed with his surgery...dr was opptimistic! Anyways, I am 2dpo and hoping for my BFP this month!

I know you dont generally get symptoms before implantation but I am obsessed with it! My nips are kind of achey, but not sore to the touch. And slight off and on cramping but not much.

If AF doesnt make an appearance, I will be testing around the 19/20th. Anyone near me in testing dates?! I HATE the 2ww!
 
hey lacilyn :hi: welcome to the thread. i'm not even sure when i'm due now but either testing tomorrow or sat?

What do you prefer bray hun?
 
welcome, laci! :howdy: good luck to you, Fx and :dust: I'm due for af today or tomorrow....already tested yesterday and day before but negative. 11dpo today... hoping i'm still in and it's my month. Testing again saturday morning if no af by then.
 
wish i could test tomorrow....but what's the sense if i think i'm out....hope my temp goes up again tomorrow, that would give me hope for saturdays :test:, i'm praying sooo hard.
 
I have a question...
I'm new hear...but what are the TTC Buddies?
 
"trying to conceive" we're just all really good friends and decided to try to conceive together....lol we're like family now, really. we're all very supportive and here for one another and welcome all newcomers with open arms and ears. Don't feel like youre interrupting our thread...you are more than welcome to join! :)
 
oh. I knew TTC was trying to conceive, but wasn't sure what it meant with buddies. I figured it was women you were friends with but wasn't sure if they were personal friends or if they were friends from here.

Thats awesome that there is that kind of friendship here. I have been on CafeMom for sometime, but they don't have anything like ttc buddies!
 
lol... we are all very nice here. i think you will love this site better and really enjoy the support we offer. Not only do we support the whole ttc/pregnancy issues, but everyday life. We laugh, we cry, we're happy, we're sad...perfect place to vent if need be. Welcome aboard! :hugs:
 
i second third and fourth what mama says :hugs:

update: everything has gone girls, the cm, the pains, the gas :haha: its a bloody repeat of other months, damn stupid body!!!! Got emotinal before and accused dh of not caring enough about wanting a :baby: he said i was mad and that i need to relax arrrggh i almost hit him. He did give me a cuddle though and is now cooking the dinner he he.

We are going into the city with another couple sat and they know we are ttc but how do i get out of saying no to having a drink to them. I will most def not be touching alcohol but not sure what to say?
 
mama if your temp stays up tomorrow will you be testing then or sat?
 
I only want to test again with a frer...and i neverbought any when i went to walmart wed because i thought i was out since my temp dipped 2 days in a row. I am going again tomorrow to walmart...so if my temp goes back up tomorrow and still no af by sat and sat my temp is still above coverline, then i will test.
 
laus - i think if they know you are ttc, you can just say something like "i've gone cold turkey on the alcohol thing" - without having to say anything about where you are at in the cycle. yes? no?
mama, fx! oh so fx!
welcome laci!
 
i hope your temp goes up mama i really do then you get your :bfp:

I have decided to test tomorrow eeeek bloody scared to death! But i kinda know what it is already going to be. I know that is negative thinking but i just know my body now. Why test then? because i think it will just lift a bit of the pressure of my shoulders :shrug:

Thanks hw, she just tx me before saying she thinks she has a water infection and if it gets worse she will have to get some antibiotics which means we wont be going out sat. I feel really bad for her but at the same time i am thinking ok get out clause. Anyway how you feeling huni?
 
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