Need some buddies 1dpo, its a waiting game!

[HWPG]

hi! what is a water infection? and why cant you go out? but yes, i suppose you do get a "pass card!"
i am feeling like, "ok, get done with af so i can have sex like bunnies again, get a pos opk, and a bfp. RIGHT. NOW!" (i'm also selfishly feeling like, "ok, you get to drink this weekend but then you get at least 1 more month of your body, so get to the gym asap Lard-o") - i am also feeling very angry at my friend who got pregnant so easily ("i was slippery so we had sex"). i know it's bitchy but i dont want her advice or sympathy or anything - so havent told her anything about anything. which hurts me and hurts our friendship, and she doesnt even know it. which makes me feel like an arse. so cyclical feelings about inadequacy and unfairness and such - but i think i need to feel that a little and then another day, i'll feel compassionate to her again. (another day, but not today).
here's a question: i have my annual exam on the 18th. during my fertile time. so - do i make a new appointment or do i just tell the doc when i go in that "i had sex last night, sorry 'bout that"? i dont think they can reschedule quickly (drs offices, am i right here?) - so i'm thinking just wing it. plus, same partner 3 years... low risk for std and stuff... should be ok, yes?

 

[laustiredttc]

hey huni its a uti uterine infection i think thats what she called it? I feel really bad for her, i really do but i am scared that if i go i will have to make all manner of excuses? Oh well we shall see!

hw dont worry about the fact your feeling angry, sad, bitchy etc... it is more than normal hun just get it all out of your system sweetie also i would try to reschedule the app hun as it can mess up your result and then if it comes back as abnormal or something you will only be brought back for more tests etc.... stress you don't need.

 

[Snizuitz]

Hi ladies! Popping in again here to let you know you are all FABULOUS!

Hw-- I'm so sorry for the disappointment, but I have to say that I appreciated your sharing your feelings. I have done the crying in the shower thing. It's so hard to go through this!! But sometimes it gets easier, which is nice.

AFM, I am 7dpo and having a much easier time of it this month. No nausea from the meds or anything. Progesterone is starting to wear on me (feels like two weeks of PMS!), but it's OK. Haven't made an appointment with the regular gyno yet to see what she thinks of our possible theories, but that should be happening maybe a week from Monday.

But frankly, it's probably my weight that's screwing it all up. I've been trying to lose and eating a low-ish carb, low-ish calorie diet for the last couple weeks. I've lost nothing and even GAINED 4 pounds this week. Yeah. Nice job.

 

[MamaTo2Girls]

Laus-hope you enjoy yourself saturday if you get out. I agree with hw...just tell them your not drinking, you'd like a water instead or order a virgin drink!? lol Have fun girl! Good luck testing tomorrow, FX!

Hw-I would reschedule also, putting it off won't hurt anything. Like you said, same partner, etc. Looks like your spirits are lifted a little bit. Glad to see.

Sniz-FX for you and glad you feel a little more at ease. I hope you get a bfp before you have to go through a series of invasive tests with your regular gyno. But if you must, then good luck with everything and like I've said before, I hope you get answers...and get they asap so you can on track!

And thank you all so much for still having hope in me getting a bfp. It means a lot.

 

[Brayr08]

Well laus, I bought a couple pregnancy tests today, so I am all set for the morning. IF I Oed when I think I possibly might have, then it will only be 8DPO, so the chances of me getting a BFP are slim to non, but what the hell? I love supporting my POAS addiction.

 

[laustiredttc]

hi girls just thought i would update. stark this morning. stupid stupid body!!!

 

[MamaTo2Girls]

Lovely morning! (not)!!! Im up early, I temped and cant go back to sleep, my f*in throat is killing me and the only good news is my temp went up again!!!

Laus, im sorry!

Bray, hope u od when u think u did! Good luck testing tomorrow! I might test with you if af doesnt come today and my temp is still good tomorrow.

 

[laustiredttc]

yey mama great news on the temp rise

 

[Brayr08]

Well Laus, I also got a this morning (which I expected). My temp is still going up, so that makes me happy. When shall we test again?

Mama, that's awesome that your temp is still going up. I'm sorry you're not feeling well though. DH was sick for almost a week w/a terrable sore throat. Hope you're not getting the same thing!

Sniz-You are one day behind me (I think...)
I feel you on the weight thing! I am not fat, but I've put on like 15 pounds (yikes!)
and am trying desperatley to get it off. I figure the smaller I am when I start my
pregnancy, the smaller I'll be at the end of it, right? Anyways, I've been trying to
eat fewer calaries, but making sure the calories I eat are usefull ones. It's taken a
bit, but I'm finally down at least 5 pounds, which isn't much, but hey, 5 pounds is
five pounds.

 

[laustiredttc]

hey bray thinking of testing tomorrow. not expecting much though. Big evap line today just wishing it was a nice pink one

 

[laustiredttc]

ps HAPPY FRIDAY EVERYONE

 

[Brayr08]

I didn't even get an evap line, which is fine by me. I don't want there to be anything if I'm not going to be pregnant this month. I'll test tomorrow with you too.

And hey girls, we've reached 100 pages. Yey!!!

 

[HWPG]

happy friday!
bray and laus, sorry for the bfn. hoping your temps stay up - you too Mama! that is such good news!
afm, bad cramps today, ugh! took ibruprofen and rubbed some nice oils on my belly - just waiting for that to kick in.... looking forward to the end of the day. ordered more opks last night, already "excited" to start charting september. cheers!

 

[laustiredttc]

yey 100 page anniversary

got some more cm today, but i guess i prob had the same last month oh the joys of ss

 

[HWPG]

hi ladies!
i'm headed out to a "girls only weekend" - should be a mostly fun time except for a) talk about the women there who are pregnant and b) questions about if i am ttc. i wont temp the next couple days (yea, try to explain *that* to a bunch of nosy hens!) but will start up again monday morning! enjoy the weekend and i cant wait to catch up already and find out about peeps tests! GL, baby dust, incense, karma, mojo, fx... i could go on....!!!!!

 

[Brayr08]

Have a good time HW!!!

 

[laustiredttc]

hey hw i hope you have a great time and if tey ask just say you have not really given it much thought just yet!! Enjoy your weekend

Update: big fat negative this morning. I am afraid that this month is def a bust. Temp also went down to 98.17. Oh well fs on the 20th hopefully start to get some answers.
How are the rest of you ladies doing?

 

[Brayr08]

I also got a BFN Laus...but, at the very most, I'm 9DPO, so, wasn't expecting anything. My temp stayed the same as yesterday. I'm actually very relaxed about this month. I don't think I'll be upset if/when AF shows up. I like being this way. It's a lot less painful.

 

[MamaTo2Girls]

slept like crap lastnight, woke up sweatingto death, took my temp a little early and it was 99.8, cuz i'm sick....and took a frer test but bfn Afterwards i wiped and had a tiny spot of red so probably gonna be starting today....at least my luteal phase is a day longer. I can't believe another month, gone, wasted and bfn....we did everything we could and i don't what is going on with my body or hubbys but i'm really about ready to give it up. Next month, I am not going to temp, never did before with any of pregnancies...might only do it to confirm and see which day i ovulated. Hope you all have a wonderful day.

 

[laustiredttc]

sorry to hear that huni. I'm glad you have a good outlook on it. Will be taking that with me today.

Not going into the city but will be going locally instead. I know its a bit of a no no but i KNOW i am out so will be having a few glasses of wine tonight. I just no girls that its not going to happen this month. There is nothing to say at all i will get my My cycle has been pretty much the same as all the other months so, just going to have a nice time with friends and dh. Hope you all have a lovely weekend. The weather is fabulous here so off to enjoy some rare sunshine

just edited. mama i'm really sorry huni i really thought this was your month. Dont give up hun we're all right behind you. i think it might do you good hun not to temp this month, give yourself a bit of a break from it. I hope that you have a nice weekend with your family. Will check in with you ladies soon