Need some buddies 1dpo, its a waiting game!

[MamaTo2Girls]

Laus-well your not out until she shows and sometimes women get preggo with no symptoms at all and feel like af is coming.... still have fx for you!

My temp is still up today only went down .08 degrees... cd26 today, 11dpo...did not test this morning, didn't want to see another bfn. Last month my af came day after today and that also was a short month for me, i usually at least have a 28-30 day cycle. So, not sure when af is gonna come, hope she doesn't.

How are the rest of you?

 

[HWPG]

morning! i feel frustrated today - i'd cd17 and had all these great signs of Ov, but no pos opk. and i've been quite attentive, poas twice a day, and even asked OH for confirmation about how dark or light the test line is. FF is not helpful: "it appears you ovulated between cd7 and cd16". um, thanks. temp is still "down" - it's about where it was after O last month, but not any higher than any other temp this month. and i'm panicked that either i missed a pos opk or that i had all the symptoms and no O. i want to say i'm not too bothered, but i'm annoyed that things were going to so well and then... wtf happened? maybe it's still coming, maybe not. i just hope that every other day is frequent enough.... stupid body. stupid taking my temp every morning. stupid everything.

 

[HWPG]

and laus, i have the same thing here.... OH is short fused because of some home improvement projects we have going, and i am because of my frustrating body (see above), so our conversations are like, "good morning! i love you! hey, (insert inane comment, like why didnt you put the cap on the toothpaste?)" reply: "why do you have to be all over me about the toothpaste, woman!?!" reply, "whoa, ok, chill the f out".... proceed to 10 mins of stupid fighting, and then both sides apologizing like kids on a playground and being friends again. and then repeat 1 hour later over what to watch on TV. stupid hormones.

 

[TaylorDF]

9 DPO today. The pinching as finally ceased. Now the few things I notice are when I button my pants, the pressure of them pushed up against my uterus/ovaries hurts. Like I'm about to start my period.-- but I NEVER get this before my period. Ever. And I have absolutely no appetite. I have had to force myself to eat the past two or three days. My stomach itself was GROWLING at 2am last night but I still didn't feel 'hungry'... It's weird because I LOVE to eat. ANDDD last but not least - creamy CM, VERY sore boobs, and a general malaise feeling ............... I'm so ready for the trigger and all it's synthetic glory to be out of my system. ..

 

[TaylorDF]

HWPG - that was EXACTLY what happened to us last night!! Ridiculous!!! We fought yesterday because (after a large BBQ dinner) he said "hmmm I need a snack." so I said "there's that yummy left over Mexican rice from last night. Just heat that up." "No I'm not really wanting that." "ok (I suggest 8 more things all oh which he declines)" and then I say "OK WELL NEVER MIND. Figure it out yourself!!!!" (you can pretty much fill in the rest of the stupid argument that should never have been an argument in the first place. Oops. And it was the same apology style as yours "babe. I love you and I don't want to fight. I don't even know what exactly just happened." then all was fine. ...... What is wrong w me? Hahaja

 

[JennyBLove]

hehe doesnt sound like anything wrong with you lol sounds like he was just be indecisive lol......little bickering is okay hehe me n my guy do it all the time!!! then it ends with the same thing "baby i love you" they funny. men got pms too but its called something else but they get it every mo too but of course its nothing like us and our horomones look it up sometimme hehe

 

[HWPG]

i blame the men - they know we're hormonal/stressed/frustrated/sad! geesh, can't they just be charming and lovely and make dinner?

 

[JennyBLove]

Right hehehe! yeah i hate when they see us crabby or irritatd and say " aww its just ur rag" and dont take us serious lol like no i would be same way even if it wasn't lol hahaha. thankfully my guy is the chef in the house, but hes gone for three weeks this time for work so just me to cook, at least i dont have to hear whineing the only thing on my nerves today is my annoying a$$ cats lol tearin the house apart lol

 

[TaylorDF]

Ahahaha Jenny I have two cats and the one (my baby) jumps on all the tables and counters and is SUCH a freak. He gets sprayed in the face w water and STILL doesn't get down. He knocks everything off the countertops and tables and insists on sleeping on any and all clean blankets, pillow cases, sheets, couch cushions, etc. he must really like the smell of fabric softener.

 

[JennyBLove]

Ahahaha Jenny I have two cats and the one (my baby) jumps on all the tables and counters and is SUCH a freak. He gets sprayed in the face w water and STILL doesn't get down. He knocks everything off the countertops and tables and insists on sleeping on any and all clean blankets, pillow cases, sheets, couch cushions, etc. he must really like the smell of fabric softener.

hehehe me to i have two n OMG they drive me nuts sometimes/alot....belle the girl just knocked a dish off the counter, water does not work with mine either ever, i just make that loud TSSSSS noise and they scatter lol try that!!! works everytime!! just to calm them down i give em soft fodd so they fill up and go to sleep lol or ill play with them till they are passed out haha. yeah they love clean sheets n stuff. get her a laser light to wear her out!!! my boy will come up and nibble me and hit me to pay attention to him haha creep

 

[TaylorDF]

For all intensive purposes I'm counting this perpetual cramping ( 5dpo onward ) a good sign. HCG or no HCG.

 

[HWPG]

i just realized that next weekend, my best friend is coming for a couple days. you all know- the one who just told me she's pregnant. *sigh* "oh lord give me strength (not to be a good friend, 'cause i can do that, but to not have her hear me cry at the end of the night)".
i like your positive attitude, Taylor. Hold on to good thoughts!

 

[MamaTo2Girls]

warning (tmi)... sorry but need opinions please!... i'm 11dpo if af same as last month (26 days)which I'm cd26 today so kind of expecting af tomorrow maybe? never had a short cycle like that so not sure if be the same, usually i'm 28-30 day cycle but anyways i just went pee and had a little glob of pinkish/brownish mucus, not blood but mucus...so after i was done, i checked with my finger inside and swirled around my cervix and pulled it out but clear?..no blood, nothing so thought if I was gonna start af tomorrow that there would be some indication on my finger when i checked? ill have to check again later...what do you gals think? isnt implantation spotting, actual blood or can it be mucus too? just gave me a little hope is all, so i'm curious?

 

[HWPG]

so, with no experience of my own, but from word of mouth of many of my friends, they DEF had "weird" discharge in the beginning of pregnancy - truly ranging from blood (red) to what it sounds like you are describing, Mama - sorta like CM texture but with color. I will say as a caveat - i have also done the "pre-AF swirl" and found nothing, but then still got attacked by the Witch.... i dunno, i'm sorry if that is not helpful, but i still think it could go either way. (but i'm still chanting and crossing for you!!!)

 

[MamaTo2Girls]

thanks hw... i shouldn't get my hopes up...i'm never gonna get preggo again it seems. we've never had to really try this hard...i just want to give up. will pray that god gives you strength and courage to get through next weekend. Hopefully she won't mention it at all, and not rub it in your face.

 

[HWPG]

i'm honestly sorry that i'm useless when it comes to advice. i seriously think that ANY sign of anything, anytime, could go either way - so i understand your frustration. blood? either way. CM? either way. cramps? either way. gas? bloating? emotions? acne? i, also, feel like it will never happen to me - i have no kids, never been pregnant, nothing - and i feel like it will always be that way. so, i'm having wine tonight for dinner, woot woot! cheers to my ladies

 

[JennyBLove]

i'm honestly sorry that i'm useless when it comes to advice. i seriously think that ANY sign of anything, anytime, could go either way - so i understand your frustration. blood? either way. CM? either way. cramps? either way. gas? bloating? emotions? acne? i, also, feel like it will never happen to me - i have no kids, never been pregnant, nothing - and i feel like it will always be that way. so, i'm having wine tonight for dinner, woot woot! cheers to my ladies

yeah i understand that, i'm kinda same way....i always think maybe its cuz of preg but also think prolly just af......ive been preg one time and honestly it was the exacct same syptoms except when i was two weeks late my friends mom said she thought i was n i said nah no im not all i had was sore nipples, but agian i was younger like 5 yearss ago n wasnt trying to. either way if this is not my month ill be fine cuz im going out of town on next friday till monday to see my man n ill wanna have drinks lol but either way i'm good hehe

 

[Brayr08]

Mama-I have read that blood mixed in w/cm can be a sign of pregnancy, but as HW said, almost every pregnancy symptom can be associated w/AF...that stupid Are you planning on testing tomorrow?

HWPG-Good luck w/your friend. If she truly is a good friend, she shouldn't be upset/offended even if you do end up crying by the end of the night.

AFM: The IUI went well. DH had over 98 million good post wash so you'd think that one of those little guys would end up bumping into an egg.

 

[MamaTo2Girls]

yes bray if temp still up in am i suppose i will test again...if neg i am sure i'm out. if still no af by wed i will maybe test again since that is the latest i should get af. thanks.. how are you feeling?

 

[HWPG]

I'm so sorry! I owe you all an apology. I am clearly grumpy and I'm sorry I posted such a downer response. Mama, specifically, I was not trying to kill your buzz, and I'm very sorry. I will take the grumps to the vent thread next time. Sorry.