MissMooMoo
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Hi Ladies,
It was confirmed yesterday that my grandad (who I am really close too) has bladder cancer and nothing can be done. He has been ill in hospital for the last 8 weeks so in my heart I new it was coming but it is still a shock. He is now well enough to come home and be with his family instead of the hospital. He is still 'with it completely' and has all his marbles and can walk etc. I coulc be weeks but more likely months, none of the doctors know.
I am devestated and am worried how this could affect my baby. I feel guilty as I am so excited counting the weeks untill our little one arrives but at the same time feel guilty as it means less time of him being around. I feel I should be around my family who all live close but this only upsets me more. My mum keeps telling me to put me, DH and baby first as we have waited so long for this but I cant hold back the tears. I hear so many horror stories about how cancer effects you at the end and am dreading this. I have never lost anyone before (even though I am sure that dont make it any easier), I know he is old (85) and these things happen and there are people who have to deal with far worse situations.
It feels just so cruel, as a time when we should be excited is being taken over by this horrid disease.
Thanks for listening
xxx
It was confirmed yesterday that my grandad (who I am really close too) has bladder cancer and nothing can be done. He has been ill in hospital for the last 8 weeks so in my heart I new it was coming but it is still a shock. He is now well enough to come home and be with his family instead of the hospital. He is still 'with it completely' and has all his marbles and can walk etc. I coulc be weeks but more likely months, none of the doctors know.
I am devestated and am worried how this could affect my baby. I feel guilty as I am so excited counting the weeks untill our little one arrives but at the same time feel guilty as it means less time of him being around. I feel I should be around my family who all live close but this only upsets me more. My mum keeps telling me to put me, DH and baby first as we have waited so long for this but I cant hold back the tears. I hear so many horror stories about how cancer effects you at the end and am dreading this. I have never lost anyone before (even though I am sure that dont make it any easier), I know he is old (85) and these things happen and there are people who have to deal with far worse situations.
It feels just so cruel, as a time when we should be excited is being taken over by this horrid disease.
Thanks for listening
xxx