Need some help deciding......

[Hazelnut]

Hi girls,
I haven't been on for a while as I suffered a MC in July.
At my scan they said that I have a biocornuate uterus, which is when there is a dip in the uterus...some say it's like a heart shape. I was told it won't stop us getting pregnant but it may increase the chance of MC, and that I may need more monitoring.

Anyway, we decided we needed a break from ttc just for a couple of months and then start again.

Well, we have now booked a Carribean cruise in Jan for my 30th birthday, but i am really struggling as I feel like i am in limbo land if you know what i mean.

For instance, do we start trying again now, as we are both ready again and I've had 2 periods now. But what about if the doctors say I can't go on holiday? We have insurance but we do want to go away but I so much want to start trying again. We are also going with my parents so then if I do have to cancel then they will be left. Am i making sense??

I have an appt with my gynae consultant at the end of Oct and I've thought, shall I wait and ask him but then that's another cycle and we're just waiting.

Oh, I do hope i've made sense, and thanks in advance if you reply. x x x x x

 

[mummy2lola]

hey hun,im so sorry for ur loss.i dont know wether this is good advice or not so sorry in advance lol if u started trying again now than u would b monitored closely but by the time jan came the worst would be over.dont put any of ur dreams on hold.gl with everything xx

 

[Hazelnut]

hey hun,im so sorry for ur loss.i dont know wether this is good advice or not so sorry in advance lol if u started trying again now than u would b monitored closely but by the time jan came the worst would be over.dont put any of ur dreams on hold.gl with everything xx

Thank you hunni.
That is my other worry too, that say if i fall pregnant in Nov/Dec, I will be flying during those first few to 12 weeks. X X

 

[Hazelnut]

Anyone else ay thoughs? x

 

[babyhopes2010]

sorry for your loss.its decision only you can make....
maybe try until 12 weeks in advance or try and make your decision if if u get ur bfp within 12 weeks of hols

 

[mummy2lola]

hey hun,im so sorry for ur loss.i dont know wether this is good advice or not so sorry in advance lol if u started trying again now than u would b monitored closely but by the time jan came the worst would be over.dont put any of ur dreams on hold.gl with everything xx

Thank you hunni.
That is my other worry too, that say if i fall pregnant in Nov/Dec, I will be flying during those first few to 12 weeks. X X

yeah i can understand that hun,i wouldnt want to fly at that stage,maybe try up until u know there wouldnt b any risk and ntnp for a couple of months til the cruise xx