Need some reassurance over names..

[2have4kids]

Making false allegations to social services is an offence. Not sure if it's only civil or criminal in your jurisdiction but you would have rights to sue her for damages if that ever happened. Just saying! We had a tenant charged with harassment and received damages through the courts. 90% of people just don't want the negative situation to come their way and try to ignore and keep it out of their lives the best way they know how. With our little stalker she'd already made a false physical injury claim against a company and had it in email that she was going to do the same to us if... bla bla bla we don't give her money in varying forms. You simply issue a No Trespass statement to people like this and then once that's broken a no contact order from the court. Once they break that it goes into the criminal realm and they get charged with harassment. A false allegation may get you to this end quicker than the aforementioned steps. Once adjudicated she may have to do community service or pay fines if the judge thinks she have a lesson still to be learned. Seeing that our lady at the tender age of 22 had a pattern, she had to pay the court/victims fines and do community service. We took it all the way so that there's a paper trail with her. I also reported our court orders for her in her tenancy damages and harassment conviction to the tenancy bureau. We could have easily gone on living our lives and let her harass her next victim but I was so angry that she felt so entitled to do this to us emotionally and wanting a free ride out of everyone/everything she touched. So we were careful to collect everything she sent us, create police reports, dates, print off nasty texts & emails, keep phone messages etc. I'm sure this won't happen to you and being your mother you wouldn't take it to court but if you delete or throw out your paper trail you have no options and if she does something that hurts you and your family it may be seen as the first time to an authority figure, who may shuffle you off or may not necessarily believe you. Keep a long paper trail of any offending evidence with people like this - always!