Need some support this cycle!

[lovecats]

Hi!I am currently on cycle day 2 as af came on time this month which hasn't happened for a while.I am hoping that hormones have regulated and this month will be a lucky one.I always feel a little disheartened at the beginning of a cycle as it seems like such a stretch of time ahead before trying again..
I am looking for some support to help me get through this dragged out time as all my usual supporters have all left and are now in the first and second trimesters.
I'm really hoping to see a Bfp this month!Who wants to join me?????

 

[borr.dg.baby]

I can join your wait, I am 3 DPO but I'll wait it out with you. GL! I hope you get your BFP this month!

 

[MirandaH]

I am on CD 4, but I will wait it out with you too! My temps are a hot mess. Good luck and tons of

 

[lovecats]

I can join your wait, I am 3 DPO but I'll wait it out with you. GL! I hope you get your BFP this month!

Thanks!I wish I were 3dpo right now!How long have you been trying?Goodluck!

 

[borr.dg.baby]

Thanks, this is our 2nd month TTC, got off BCP sep 25. I did OPKs this month and my temps show O on CD15.

 

[lovecats]

I am on CD 4, but I will wait it out with you too! My temps are a hot mess. Good luck and tons of

Hi MirandaH!Thanks for joining!Lets hope this month will be our lucky one!
I am hoping to test on the 11th december depending on how I feel but that is only if I have symptoms.Every month for the last three I have had no symptoms at all.

 

[lovecats]

Thanks, this is our 2nd month TTC, got off BCP sep 25. I did OPKs this month and my temps show O on CD15.

I am on my 10th cycle and I tried opk's last month for the first time but didn't manage to get a positive so still was a little unsure of when I actually o'd but I think it was either cd15,16 or 17.Still not sure how long my luteal phase is but am pretty sure it is 14 or 15 days,it seems to tie up with all my last cycles.I have been quite irregular the past 4 months so it has been a little difficult to track things!

 

[borr.dg.baby]

I got a really close to positive OPK on CD15 but not quite positive... But I guess it was because FF confirmed O with my temps.. Here's a pic



That's the closest I got this month, a few hours later it was negative. So I guess a have a really short surge. You can look at my chart too and see that FF considered O on CD15... I've hear of ladies getting neg OPKs on IC but then a smiley face so I think this is what happened this month?

 

[Ayjay]

I'll join you lovecats, I'm currently cd5 but I have an unpredictable cycle. GL to us all this month

 

[lovecats]

I'll join you lovecats, I'm currently cd5 but I have an unpredictable cycle. GL to us all this month

Welcome Ayjay!Thankyou for joining!My cycles have been 25-34 days so it has been a nightmare trying to track 'O' but last cycle was my usual 31 day so i'm hoping i'll 'O' between cd 16-18.(That is if I have another 31 day)I had ovulated on cd12 before so it kinda threw me off!
Goodluck to you all!

 

[lovecats]

I got a really close to positive OPK on CD15 but not quite positive... But I guess it was because FF confirmed O with my temps.. Here's a pic

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That's the closest I got this month, a few hours later it was negative. So I guess a have a really short surge. You can look at my chart too and see that FF considered O on CD15... I've hear of ladies getting neg OPKs on IC but then a smiley face so I think this is what happened this month?

I used the clearblue smilies but didn't test positive.I think maybe I had a short surge and just tested at the wrong time.I tested at 2o'clock each day,some don't get the surge until later in the day so if I were to test again I might adjust the time?

 

[MirandaH]

I am on CD 4, but I will wait it out with you too! My temps are a hot mess. Good luck and tons of

Hi MirandaH!Thanks for joining!Lets hope this month will be our lucky one!
I am hoping to test on the 11th december depending on how I feel but that is only if I have symptoms.Every month for the last three I have had no symptoms at all.

I had a ton on symptoms last month when I don't normally, unless I am pregnant. I was so certain that I was pregnant and then AF showed up 4 days early, which also never happens. I have three children already, and have been with the same doctor forever because I have difficult pregnancies and some health issues that make me high risk and she knows me very well and had me go in to the hospital for bloodwork this weekend to check to make sure it wasn't a chemical. I would be shocked if it wasn't because I got light BFPs on 4 different tests, different brands, from different stores.

I didn't start temping until CD9 and FF said I didn't o, so if my bloodwork comes back that it was a chemical, I will probably start using OPKs this month. I had several chemicals, M/Cs and a blighted ovum before I had my first and then after him there were no problems getting and staying pregnant, but they were all very difficult pregnancies. I am hoping that this isn't the start of a bunch of problems jut keeping a baby in there again, but who knows. I was with my kids dad for 17 years and I am now about to get married to someone new and he is 9 years younger than I am and only has one child from his previous relationship, but really wants a boy. I am a nervous wreck about all of it, which I am sure is not helping. But I can't help but freak out!

 

[borr.dg.baby]

I think it's better to test 2 times a day to make sure you don't miss it... I think maybe you missed it...

 

[lovecats]

I am on CD 4, but I will wait it out with you too! My temps are a hot mess. Good luck and tons of

Hi MirandaH!Thanks for joining!Lets hope this month will be our lucky one!
I am hoping to test on the 11th december depending on how I feel but that is only if I have symptoms.Every month for the last three I have had no symptoms at all.

I had a ton on symptoms last month when I don't normally, unless I am pregnant. I was so certain that I was pregnant and then AF showed up 4 days early, which also never happens. I have three children already, and have been with the same doctor forever because I have difficult pregnancies and some health issues that make me high risk and she knows me very well and had me go in to the hospital for bloodwork this weekend to check to make sure it wasn't a chemical. I would be shocked if it wasn't because I got light BFPs on 4 different tests, different brands, from different stores.

I didn't start temping until CD9 and FF said I didn't o, so if my bloodwork comes back that it was a chemical, I will probably start using OPKs this month. I had several chemicals, M/Cs and a blighted ovum before I had my first and then after him there were no problems getting and staying pregnant, but they were all very difficult pregnancies. I am hoping that this isn't the start of a bunch of problems jut keeping a baby in there again, but who knows. I was with my kids dad for 17 years and I am now about to get married to someone new and he is 9 years younger than I am and only has one child from his previous relationship, but really wants a boy. I am a nervous wreck about all of it, which I am sure is not helping. But I can't help but freak out!

I'm sorry to hear you have been troubled!Try not to let it get you down too much.I do know how it can all get a little too much sometimes,being on my tenth cycle I have had my ups and downs too.We can stress about things too much sometimes and that won't help anything.Try to be positive and make sure you talk about any issues you may have as this can help too.Remember we are all in the same boat and it's good to talk!

 

[lovecats]

I think it's better to test 2 times a day to make sure you don't miss it... I think maybe you missed it...

Thanks!Will definately be taking two a day this cycle....I'm determined to see that smiley this month!

 

[borr.dg.baby]

GL! when are you due for AF?

 

[lovecats]

GL! when are you due for AF?

I am due af on the 11th december,so I have a long wait ahead of me yet!
I am only on cycle day 3 and will 'O' somewhere from cd15-18.(Hopefully)...that is if my cycle has regulated itself.

 

[borr.dg.baby]

Oh my! Yes you do! Make sure you catch that surge!! You should try temping also! It helps confirm O.! (Sorry if you said you do chart, sometimes I forget things lol)

 

[lewood88]

Hey hun i kno im not the same cd as you but can i join im on cd 18 and this is my 9th month of ttc im starting too loose faith

 

[lovecats]

Hey hun i kno im not the same cd as you but can i join im on cd 18 and this is my 9th month of ttc im starting too loose faith

Welcome lewood!
I know how you feel about losing faith...each month I feel like giving up but I think the percentage is about 84% for getting preg before a year of trying.I keep telling myself that I haven't got too long to go now and live in hope that it will happen very soon.It is so disheartening when each month you feel like you are going nowhere but I try to think that my body is preparing itself for that special time and it will come for both of us...Just hang in there,it will happen!