need some thoughts

[lsu2011]

hello i am needing some information my husband and i have been trying to conceive and well after being disappointed he just started using a condom to give us a break and well we were drinking (sept. 11th and sept. 13th) and well lets say we didnt think about the condom but he pulled out both times (maybe a minute before he ejaculated) and went on my thighs but then wiped the cum with his fingers and fingered me (way up there) not even a minute after. Well my fertile days were Sept. 13th-Sept. 18th and I know sperm can live inside you for a while. Well Sept. 14th I woke up and started throwing up (probably because of the drinking but I NEVER throw up after drinking) and then for the next 3 days or so I was still really nausea and could barely eat. I have also been having cramps and tingling feelings in my lower abdomen area. I was just wondering what are the possibilities...