Need suggestions for OH- tmi ?

[pdmcd17]

Okay so I'm getting ready to ov any time and
My oh is having finishing issues. It was very rare before but this week it is happening alot.

I have backed off trying to seduce him, so we bd when he is ready. But even then it's hit or miss.
We've talked about if he's ready to have a baby and he says he is, he says he's not stressed or worried, and it isn't me.

Anyone else have similar issues and how did you handle it?
Thanks ladies

 

[Desperado167]

Hi Hun,dh was having similar probs as I was expecting him to bd 8 nites in a row ,tried him on macaroot and he was able to bd ten days in a row ,I did get my bfp with my first month of macca but sadly I mc ,he was taking one teaspoon of Maca a day in a cherry yog,it increased his sex drive and he def had more energy and was more able to bd for longer and more often,I got mine in a powder form from a health shop,good luck hun,Dh is 46,

 

[onmymind17]

Hi Hun,dh was having similar probs as I was expecting him to bd 8 nites in a row ,tried him on macaroot and he was able to bd ten days in a row ,I did get my bfp with my first month of macca but sadly I mc ,he was taking one teaspoon of Maca a day in a cherry yog,it increased his sex drive and he def had more energy and was more able to bd for longer and more often,I got mine in a powder form from a health shop,good luck hun,Dh is 46,

Oh i am so going to get some of this for my DH!!!!

 

[Desperado167]

Hi Hun,dh was having similar probs as I was expecting him to bd 8 nites in a row ,tried him on macaroot and he was able to bd ten days in a row ,I did get my bfp with my first month of macca but sadly I mc ,he was taking one teaspoon of Maca a day in a cherry yog,it increased his sex drive and he def had more energy and was more able to bd for longer and more often,I got mine in a powder form from a health shop,good luck hun,Dh is 46,

Oh i am so going to get some of this for my DH!!!!

Wen I first got it I tried to mix it sneakily into his coffee but the powder floated on the top and he caught on ,thought I was trying to poison him lol,so I had to own up ,wen he took it for a few days I told him the sex was amazing and the macca made him way harder down below,the next morning I came into the kitchen early and he was standing there making it up himself to take bright and early

 

[Indigo77]

Give him some maca!

If that doesn't work....add some horny goat's weed!

 

[Indigo77]

Hi Hun,dh was having similar probs as I was expecting him to bd 8 nites in a row ,tried him on macaroot and he was able to bd ten days in a row ,I did get my bfp with my first month of macca but sadly I mc ,he was taking one teaspoon of Maca a day in a cherry yog,it increased his sex drive and he def had more energy and was more able to bd for longer and more often,I got mine in a powder form from a health shop,good luck hun,Dh is 46,

Oh i am so going to get some of this for my DH!!!!

Wen I first got it I tried to mix it sneakily into his coffee but the powder floated on the top and he caught on ,thought I was trying to poison him lol,so I had to own up ,wen he took it for a few days I told him the sex was amazing and the macca made him way harder down below,the next morning I came into the kitchen early and he was standing there making it up himself to take bright and early

Melly told him it looked bigger after he took it.....

 

[luvmydoggies]

I think I have to put dh on the maca root powder...and tell him he looks bigger....he will never stop taking it after that!

 

[sumatwsimit]

Hi Hun,dh was having similar probs as I was expecting him to bd 8 nites in a row ,tried him on macaroot and he was able to bd ten days in a row ,I did get my bfp with my first month of macca but sadly I mc ,he was taking one teaspoon of Maca a day in a cherry yog,it increased his sex drive and he def had more energy and was more able to bd for longer and more often,I got mine in a powder form from a health shop,good luck hun,Dh is 46,

Oh i am so going to get some of this for my DH!!!!

Wen I first got it I tried to mix it sneakily into his coffee but the powder floated on the top and he caught on ,thought I was trying to poison him lol,so I had to own up ,wen he took it for a few days I told him the sex was amazing and the macca made him way harder down below,the next morning I came into the kitchen early and he was standing there making it up himself to take bright and early

you've made me smile this morning with this one. i can just imagine your poor guy looking into his coffee thinking wtf is that floating! jeez she's trying to kill me!!!?

don't ask me how we got onto the subject (totally innocent conversation about fruit and veg...) but a student of mine the other week told me that celery 'root' (not the stick) is a natural form of viagara!? has anyone else heard of that? i thought he was winding me up! went home and asked hubby to which he replied 'why are u asking me, it's obviously his area of concern!' and wasn't remotely phased by the fact id been talking with a student about the male performance.

 

[Macwooly]

My DH is on horny goat's weed and maca root and there are days I want to hide his supplements so I can get some

Pdmcd - it might be worth a try for your DH Sorry not sure what to suggest other wise

 

[TessieTwo]

Hellooo!
Yes, i had a similar problem this cycle - DH has been getting performance anxiety and struggles to "finish the job"

It's been made worse by trying to shift him into the missonary pre "finish" as I accidentally mentioned that it is considered the best for getting everything where it should be...ahem! So now whenever we get to that position he starts thinking that he must, must, MUST finish the job...and so creates all this anxiety.

So, to counteract that anxiety we've done it in all the wrong positions this cycle, ha ha, but we've done it 5 days straight around O time, so maybe quantity will outweigh the positional shortcomings (if you pardon the pun!!)

If not, then it's every other day next cycle, so hopefully that will sort out any issues as he'll be raring to go! He IS the horny goat that the goatweed is named after!

to all

xxx

 

[pdmcd17]

Thanks ladies
I am gonna get some for him
It is nice to know I am not alone

you are all amazing and it was nice to be able to laugh at your story the poison one

 

[onmymind17]

I know with my DH whenever he starts to "Freeze up" I just stop him and put my hands on his face and i kiss him and tell him "Your trying too hard, stop trying and just feel" it usually works for him, i try to put more emphasis on enjoying it rather than that he has to finish. No your not alone in this thats for sure, i think men really want a baby and are totaly freaked out by it at the same time lol.

 

[future_numan]

Thanks ladies
I am gonna get some for him
It is nice to know I am not alone

you are all amazing and it was nice to be able to laugh at your story the poison one

If you happen to find where we can buy "horny goats week ir maca" let me know.
I would like to try DH on it but can't find it anywhere !

 

[Macwooly]

Thanks ladies
I am gonna get some for him
It is nice to know I am not alone

you are all amazing and it was nice to be able to laugh at your story the poison one

If you happen to find where we can buy "horny goats week ir maca" let me know.
I would like to try DH on it but can't find it anywhere !

Unfortunately the company I use only ships to European countries

But I have found a company with stores in Canada that sells on line too which sells horny goats weed & maca root. Here is the link for the goats weed page: https://www.gnc.com/product/index.jsp?productId=2133770

 

[Mellybelle]

https://www.ebay.com.au/itm/Now-Foo...trition_Natural_Therapies&hash=item1e5fae60c2

and

https://www.ebay.com.au/itm/Ultimat...auty_Vitamins_Supplements&hash=item20b099b611

hope these links work. I just bought them in Australia from GoVita (health food store). Keep in mind, these products really do work better if you tell him 'its bigger!'.
And, I have a theory that it makes the little swimmers more determined.

 

[Desperado167]

I know with my DH whenever he starts to "Freeze up" I just stop him and put my hands on his face and i kiss him and tell him "Your trying too hard, stop trying and just feel" it usually works for him, i try to put more emphasis on enjoying it rather than that he has to finish. No your not alone in this thats for sure, i think men really want a baby and are totaly freaked out by it at the same time lol.

Awwwwww that's so lovely and tender,

 

[pdmcd17]

well im off to the health food store to see if i can get them as this cycle was a bust i ov the other day and we only finished once on sun and the past few days we couldn't as he was sick. I was hoping my ov would hold off as i was late already because of my soy/

on to my next cycle well at least i wont symptom spot this cycle as there is no chance. If there not at the store then i will get them online thanks for the links mac. Good luck to everyone else.

 

[onmymind17]

I talked to DH last night about the Maca Root, and he is all for trying it, does it matter if its in pill or powder form? Should i also give him Horny Goat? is that what its called, i am cracking up here with that name lol. How often and how much should i give him? Thanks for all your help ladies!! I am lucky that we have a Organic vitimin store not far from us they sell everything

 

[tigerlily1975]

well im off to the health food store to see if i can get them as this cycle was a bust i ov the other day and we only finished once on sun and the past few days we couldn't as he was sick. I was hoping my ov would hold off as i was late already because of my soy/

on to my next cycle well at least i wont symptom spot this cycle as there is no chance. If there not at the store then i will get them online thanks for the links mac. Good luck to everyone else.

Hi pdmcd17
This is an ongoing problem for my dh, so much so that we're currently waiting for him to see a therapist - it certainly makes ttc more of a challenge! So, you're definitely not alone! Good luck and I hope the supplements help

C xx

 

[Macwooly]

My DH takes a capsules which combines horny goats weed and maca root (unfortunately the suppliers only ship to europe).

He takes one capsule a day which has 1000mg of horny goats weed and 600mg of maca root.

Maca root is described as the peruvian viagra and DH finds that it does have a mild viagra effect on him which happens within 30-60 minutes so he's not allowed to take it after 10pm