jzgrace
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Dh and I opened our home to a friend in need of shelter. She has been here for 3 months and its starting to drive me mad. She doesnt contribute monetarily. My bills are rising, she doesn't clean up after herself. Even when she sees me cleaning she still leaves trash, dirty dishes, soda bottles, take out cups and her clothing and shoes all over my house.She doesn't buy her own food (I never mind helping someone in need, especially if they need food) she spends what little money she makes on alcohol and hotels with her "boyfriend". We dont allow people who are drunk in our house and she told her boyfriend to come over, when he got here he was wasted
Then my dh told him to leave, she lied to us saying she didnt know he was coming over and said the only way he can get home is if she takes him in MY car. I have to bleach my toilet seat before I use it every time because shes been with several men during her 3 months here, not to mention when she is on af my toilet seat looks lime a murder scene when she leaves the bathroom. She is just disgusting! Had I known she lived like this I would have never let her stay here. There are so many more problems she causes. Like complaining about my husband waking her up in the morning because he had to shovel our car out of the drive (got 12' of snow over night and he wanted to be able to get out quickly incase I went into labor) she thinks she can wake us up at midnight -2 am pounding on our door and ringing our phone over and over to let her in, or at 7 am. But she wants to complain about my dh in MY house! Theres more but my fingers are cramping. She thinks she is going to be staying here when my baby arrives, but I need to find a way to tell her to get out now!! Im a non-confrontational person but I seriously feel like im going to SNAP! I dont want to be mean to her. But I think she has no problems giving my husband and I an attitude. Im nust not like that tho. How do I start the conversation with her about it when I dont even like talking to her at all. She is the type to get loud, I just dont know where to start. Any suggestions? Sorry this is such a long drawn out post. ..
I just need help.
Then my dh told him to leave, she lied to us saying she didnt know he was coming over and said the only way he can get home is if she takes him in MY car. I have to bleach my toilet seat before I use it every time because shes been with several men during her 3 months here, not to mention when she is on af my toilet seat looks lime a murder scene when she leaves the bathroom. She is just disgusting! Had I known she lived like this I would have never let her stay here. There are so many more problems she causes. Like complaining about my husband waking her up in the morning because he had to shovel our car out of the drive (got 12' of snow over night and he wanted to be able to get out quickly incase I went into labor) she thinks she can wake us up at midnight -2 am pounding on our door and ringing our phone over and over to let her in, or at 7 am. But she wants to complain about my dh in MY house! Theres more but my fingers are cramping. She thinks she is going to be staying here when my baby arrives, but I need to find a way to tell her to get out now!! Im a non-confrontational person but I seriously feel like im going to SNAP! I dont want to be mean to her. But I think she has no problems giving my husband and I an attitude. Im nust not like that tho. How do I start the conversation with her about it when I dont even like talking to her at all. She is the type to get loud, I just dont know where to start. Any suggestions? Sorry this is such a long drawn out post. ..
I just need help.