Sparky0207
Mummy to 2 gorgeous girls
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I seem to forget that Lucy has two parents. I am so protective of her and hardly let my OH (or anyone else for that matter) do anything with her. Shes been poorly the last few days and hasnt slept very well so ive been shattered. Yet when my OH offers to look after her so I can get some sleep, I cant sleep for worrying about her!
Whenever he changes her nappy I have to check hes done it right and even if he walks out of the room with her I have to follow him. We're starting to bicker over it because he feels like he cant do anything right and as though I dont trust him with her and I desperatly want to stop my behaviour before any big arguments start.
Im breastfeeding her and love the fact that only I can feed her but I know he is feeling left out. I find myself constantly saying things like 'watch her head' and 'dont do that' when hes got her. He said this morning that I need to remember shes got two parents, shes not just mine, but as awful as it sounds I do think of her as mine, rather than ours. Help!
Whenever he changes her nappy I have to check hes done it right and even if he walks out of the room with her I have to follow him. We're starting to bicker over it because he feels like he cant do anything right and as though I dont trust him with her and I desperatly want to stop my behaviour before any big arguments start.
Im breastfeeding her and love the fact that only I can feed her but I know he is feeling left out. I find myself constantly saying things like 'watch her head' and 'dont do that' when hes got her. He said this morning that I need to remember shes got two parents, shes not just mine, but as awful as it sounds I do think of her as mine, rather than ours. Help!