Need your help ladies

[sarah123]

hi, my name is sarah. i would like your opinion on my situation please, I know people in this section are really clued up on dates and so on & i'm a little confused and would like to know the views of a few outsiders as its easy to get a clouded view when your the one in the situation as most of you may agree. I Got pregnant last year in august. I slept with man#1 on the 23rd and #2 on the 30th. If i recall correctly the 23rd of august was exactly day 14 of my menstrual cycle. Anyways about 1 and half weeks after i slept with #2 i took a pregnancy test which came back positive. This made me think #1 was the father as the dates work out and the pregnancy test would not show a positive if i had got pregnant by #2???. When i went for my 1st scan i was given a due date of 20th May if this helps any of you work it out better?? Anyways, #1 has always denied my son is his and i recently contacted CSA. He has to pay for a DNA test which we will be doing shortly. Even though i have been so sure all along it's got my head racing thinking what if... & i know the only wat to know for sure is a DNA test but i'm hoping some of you would just give me your opinion on what you think and am i only getting unsure because the DNA is getting close??
My son is the best thing that ever happend to me & dont regret him 1 bit, just the situation i put myself and him in, thanks for you much needed help :thumpupxxx

 

[isil]

I think it's much more likely that man #1 is the Daddy. Hopefully the DNA test will confirm it for you and you can get him to pay some maintenance.

 

[xarlenex]

I would say its more than likely guy 1..i'm sure a week and a half after sleeping with someone is far too soon to get a positive test, good luck xx

 

[Lexi's Mummy]

i agree with the other ladies hunni, it is more than likely guy no 1 lets hope you get the result you want xxx

 

[Mummy&bump]

it really depends on ur body hun n wat ur cycles are like! sum eggs can take 5 days 2 fertilise n others cud fertilise on the same day! so i wudnt b 2 sure of ether cud b 50/50! only way of deff answer is tht dna test!

hope u the dna test gives u the result ur hopin for

xxx

 

[mumtobe25]

I hope the dna test shows what you want...but i fell preg on the 29th nov and had a positive test result on 12th dec and the dates were right so i do believe it is different people diff bodys...

good luck hum, hope you get the answer you need x

 

[mz_jackie86]

Hey hun,

Going thru exactly the same thing and from what u have said i wud say its no1!
Even if u are sure there is no way in hell that u can get rid of that little bit of fear or doubt that its not gunna go the way u expect!!!

Hope it works out the way you want it to hun!! xx