Needing someone to talk to :(

[Supa]

So I'm about 3 - 4 weeks pregnant with my 2nd child. I had my first baby on February 18th 2009, and I love my beautiful girl.

Anyways, I'm still staying at home with my parents for the time being. I was planning on waiting to tell them but today my mother found my hidden prenatal pills and asked me so I was honest with her.

She's not happy at all, she said she didn't know what I was thinking having another child. She's been asking me questions like where I'm planning on staying, etc... So it's making me very sad to know I really disappointed her.

I don't know what I'm going to do. To be honest my bf and I were kind of ttc because he is 27 and I am 21 so he wanted his first child. I just didn't think it would happen this fast. I don't know what I was thinking! He doesn't have a job, a car, and he still lives with his parents and brothers!

Me on the other hand, I have a job and I'm getting a car within the next few weeks. I'm finalizing the paper work, I'm sponsored by this WONDERFUL church program that I am very thankful for.

I feel like my bf is not trying hard enough to find employment. And I'm pretty sure once my father finds out he'll kick me out again. I didn't think this whole thing through.

I know God makes no mistakes so this was meant to happen...

On top of this for some reason my bf told his crazy ex gf that I was pregnant and she threatened to come to my job kill me and slice my face! And he seems do freaking nonchalant about it!

 

[Alizaeh]

Its better for you to find a place to stay and raise ur kids. If hes not trying hard enough why wait u know.. Im not in the same situation as you but i can relate.. I know you'll do just fine it happened and you gotta be strong for your unborn baby.. Keep your head up

 

[jozylynn896]

Idk what to tell you but you should definatley go to the police and report the threat!
God forbid she does try doing something!
I think your father might not kick you out this time because now you have a baby. So hed have to kick the both of you out?
I think you should just tell the. And talk to your boyfriend about how irresponsible he is being!

 

[littlemommy]

I'm Desiree 19 and have a 5month babygirl named Aubrii.
If you need to talk you can always message me.
Honestly id report the threat. You never know if she might try something:\ I'm sorry your going through this! Hope it gets better

 

[babyfish2012]

I'm sorry to hear that girly, i'm 18 and i believe 3wks along with my first. It was soooo not planned, but i'm ok with that i'm a strong woman an i can do this. I'll find some way to do the right thing. But i know how you feel, i have a job but i'm barely making any thing, i'm constantly looking for a new job. i had 3 interviews this week but haven't got a call back from anyone yet. plus i don't have my lisence yet and when i moved to NY it made the change to much to finish High school so i'm also waiting to get my GED in September (right around the time my baby will be due if i'm not wrong) So i know how you feel about not having enough support, what you do about the bf is up to you but you need to do whats right for you and your children. I don't know much about having kids and like i said this is my first but if you want to talk i'm always on and i'm very supportive just email me [email protected]

 

[chasingbfp]

I'm sorry to hear that girly, i'm 18 and i believe 3wks along with my first. It was soooo not planned, but i'm ok with that i'm a strong woman an i can do this. I'll find some way to do the right thing. But i know how you feel, i have a job but i'm barely making any thing, i'm constantly looking for a new job. i had 3 interviews this week but haven't got a call back from anyone yet. plus i don't have my lisence yet and when i moved to NY it made the change to much to finish High school so i'm also waiting to get my GED in September (right around the time my baby will be due if i'm not wrong) So i know how you feel about not having enough support, what you do about the bf is up to you but you need to do whats right for you and your children. I don't know much about having kids and like i said this is my first but if you want to talk i'm always on and i'm very supportive just email me [email protected]

Sadly, SUPA posted awhile later confirming she miscarried this pregnancy.