twinklestar25
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dosnt feel quite right posting in here as I won’t be dissapointed in my baby but am feeling a pull this time for a girl after 2 boys which i thought I was ontop of but getting nervous as scans approaching & this is just the 12 week scan!
Especially as there is a lot of pressure from others this time, everyone says how it needs to be a girl this time, this always seems to comes from people who have a mix of both genders. That can be abit hurtful, I feel bad for my baby if they were a boy, like other people would be dissapointed, then them feeling sad for you, I don’t want people to feel sad for me!
I know people genrally mean well but they don’t think before they speak when it comes to pregnancy & baby’s do they!
Especially as there is a lot of pressure from others this time, everyone says how it needs to be a girl this time, this always seems to comes from people who have a mix of both genders. That can be abit hurtful, I feel bad for my baby if they were a boy, like other people would be dissapointed, then them feeling sad for you, I don’t want people to feel sad for me!
I know people genrally mean well but they don’t think before they speak when it comes to pregnancy & baby’s do they!