New Forum: Pregnancy After A Loss

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  1. Blue eyes 81

    Blue eyes 81 Zoey's mom

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    Hi ladies, :hi:
    I know this is crazy. Even my fs is really amused by our situation but after 2 negative hpts and a negative beta on Tuesday (.5) I tested this morning with an ept and a clear blue digi and :bfp: so I went in and I had another beta drawn and :happydance: my beta is 35.0. We are expecting! Estimated due date Feb. 9th 2013!
    I am on :cloud9: but I am petrified at the same time due to suffering a loss in October at around 10 weeks.
     
  2. filipenko32

    filipenko32 2xDD & Expecting No.3

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    I just saw this post, sorry you never got a response :hugs: I hope you're ok. I just wanted to reassure you that I know of lots and lots of ladies who have success after an ectopic pregnancy, it's just extremely bad luck. You're still young and fertile and you will get your forever baby I promise you. In the meantime look after yourself you've had a massive disappointment and an even bigger shock to boot. Massive hugs xxx


     
  3. filipenko32

    filipenko32 2xDD & Expecting No.3

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    Blue eyes congratulations! We have similar due dates!
     
  4. SabrinaKat

    SabrinaKat Delighted Mum to Finn

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    congrats to both and filipenko-- yeah!

    crossing fingers for both!

    best wishes
     
  5. filipenko32

    filipenko32 2xDD & Expecting No.3

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    Finn is BEAUTIFUL Sabrinakat :cloud9: xxx
     
  6. Blue eyes 81

    Blue eyes 81 Zoey's mom

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    Thank you. I am super excited! :cloud9:
    A big congrats to you too!
     
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  8. Dubibump

    Dubibump 2nd Trimester

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    Me to.
    Had a MC at the beginning of this year, and now we are pregnant again, 10 weeks. Feeling cautiously excited. I wasn't sick last time, and boy i have been this time.
    Quietly keeping my fingers crossed for everyone in the same position, as it can be hard not to keep thinking the worst.
    Much love to you all ladies! Stay strong xx
     
  9. Dubibump

    Dubibump 2nd Trimester

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    Hi Italiana,

    I hear you honey!
    I had a MC beginning of this year, my first pregnancy. It happened at 7 1/2 weeks. I am now 10 weeks and 3 days...AND COUNTING!
    I wasn't feeling sick at all with my first pregnancy, but have been with this one...apart from today, i'm feeling ok. So of course i'm freaking out.
    Every pregnancy will be different, every day will be different, but its just this waiting game that is the killer!
    I totally understand where your coming from. I feel like if i loose this one ..well i will cope as what other choice is there, but bloody hell i want it!!
    Stay strong and try not to focus on it, ha she says doing the opposite. I guess we have to do our best. I will be thinking of you and sending you good vibes from Australia. Let me know how you go.

    x
     
  10. Dubibump

    Dubibump 2nd Trimester

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    Oh i'm so sorry to hear about your experience. I also have a thyroid disorder hashimoto disease.
    Please take care.
    I wish you all the happiness in the world. xxxxxxxxx
     
  11. archangel24

    archangel24 TTC #2

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    We had a MC in March after TTC for 6 months and now we are pregnant again :) I am totally terrified to make love though since my MC symptoms started the day after we DTD. I know this is probably a coincidence but as a precaution I am abstaining from all sex and my DH is super bummed out. Have ya'll been DTD? Or are you choosing to wait until after the first Tri?
     
  12. horseypants

    horseypants Well-Known Member

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    Hello ladies. Having a roller coaster of a pregnancy, again unfortunately. Stalking this thread. Xo
     
  13. Baby Chan

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    I am Baby Chan. I had miscarriage about a year and half ago. Now, being pregnant again and has been for 7 weeks.

    But I am so scare as I stopped to have breast swollen and pain since yesterday. Some forums say it is normal but I am still worry.
     
  14. Hzajkowski001

    Hzajkowski001 New Member

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    Hey everyone, I had my d&c about 4 weeks ago(March 11th) and now I'm testing positive? I'm still waiting for my period to come. I dont feel like im going to get my period any time soon. I took a Clear Blue weeks estimater test and its saying im 1-2 weeks. Ive taken four pregnancy tests all together... the first three were cheapies but the line seems to be getting darker? I dont want to get my hopes up because i know it could be left over debris from the d&c or just lingering hormones. I dont even want to call my doctor yet. I'm going to take another weeks estimater test in a couple of days to see if the 1-2 changes to a 2-3. If i am pregnant that means i concieved 5 days after my d&c. Is this even possible!? Has anyone had this experience or anything similar? I mean we were planning on seriously trying again after my first menstrual cycle but stuff happens and we havent exactly been careful. Please let me know your thoughts!
     
  15. Sabster

    Sabster Well-Known Member

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    could be possible but wait it out for a week, retest and if its still positive then go get some bloodwork, that should tell you if you are expecting again. Ive read before that after an MC you are super fertile but I have no idea if that's just a myth.

    i had an MC on january 16th, I got my period feb 27th and I found out I am pregnant again.. I was also pretty surprised because its been a rollercoaster, but everything is possible.

    Goood luck!!!
     
  16. Joycew

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    So upset, first bfp since ectopic, lost tube, now first beta hcg is 13, second a 4. Is that what they call a chemical and when can we try again. Doc. Didn't say anything...please help
     
  17. ShysMommy

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    Hi everyone,

    Im so glad I found this forum here is a little about me.

    Im 37 years old and have a 10 year old daughter. My DH and I have been TTC for about 4 years now trying for #2. Last year I got pregnant and miscarried right before 7 weeks. Now here I am pregnant again right now I am 6 weeks. Im really nervous about this time at least until I get past 7 weeks because of last year.

    I dont remember feeling much last year other then some breast tenderness. I didnt even have cramping when I miscarried. But this time I have bad breast tenderness, Im really tired all the time, and the past couple of days I have had some pretty bad gas. Im really hoping that these are all good signs for a healthy pregnancy.

    Has anyone else been though this had finally gotten their rainbow baby?

    Thank you all so much
     
  18. MsTbaby

    MsTbaby New Member

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    Hello ladies, I am new to the forum and I was wondering do anyone have advice of how to heal after a miscarriage. I am a mother of a 10 year old and had a miscarriage with my second child this past sat 6-14-14 at 12 weeks and 6 days. How do I move past it, not wanting to forget but to heal myself for my daughter who by the was is an amazing help and my boyfriend who also is there for me. I want to be the person I was before. I haven't told them but this has really changed me inside, I can' t explain it but I feel the change. I want to try again but I am so scared. How long should I wait? Will this happen again? These are only some of the questions that baffle my brain... Thanks
     
  19. dairymomma

    dairymomma Still Hoping

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    Shysmommy-Welcome and I'm sorry for your loss and that you had to find this forum. None of us here wishes any of us had to come here because it means you've gone through a loss. As for positive stories, there are plenty about. I myself have a son and a daughter who were born after multiple miscarriages and my current pregnancy came after 2 back-to-back losses last year. (My miscarriages are mostly unexplained though we do know that progesterone supplements and baby aspirin apparently help me get thru my first trimester. All my tests thus far have come back normal though so the doctor can't 'officially' diagnose any reasons for my losses but he suspects my progesterone levels, which are already low, drop before the placenta is ready to take over causing bleeding and/or miscarriage. I may also have an issue with scar tissue or (as I suspect) egg quality as I've had 3 possibly 4 blighted ovums. Further testing for those had to be put off when my current pg was discovered.) I'm due in 3 weeks. So yes, there are positive stories and many of us in this forum have rainbow babies.

    MsBaby-First off, I'm so sorry for your loss. Second, your feelings are totally normal. Miscarriage is a loss. I've had numerous losses and with each one, I've loved that baby from the moment I knew I was pg. The instant those two lines appeared, that baby was real to me. And to lose that child, even if it was only at 7 or 8 or 9 weeks gestation, was still a very real loss to me because it was my baby from the moment I knew of it's existence. It will take time for that grief to ease so don't try to rush things. The grieving process takes a different amount of time for each person. Some are able to move on sooner while others struggle longer. And fear of ttc again is normal too. Only you will know when the time is right for you or if that time ever comes. As for it happening again, unfortunately, yes there is always that chance that it could happen again. But for most women, it's a very small chance, especially if you've had a successful pregnancy before. Really, there is SO much that has to happen exactly right in order for a pregnancy to succeed (cell division, implantation, etc.) that my doctor has always said it's amazing as many babies are born as there are. I'm not trying to scare you here. I know in my own family and in my in-laws family, nearly all of the women have had at least one loss and gone on to have normal, successful pregnancies otherwise. I am not the norm with my multiple losses. I will also say this-most doctors caution you to wait until you are done bleeding before resuming sex and nearly all of them will tell you to wait at least 1 cycle before trying again. Their reasoning is so that your uterus has time to heal, your hormones can settle down, and practically speaking, it makes things a whole lot easier when it comes to dating your next pregnancy. I personally feel that it also helps your mental state too to wait. I got pg without a period after my last loss and it only added to my worries about this pregnancy. But not every woman feels that way. If you would like more info or would prefer to chat privately, PM me. Good luck.
     
  20. Sannylou

    Sannylou New Member

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    My husband and I have been trying for babies for years. We got pregnant two years ago and had a missed miscarriage. I am now 8 weeks pregnant (took two years to get pregnant again!). I am so worried because all of my symptoms have disappeared as of a few days ago; breasts tenderness and swelling :GONE. Tiredness: GONE. Cramps: GONE. Even the veins in my breasts are diminishing. I heard the heart beat at 6 and a half weeks and was elated! I am now sick with worry. Has anyone else experienced this and gone on to have a healthy pregnancy?
     

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