Baby G
Zachary's Mom
- Joined
- Nov 5, 2009
- Messages
- 132
- Reaction score
- 0
Hello everyone I am a new mommy to a two week old baby boy. I decided long ago that when I had kids I did not believe it letting them "cry it out" I always said I'd be at my lil ones every beckon call. But it's getting really difficult and maybe I am not doing it right? Every time he cries I pick him up and cuddle him. I think we have a good bond going so far. He immediately quiets when I pick him up. And the moment I held him at birth he was crying and I looked in his eyes and said "Hi baby!" and he quieted down and didn't cry the rest of the time. He's a GREAT baby he only cries when he's hungry or wet, or simply wants to be held. Well I don't agree that you can spoil an infant this young. But my mom told me "he's spoiled, he stopped crying when you picked him up" I argued with her that the lil guy just needs love and security.
But... I can't be there to pick him up EVERY TIME. What do I do when I'm in the shower and he's screaming, or washing bottles, or something else where I have no hands free? Or sometimes I just need some "me time" I feel horrible when I feel frustrated with his crying. He's only a baby and I don't blame him at all. I'm just so tired and stressed out and every time he cries I run to him to cuddle him because I don't want to damage his little psyche.
Also he will not sleep in his bassinet and we really want him too. He currently will only sleep in his vibrating bouncer seat (the lounge chair ones) I have put him down in the bassinet a few times but he always screams. Am I just going to have to let him scream for a minute or what should I do?
But... I can't be there to pick him up EVERY TIME. What do I do when I'm in the shower and he's screaming, or washing bottles, or something else where I have no hands free? Or sometimes I just need some "me time" I feel horrible when I feel frustrated with his crying. He's only a baby and I don't blame him at all. I'm just so tired and stressed out and every time he cries I run to him to cuddle him because I don't want to damage his little psyche.
Also he will not sleep in his bassinet and we really want him too. He currently will only sleep in his vibrating bouncer seat (the lounge chair ones) I have put him down in the bassinet a few times but he always screams. Am I just going to have to let him scream for a minute or what should I do?