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[flou]

Hi ladies im 31 years old and me and my DH have been ttc for nearly 2 years now. We did get a bfp after 19 months we lost our baby at 6 weeks. My life feels as if it has been on hold for the last 2 years. I am a teacher and not particulary happy with the school i am working at. Its one of the reasons we decided to ttc when we did. Thought that i would look for a new job once i had a baby. However 2 years on and no baby. Since my mc i have been really down. Even though we were only ttc by charting i just cant do it anymore. Its making me miserable and i want to be the person i was b4 ttc. So ive decided to try ntnp. If a job comes up im going to go for it and we can go back to using protection for a few months until i start a new job and if a baby comes along then i will look for a new job after. I just hope ntnp gives me back some control over my life.

 

[xQuinnx]

Hi
Sorry to hear you haven't had much joy I think a lot of women can relate to the pressure with actively TTC, I've never actively TTC just started NTNP as I don't think I can handle the pressure of TTC. Good luck and hope you get your BFP soon

Also hope this isn't too much of a silly question but what is a 'rainbow baby?'

 

[flou]

A rainbow baby is a baby after a loss. So im hoping that my next little bean is a sticky one!

 

[xQuinnx]

A rainbow baby is a baby after a loss. So im hoping that my next little bean is a sticky one!

Ahh ok thank you. I hope it is too!

 

[icantdecide]

Completely understand.

Hope you feel a little more relaxed going forward

I also found charting a little too much and I'm sure there are lots of people in this forum who agree you are most certainly not alone xx