New to site, need some buds :) questions

[KristinP]

Hello!
Sorry for the story....

I'm new to this site so I don't really know what to do here lol.
I usually use Yahoo Answers if I have a question but I'm sick of stupid people and you guys look nice from the threads I've read

Okay, so...

I think I'm around 9dpo.
I'm expecting my next period this coming Saturday (March 23)

My husband and I have been TTC for 11 months to a year.
We were actively trying for about six months, but, it got to stressful for us.
So we stopped trying and started to just enjoy our life, if it happens it happens blah blah blah.
I kind of lost hope to be honest.

This cycle (that started Feb.26) has been different for me.
I know it sounds stupid to say, but I have a strange feeling that I might be pregnant...
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The first this I noticed was heartburn and indigestion (around 6dpo)
Then I had some backache (i still do, but, I didn't think anything of it at first)
Then I noticed some light pink spotting one night.
(Only for a few wipes and it was gone. During this year of TTC, I have never had spotting between cycles)

Since then I've had some hot flashes with nausea, mild lower abdominal cramping in the middle of my pelvic bone area, gassiness, bloated, tiredness, thirst, hunger and fullness, light cramps more discharge than normal and its watery and wet, and twinges on both sides of pelvic area.
(I've never had twinges)

Before I stopped charting my BBT was 96ish on average
I was curious because I feel hot, and took my temp and it was in the 98 range?

Also, I used to check my cervix, it was always hard and bumpy and open by now.
(Like the end of my nose, with a dimple)
But my cervix has been a fingers length away, squishy, soft and wet and I can't feel a dimple, just feels like a soft lump?
This close to my cycle?

I totally stopped trying to TTC and now I don't know what to think
I don't want to get my hopes up, but I'm also worried there might be something wrong with me.

Has anyone ever had anything like this with BFP or something else?
I'm very interested in hearing your stories.

Thank you so much for reading
Sorry agin for the story

 

[xQuinnx]

Hi
I've not got any experience really with what you describe but I was wondering what was happening now?

 

[KristinP]

Still waiting! One more day until I test
Still have backache some times, totally not as bad though
Peeing lots, feels like my blatter is going to burst, but there's never that much lol
Feel nauseous sometimes
Tired all day, laying around a lot more than normal
( I'm an illustrator. So I work from home )

But nothing else
Boobs don't hurt still, don't feel heavy and my cervix is high

 

[hopefulfor1st]

Hmm I don't know what to tell u except when I was pregnant my symptoms didn't start til I was 6 weeks 1 day.
I got a positive hpt at 3 weeks 3 days preg but the only early symptoms I got was burping and the "tugging" feeling in my uterus

 

[icantdecide]

Hi!

Did you test..... Hope you are ok

X

 

[KristinP]

Hello!

I tested a day before my expected AF but BFN.

Still no flo!
Today I am four days past due for AF

But I'm afraid to test untill another few days

Right now I have stomach flu like stuff going on
(Not sure if i have a stomach flu or what?)
and my nipple are crazy tender, standing up hurts them or if they rub against my bra


Haven't been able to sleep well, I was up at 2am, because of the stomach issues
It was bad this morning, and here all day, and gets worse on and off.


I'll keep you posted!

 

[wannabubba#4]

Good Luck, I hope you get your BFP really soon -does sound hopeful this cycle but then our bodies tend to go a bit crazy when trying to conceive or even just broody lol - I have lost count of the times I have thought maybe I was pg (even when not ttc and with my stupid IUD still insitu lmao)

Fingers crossed for you xxx

 

[icantdecide]

Ooh it's all very exciting!!

Fingers crossed for you.

xx

 

[love2bemom]

Fingers crossed for you that you get a BFP soon. I'm testing in a few days and going nuts in the meantime. I wish we could all just magically know when it happens for us.

 

[icantdecide]

Totally agree it should be something we jusy magically know for sure. Like we just get a letter in the post or something:

Dear mum,

Just to let you know I'm on my way so please stop Stressing and chill out.

Lots of love

Baby

x