greekgirl
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I am having lots of issues tonight which I need feedback for. It's almost 5 o clock in the morning here and I have been up for 2 hours or more since my kids last wake up.
So normally he, my son, sleeps through the night.
Once or twice a week, he wakes up and cries uncontrollably for a while and nothing I do or say helps.
And he doesn't want my husband, he wants me.
Sometimes I ask if it was a bad dream and he says yes. And after a glass of water and some comforting he eventually calms down.
Then there are nights like tonight.
Everything I did bothered him.
Talking, touching, sitting, hugging, kissing, not moving, trying to lie down with him, everything bothered him. He kicked, he flapped around and at some point hit his head by accident on the wall from all the pushing my arm away or kicking my legs to get me to move.
What is wrong with my kid?
If he did this every night I would already be visiting doctors.
But it's an occasional thing.
When he gets like this communication gets shut off and it seems he doesn't know or forgets what was wrong.
Sometimes I wonder if he cries from pain or a nightmare and then gets so annoyed that I can't read his mind he ends up forgetting what was wrong. Because he eventually gets this confused look on his face like, what is going on? Which makes me worry too.
I don't know what to do.
He doesn't seem autistic to me but maybe that's because I am comparing him with my best friends twin brother who was autistic but he needed to be put in a special school and special olypmics for him and no getting through to him at all. My kid is aware of his surroundings, responsive, makes eye contact, laughs a lot, plays with other kids, blah blah blah everything is normal besides the hand flapping and the little voice in my head that tells me that something isn't right.
He is a gifted artist and very imaginative and we talk about all sorts of things and make up silly stories where most of the time the big bad wolf shows up and blows things away. But when he throws a fit or wakes in the night and cries unconsolably I feel like I lose him for those moments. Like I don't know where he is.
He pushes me away, he won't let me touch him, but he doesn't want me to leave. Sort of like a teenager.
Dear God help us.
Let this just be toddlerhood at its worse. Let it just be something that will pass just like when everything had to belong to someone and only them and we would freak out crying if another person dared tried touching it. That was fun. But it passed.
So normally he, my son, sleeps through the night.
Once or twice a week, he wakes up and cries uncontrollably for a while and nothing I do or say helps.
And he doesn't want my husband, he wants me.
Sometimes I ask if it was a bad dream and he says yes. And after a glass of water and some comforting he eventually calms down.
Then there are nights like tonight.
Everything I did bothered him.
Talking, touching, sitting, hugging, kissing, not moving, trying to lie down with him, everything bothered him. He kicked, he flapped around and at some point hit his head by accident on the wall from all the pushing my arm away or kicking my legs to get me to move.
What is wrong with my kid?
If he did this every night I would already be visiting doctors.
But it's an occasional thing.
When he gets like this communication gets shut off and it seems he doesn't know or forgets what was wrong.
Sometimes I wonder if he cries from pain or a nightmare and then gets so annoyed that I can't read his mind he ends up forgetting what was wrong. Because he eventually gets this confused look on his face like, what is going on? Which makes me worry too.
I don't know what to do.
He doesn't seem autistic to me but maybe that's because I am comparing him with my best friends twin brother who was autistic but he needed to be put in a special school and special olypmics for him and no getting through to him at all. My kid is aware of his surroundings, responsive, makes eye contact, laughs a lot, plays with other kids, blah blah blah everything is normal besides the hand flapping and the little voice in my head that tells me that something isn't right.
He is a gifted artist and very imaginative and we talk about all sorts of things and make up silly stories where most of the time the big bad wolf shows up and blows things away. But when he throws a fit or wakes in the night and cries unconsolably I feel like I lose him for those moments. Like I don't know where he is.
He pushes me away, he won't let me touch him, but he doesn't want me to leave. Sort of like a teenager.
Dear God help us.
Let this just be toddlerhood at its worse. Let it just be something that will pass just like when everything had to belong to someone and only them and we would freak out crying if another person dared tried touching it. That was fun. But it passed.