readyformore
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Which is it?
Is it pessimism when I think that another baby might not be in the picture?
Or am I being realistic?
I certaintly never thought that when I decided to ttc, I would come out on the other end without another pregnancy.
Why don't we ever mention that we might not have these babies that we want so much? Are we afraid to talk about it?
It's a cold hard fact, but nobody seems to bring it up. We talk about the disappointment of the monthly AF, but not the bleak truth, that it may never happen. Even my RE said to me when I was only 24, "The success rate for IUI is 15-20%. That means that for most people, they won't get pregnant." I was shocked, then so appreciative of the truth. I feel it can keep me grounded.
I recognize that it might not happen for me. Frankly, I'm tired of acting like we are all going to get what we want. That's not to say that I'm full of PMA, we know that I am not.
I just feel like we are side-stepping the reality. . . . .that it might not happen.
Maybe I am just a hater of false hope.
(This is posted after reading several of my subscribed threads where the previous posters are now pregnant.)
Is it pessimism when I think that another baby might not be in the picture?
Or am I being realistic?
I certaintly never thought that when I decided to ttc, I would come out on the other end without another pregnancy.
Why don't we ever mention that we might not have these babies that we want so much? Are we afraid to talk about it?
It's a cold hard fact, but nobody seems to bring it up. We talk about the disappointment of the monthly AF, but not the bleak truth, that it may never happen. Even my RE said to me when I was only 24, "The success rate for IUI is 15-20%. That means that for most people, they won't get pregnant." I was shocked, then so appreciative of the truth. I feel it can keep me grounded.
I recognize that it might not happen for me. Frankly, I'm tired of acting like we are all going to get what we want. That's not to say that I'm full of PMA, we know that I am not.
I just feel like we are side-stepping the reality. . . . .that it might not happen.
Maybe I am just a hater of false hope.
(This is posted after reading several of my subscribed threads where the previous posters are now pregnant.)