Hiya everyone! In the past I posted to the TTC/WTT forum - explaining how much I wanted a third child, but my husband doesnt.
Ive just sort of resolved it all in my mind - and come around to his position. Its hard, because I always thought Id have 3 children - and its hard to think about never being pregnant again.
But the truth is - I have to be honest, and admit, I cant do the work again. We are very much on our own - my parents oversees, and his quite a bit older (80), and while we both have wonderful families, they are not in positions to help us.
We are both 40, have two beautiful little boys (aged 5 and 3), we both work, and Ive come to terms with the fact that the "baby" thing is over, but Im still a bit sad about it.
Ive decided Id start posting to the toddlers/preschool forum and just enjoy the children I do have! Also, Im going to sponsor a child overseas - Ive always wanted to do that, and now seems a good time!
Thanks everyone for your support
Zaidagal
Ive just sort of resolved it all in my mind - and come around to his position. Its hard, because I always thought Id have 3 children - and its hard to think about never being pregnant again.
But the truth is - I have to be honest, and admit, I cant do the work again. We are very much on our own - my parents oversees, and his quite a bit older (80), and while we both have wonderful families, they are not in positions to help us.
We are both 40, have two beautiful little boys (aged 5 and 3), we both work, and Ive come to terms with the fact that the "baby" thing is over, but Im still a bit sad about it.
Ive decided Id start posting to the toddlers/preschool forum and just enjoy the children I do have! Also, Im going to sponsor a child overseas - Ive always wanted to do that, and now seems a good time!
Thanks everyone for your support
Zaidagal
