Not Bonding

[Abbys_Mummy]

Hi i am so worried i have had alot of things going on lately and we do not any longer know weather our little girl is healthy and we may have to terminate before this was all bought to the surface all i could do was tough my bump and talk to her now i feel like i cant bond anymore till i know whats happening i feel like the worst mum in the world

 

[hermanasista]

Oh, dear, I am so, so sorry to hear that. Don't be hard on yourself, though. You obviously need some time to adjust to whatever news might be coming your way. Also don't forget that no matter what you're doing on the outside, your body is keeping that little one warm and safe on the inside. I wish you all the best. Hang in there, and take care of yourself.

 

[Samantha675]

You are not the worst mom in the world. It is natural to want to protect yourself. Try to hang in there, it is so hard not to worry. When do you find out if your little girl will be OK?

 

[leeanne]

Oh, hon, I am so sorry to hear this. Sending many prayers and best wishes!

 

[Abbys_Mummy]

i wont find out anything for atleast 2wks i`m so worried and not sure what decision to make i have had a look at the horrifying procedure of abortion at late pregnacy i would rather have a sick baby than go through that

 

[Abbys_Mummy]

I am starting to lose it i don`t want to have this in my life how could life be so cruel after losing my daughter amber maree i cant go through it again this is going to break me i feel like i am on the edge i am so lonely OH working all the time i just want some happyness in my life how could god be so selfish

 

[tinytoes]

hey worriedmum.
What may be wrong with your baby?
Give the belly a little rub. Even if she's sick and her life is short she could do with some rubs adn love now. Hang on in there. Give her a rub.

 

[Abbys_Mummy]

with my daughter amber they were never able to tell me what was wrong so i`m not sure they will be able to tell me this time still trying to stay positive and hope there nothing wrong this time

 

[charlottecco2]

big hugs to you, i have been told a few times i may need to terminate and I just stopped thinking of myself as pregnant at that stage because i was preparing for the worst. But it was so upsetting and definately not a situation I would wish up on anybody.
I will be praying for you and your little one, i'm sure shes a little fighter. xx

 

[Abbys_Mummy]

Thanks for all your support my OH and i are finding this time so hard its so god to have him he is beautiful i can see how much he is hurting down inside i guess we just have to stay strong and believe in our little girl

 

[xXhayleyXx]

 

[Linzi]

Im sure a lot of women in your situation feel exactly the same. I havent been in your situation but pregnancy was such a scary thing when I found out about my baby that I didnt want to think about it either.

I hope you feel better soon and you get some answers from your hospital.

*big hugs*

xxx

 

[Samantha675]

I think you should call your doctor and get on their ass about this. 2 weeks is a long wait, and it is obviously causing you a lot of pain. Is there a councelor you could find to help you thorough this as well? Someone who specializes in the area of child lose and such? What you are going through is really hard, and there is nothing wrong with getting help.

 

[nikkybaby]

I hope everything is alright with your LO

 

[PitBullMommy]

 

[clairebear]

hope lo is ok for you xxx