not sure what i should do..

[angels330]

Xx

 

[honey08]

i think it wud devastate them if u cut contact altogether hun, also it gives u a break .... as for staying over just say, i wud if u saw her more and i was convinced she was ok,but in the time been i dont want her to stay,,,,maybe when shes a little older just say !
sry ur ex has been this way, its his loss tho,but if his parents want to see there grandaughter i wud defo let them stll, just mention ur not ready to have her stay anywhere yet

 

[xarlenex]

Hmm..thats a tricky one. Do you think they'd go behind your back and let your ex see her?

 

[LucyS]

Sounds bit iffy, I'd just carry on with the supervised access, you are being more than fair doing that I believe

 

[Moulder86]

Well as Lucy said I would continue for the supervised visits for a time then when you're comfortable they've spent enough time with her to know her and know how to comfort her ect. But you have to make it clear to them that you don't want them taking her to see the ex and if they can't respect that decision then they can't expect you to let them have her.

x

 

[celine]

I agree with honey08 x

 

[angels330]

Hmm..thats a tricky one. Do you think they'd go behind your back and let your ex see her?

thats what im worried about, i think that they will yes xx thank,you all for your suggestions it really helps xx

 

[xarlenex]

If you do believe they'd go behind your back then your right to stick with supervised visits. You are giving them more than alot of other people would.

 

[rajan]

What ever the problem is just talk to them and sort it out...

 

[angels330]

i tried talking to them today, everything is fine apart from one major thing. his poor mother is distraught that her son is being a dick and is trying to persuade him to change his mind. she thinks that by takin her to see him everyhting will be ok but i really do not want this to happen

 

[Mummy&bump]

hmm see iv been thinkin this thru as well as my babys dads mum still wants 2 b involved or she did 5 mnths ao when we spoke but thts another story! it really is up 2 u hun! i kno 4 a fact iv already made my mind up that it will b supervised visits for her unfortunately coz i think shel take my baby 2 see him, which i am 100% not allowing! but they have 2 understand ur side 2 hun and if u decide hes not 2 see her then they hav 2 respect ur wishes! if they go against that then they cud b chancing loosen contact with her themselfs!

good luck with whatever u decide

xxx