November 2013 Babies!

[mama.luv]

Cat: If I had to be in a hosp room with other women for awhile and be without my kids, I would be depressed too. But you seem to like talking to the women which is cool. You should talk to someone about depression. Here they have a social worker that walks around giving info on whatever concerns you may have, including depression. I'm sure your hosp has one too. It sounds like you'd rather rather stay in the hosp than be at home. I feel that way sometimes too. I was sent home Tues night since I had an appt on Wed morning at another hosp. Going home was cool, but I wanted to do so much, like clean and search for stuff. Then on Wed, I had to be back at my hosp by 1pm so I talked hubby into taking me to Target to get things for the house, like detergent, milk, etc. By the time I got back to the hosp, my feet were so swollen. I see that's it's best to lay my behind down. Bedrest does wonders.

Nariah: Only 8lbs, lucky you, that's all baby. I gained 25lbs I think so far. Yikes!!!!

Thanks you guys for your well wishes. I think I'm going to agree with the Doc and just deliver at 32wks. It's just too much going on with my baby girl that have me stressed. And stress is not helping the situation. From me having preeclampsia, pre-term labor, and her being 4-5wks behind in size, having restricted cord flow and fluid around her heart, it's just too much going on. Although she kicks me a lot, I don't know if she is struggling in there. So it's best to give her a chance of survival outside the womb. 32wks is considered a good time to have twins, so I hope I make it. These Docs are going by my LMP, so they have me at 31wks today. I'm thinking about scheduling a c-section for next Friday. I will keep you ladies posted!!

 

[Co_Cowgirl]

I am happy to say that I am only up 10 lbs. When I found out I was pregnant they told me because of my starting weight that they only wanted me to gain 15lbs the entire pregnancy. It is something that stressed me out and has had me worried most of my pregnancy but luckily it has been fairly easy to keep the weight off. I am constantly working to stay active as possible and I try not to give into every craving (though I did buy Ice Cream last weekend).

Mama - I am so happy that you have a little more time to keep the little ones in there!! It is great news!

Cat - I can't imagine being stuck in the hospital. I am so thankful I get to head home to my OH, 3 dogs and my own bed every night. I think I would go nuts if I was kept where they poked and prodded me all the time. Not to mention the level of your pain which is hard to deal with.

 

[whittnie117]

Mama, that sounds like a good idea. As long as it's something both you and your doctor feel is the best. Like you said, 32 weeks is an alright time for twins to be born. And they can do a lot more for your baby girl if she's out of the womb.

Baby boy has been crazy the last few days. So active my tummy is sore.

In other news, I had my growth scan today. He is measuring right on target and weighs an estimated 3 lbs 8 oz. The ultrasound tech said, "Well, he's not shy about being a boy. And woah, that's a big penis."

He's also head down.

Look at his chubby cheeks, omgosh, I'm in love.
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And just in case there was any doubt.

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[wantb502]

Awesome pics!!! I have to wait 5 more weeks to see my little dude. I can't wait to see the difference from 22 weeks! I'd love to see chubby cheeks!

Weight gain has been rough for me. I'm around 25 pounds and still have 9 weeks left! I have never weighed so much EVER. It's a hard thing for me to handle. I know it's baby and placenta and fluid and boobs... But I've worked so hard my whole life at staying as fit as possible and this is been hard not being able to keep toned like I was before. Oh well... When he comes, it's back on and I'm going to have a slammin' bod! Maybe DH and will have sex again! That's a whole other story.

 

[whittnie117]

I 'think' I may get one more scan before he's due. The doc is concerned with how big the baby may get, but just because I'm fat doesn't mean I'll have a big baby.

Also, want, 25 lbs? Where? Lol, that'll come right off you. It's literally ALL baby and placenta for you, lol. And perhaps boobs too!

And mama, 25 lbs, don't even fret. You only have a week left and are carrying not one, but two babies. If you're breast feeding, that'll melt off.

I can't stop looking at my little man.

 

[luna_19]

I've gained 28 lbs, I've gone up one pants size but other than that I think it's mostly baby

 

[LoveSanrio]

Hey ladies, mind if I join you? I will be having my baby by section in November. I have had a rough road in this pregnancy, and could really use other women to talk to about it. DH is great, but he works A LOT, and well, he's a man LOL

Anyhow, I have GD. It was hard at first, but now it isn't so bad. I gained about 28 pounds of so, but since being diagnosed 3 weeks ago I have LOST 12 pounds, bringing my total gain down to 16. I will more than likely continue to lose which my DR says is perfectly fine, and will more than likely leave the hospital weighing less than I did when I got pregnant. I am really curious to see!

I am also in the early stages of pre e, so yeah... lot's going on. My BP has been high, and there has been water swelling, and protein in my pee. I have to go to the DR once a week now because of all this.

We were planning on a section at 39 weeks, but most likely wont make it that far. I have my good days where I feel confident, and my bad days where I am scared that something bad is going to happen. I'm trying to keep strong and make it to the end of this roller coaster.

Anyhow, that's about it for now. Glad to meet all of you!

 

[whittnie117]

Hello and welcome Lovesanrio,

I'm sorry that you are going through all of this. It's a lot to handle. They say pregnancy is supposed to be beautiful and great and then you get pregnant and you realize what a crock that all is, lol. If it weren't for the best gift ever at the end of it, I don't think anyone would do it. Suffering from gd AND pre-e must be rough.

For me, I'm struggling with preexisting chronic pain conditions, obesity, and not being on any of my medications. They are monitoring me for things at every appointment because I'm so high risk for a lot of things. Right now we are trying to prevent pre-e as I'm beginning to show signs that it may develop. You'll probably read me complaining at times, but it is so nice to just have people to talk to. And I apologize in advance! I just have my OH and mil, then my overbearing mean mom to talk to.

Hopefully you can make it to your scheduled at 39 weeks without anymore complications arising. Also, I think it's normal for everyone to have good and bad days. I look forward to getting to know you over the next few weeks!

 

[LoveSanrio]

Feel free to complain as much as you want! I feel like we are entitled to that at this point.

So sorry you are having a rough time too. It really is a tough thing to go through, and I don't know how some women love being pregnant so much! This is actually my last pregnancy. I have 4 daughters as of now, and this one is a girl too! I couldn't believe all this stuff happening on my last time being pregnant!

I have had pre e before, and that is why I have it this time I am sure. I had hypertension with my first 2 girls, and pre e with my last 2. My body just doesnt handle pregnancy well. Had my first 3 girls at 37 weeks by induction, and my last girl at 36+6 by emcs after 24 hours of labor and only dilating to a 1. I am expecting this one around the same time, so I am guessing around Nov. 5th or after. Guess we will see!

I've never had GD before, so it puts a whole new spin on things, that is for sure. The diet is okay.. gets kinda boring at times, but I have been doing it for 4 weeks now, so I am pretty much used to it. It opened my eyes to a lot of things, and made me realize that a lot of the stuff I was eating was terrible. I plan on continuing the diet once I have LO, as I am overweight too and would love to lose the baby weight I have accumulated over the years.

 

[missjenn]

I'm up 25-26 pounds now.

Want - you would never know you gained 25....once that baby pops out you will already have your pre pregnancy body!

 

[wantb502]

Your the same! Yours is ALL baby! It's amazing stepping in the scale and seeing a number you never thought you'd hit!

The key is... Our LOs could come ANTIME! I have 9 weeks as of today. Both my dad and my sister were 6 weeks early... That freaks me out. I am totally not ready for little dude to come in 3 weeks! He needs to cook for at least 8 more weeks so I can get stuff done!

 

[wantb502]

Love: welcome!!! We love having new ladies! Sorry to hear that you have a double whammy with pre-e and GD and it sounds like you have a house full too! We
Are very supportive and bitching/ranting/venting is very welcome here!

 

[The Alchemist]

Whittnie - aww I see he's got chubby cheeks, made me smile. Awesome that he's heads down. My last u/s last week showed my boy was breech, yikes. Hopefully he will turn heads down near that time.

Want & Mama - most of the weight we gain is water weight in our own body, plus the amniotic fluid, then the baby, then the placenta, so on and so forth. Once baby and placenta gets delivered, all that will shed. And then the weeks after delivery, you will pee all that excess water out. I drank tea and tea helps. Just don't rush into working out so soon. Don't worry, want & Mama. It'll all shed off and you'll be back to your pre-pregnant body and maybe even better down the road after the baby.

Lovesanrio - welcome! You're not the only one going through numerous issues in pregnancy. I myself don't have GD or pre-e but I have excruciating pelvic pain, mainly my sacroiliac joint and my pubic bone area. It clicks and grinds and sometimes it's so painful, I can't sit or even walk! I don't know, I worry about the day to deliver. I wonder if my doc will allow me to labor in other positions that won't aggravate my pelvic. I hope everything will turn out okay for you!

Asf - 31 weeks today. Weight gain is somewhere in the 20's, which is more than my first pregnancy. I haven't been able to fit in pants, not even sweats or pj's. Dresses and skirts are the only thing that is comfy. But these days, I'm only in shirt, bra, and undies hehehe.

Hope you all are doing well. I will post bump pic either later tonight or tomorrow. Sunday is my lazy

 

[whittnie117]

Oh the bump pic, I've been not posting for a couple weeks. I'll try and post one tomorrow for our Sunday bump pic day, but only if I happen to get dressed.

Alchemist have you tried gaucho pants? They are way more comfy that almost all my other clothes and I can wear them after the baby is here.I bought a ton of speghetti strap shirts for now for 2 dollars. Since my boobs dont like being in bras (ow ow ow) I figured it would be alright to be in even if they get ruined from leaking and can change easily several times a day.

 

[LoveSanrio]

Having a super lazy day today. It has done nothing but pour rain all day, so it goes with the territory I guess.

DH, the kids, and I are planning on going up to the mountains for an overnight getaway this coming weekend. From Saturday to Sunday I think.... so 1 more week! I think we could all use a breather from everything. Hopefully things fall into place and we get to go.

Well, guess I need to go do some laundry now... blah. I would much rather do nothing all day!

 

[The Alchemist]

Whittnie - I didn't know what pants you were talking about. After googling the image, I realized I have a pair in my closet in the box of winter clothes. Tag still on. Think I may bring it out and try it. Hopefully, I will fit in it! I have a bunch of spaghetti straps too because I love its casual comfort. It's what I wear most days, especially in this heat. Thanks for the suggestion on the pants too!

 

[cat123456]

Wooo im back home thank god!! Thank you for all your brilliant comments they kept me going. One lady commented saying id rather b at the hospital then home in a way tht became my normal 4 weeks with only about 5 days at home was hard i became scared that i wouldnt cope at home with my girls at all but my oh is being a star we had a long talk and with my depression i took wat had been said the wrong way. Im on strong meds at home so still worrying about my little man but at least th morphine has been cut out without withdrawal! Lol

i got the double buggy and cot today all done except my maternity bras. Do any of u uk ladies no wer i can get a 42E maternity bra? Mothercare dont stock that size and dont have too much to buy.

Welcome Love these ladies have bedn my godsend since i joined th forum sorry to hear ur having a crap time

Mama ur soo strong id b freaking out big time keep going nd let us no if anything happens

Does anyone know about taking epo? Im 33+1 today ang got some im NOT trying to induce labout just get my cervix 'favourable'by 37 weeks and i read thats a gd way anyone know anything? Xx

 

[The Alchemist]

Hey cat, I've heard of ladies on BnB using it and with some success. I haven't read too much about it though so don't know what to provide in answers. What I'm doing for myself is drinking raspberry leaf tea 2-3 a day, started last Sunday..I'd get Braxton Hicks all throughout the day so I think it's working, toning the smooth muscles, pretty much exercising my uterus. Maybe someone else in here can offer you insight on epo because I don't know much about it. But now I'm curious so I will look it up.

 

[whittnie117]

I wrote about epo on that really long food post for third trimester somewhere on here. I'll try to find the page. That's all the info I have on it. I know you take low doses until 36 or so weeks when you can start taking the supplement.

 

[whittnie117]

It's on page 196. The first post.