Numb....lost....I can't lose my baby :'(

[AimeeM]

I am so sorry. Sending prayers for you xxx

 

[torch2010]

I am so sorry lovely. We lost our little boy at 25+5 to fetal hydrops. We were told at our 20 week scan that he had the condition. We decided to continue with our pregnancy and let nature take its course. I am so sorry you are faced with the same thing. If you would like to talk please let me know x

 

[Taylah]

So very sorry Hun xxx

 

[brandiw]

I am so sorry lovely. We lost our little boy at 25+5 to fetal hydrops. We were told at our 20 week scan that he had the condition. We decided to continue with our pregnancy and let nature take its course. I am so sorry you are faced with the same thing. If you would like to talk please let me know x

Thank you
It is nice to connect with someone that had a little one with the same condition, and that also chose to continue the pregnancy. If you don't mind me asking, did you get induced once your little one passed, or have a D&E? I know it's a very personal choice...but I do know that the D&E is not right for me at all...I read about it, and I just can't do that...I just can't. This is definitely the best decision for me.

I go for another ultrasound today at 3 pm....very very nervous. Of course I am hoping for the best...but also preparing for the worst.

 

[kintenda]

I am so sorry lovely. We lost our little boy at 25+5 to fetal hydrops. We were told at our 20 week scan that he had the condition. We decided to continue with our pregnancy and let nature take its course. I am so sorry you are faced with the same thing. If you would like to talk please let me know x

Thank you
It is nice to connect with someone that had a little one with the same condition, and that also chose to continue the pregnancy. If you don't mind me asking, did you get induced once your little one passed, or have a D&E? I know it's a very personal choice...but I do know that the D&E is not right for me at all...I read about it, and I just can't do that...I just can't. This is definitely the best decision for me.

I go for another ultrasound today at 3 pm....very very nervous. Of course I am hoping for the best...but also preparing for the worst.

Hi brandiw, I haven't responded on this thread before but I've just seen this update today. I have absolutely no experience with this condition but I just wanted you to know that I'm thinking of you, and hoping that the situation has improved at your scan today. Xx

 

[Hopefloats76]

Hi
I just wanted to say how sorry I am for you. It's really sad. I also wanted to say that whatever you would have done, there was no right or wrong. It is a personal choice, and no one has the right to judge, or claim things need to be left in anybody's hands but your own.

 

[xcmkx84]

Hi, I'm so sorry to see this post. My thoughts are with you. I found out at my 19wk scan that the chances of my daughter surviving were very slim (she had a different condition). I decided to continue my pregnancy, if you want to ask me any questions at all please pm me. Lots of love x

 

[Hope2302]

Sending hugs and comfort your way is all I can say. X

 

[sumday3]

My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family, your little precious baby girl is in my prayers. I am so sorry to hear of this update. Thinking of you.

 

[brunette&bubs]

I'm so sorry to hear about your little girl

 

[Phantom710]

I'm so sorry to hear about your little girl. Hugs and Loves

 

[gk1701]

Oh my gosh. Im so sorry. It sounds like you want to let nature take its course and you should feel empowered to do that.

 

[brandiw]

Definitely not the ultrasound results we have been hoping for yesterday. Maddy is not getting any better....the fluid is getting worse Her little heart is still beating, but slowing down since the last visit. No one should ever, EVER have to make arrangements for when their baby passes, I can't think of anything worse than making those arrangements for your child. Thank God for my sister...who is doing that for me....I just can't do it I am so thankful for Jill (my sister), because this is very hard for her as well. I think I will be at peace when Maddy finally lets go....then the long road of healing can begin. Until then though....as long as that little heart beats, I am going to cherish every single day I have with her ♥

 

[RebeccaG]

Oh hun I'm so sorry to hear this. Sending you so many hugs your way. Xxxxxxxxxx

 

[Hope2302]

Hugs and prayers of comfort and strength your way. x

 

[xJessie91x]

So sorry. Healing hugs xxxx

 

[Agiboma]

So sorry to hear this news

 

[nhood]

Definitely not the ultrasound results we have been hoping for yesterday. Maddy is not getting any better....the fluid is getting worse Her little heart is still beating, but slowing down since the last visit. No one should ever, EVER have to make arrangements for when their baby passes, I can't think of anything worse than making those arrangements for your child. Thank God for my sister...who is doing that for me....I just can't do it I am so thankful for Jill (my sister), because this is very hard for her as well. I think I will be at peace when Maddy finally lets go....then the long road of healing can begin. Until then though....as long as that little heart beats, I am going to cherish every single day I have with her

Brandiw,

I am so sorry. I can't imagine how you are feeling. I had to go through something similar in 2011. My water broke with my twin pregnancyin the 2nd trimester and I delivered my daughter too early. She only lived a few minutes. I was placed on immediated bedrest, but they warned me that if I get and infection that I would lose my son. Nonetheless, the following week, I loss a lot of fluid and when they did the ultrasound my poor boy was just floating with no water around him. My doctor reccommended a d&c. I did and it was so so hard. I finally did conceive though this past September with twin girls, but it has been a past.

Pls stay strong. We are here for you.

 

[Wriggley]

im so sorry hun! xxx

 

[Andypanda6570]

I am so sorry lovely. We lost our little boy at 25+5 to fetal hydrops. We were told at our 20 week scan that he had the condition. We decided to continue with our pregnancy and let nature take its course. I am so sorry you are faced with the same thing. If you would like to talk please let me know x

Thank you
It is nice to connect with someone that had a little one with the same condition, and that also chose to continue the pregnancy. If you don't mind me asking, did you get induced once your little one passed, or have a D&E? I know it's a very personal choice...but I do know that the D&E is not right for me at all...I read about it, and I just can't do that...I just can't. This is definitely the best decision for me.

I go for another ultrasound today at 3 pm....very very nervous. Of course I am hoping for the best...but also preparing for the worst.

Brandi,
When I lost Ava I was set up for a D&E, they put the sticks up me to open my cervix's so the procedure would be easier to perform and I was told to come to the hospital the next morning to have the D&E procedure, problem was I didn't know what a D&E was, my doctor never explained it to me. I just thought they took the baby out I came home and googled it and was not for me I could not do it , I refused to go and I went into labor and had her in my home, my doctor wanted to kill me. I think the sticks that were put up me to open my cervix's did push the labor to come faster then if I didn't have them in me. My labors except my firstborn were short, so I was only in labor for maybe 3 to 4 hours, but I was used to the pain so i didn't care. I respect your choice, I made it for me also, I also respect women who decide to have the D&E it was just not for me. I think they will induce you and maybe be able to give you pain medication or the pain maybe it will be fast the labor , not sure. I just hope everything goes gentle on you,,XOXOXOOXXO