Numb....lost....I can't lose my baby :'(

I am so sorry lovely. We lost our little boy at 25+5 to fetal hydrops. We were told at our 20 week scan that he had the condition. We decided to continue with our pregnancy and let nature take its course. I am so sorry you are faced with the same thing. If you would like to talk please let me know x


Thank you :hugs:
It is nice to connect with someone that had a little one with the same condition, and that also chose to continue the pregnancy. If you don't mind me asking, did you get induced once your little one passed, or have a D&E? I know it's a very personal choice...but I do know that the D&E is not right for me at all...I read about it, and I just can't do that...I just can't. This is definitely the best decision for me.

I go for another ultrasound today at 3 pm....very very nervous. Of course I am hoping for the best...but also preparing for the worst. :cry:

I am so sorry it's taken me so long to reply lovely. I was induced. I got to cuddle and sing to my little boy. I got to tell him about his family and how much we love him. He is still very much part of our family. send me a pm if you want to talk xx
 
I'm so sorry. :( I refused D&E also, and went into labor without epidural. I know labor will be hard, but every pain is worth getting to hold your dear little one in the end to get to say goodbye and get closure. Despite how you feel now, take lots of pictures and keep every momento.
 
I just wanted to give a quick update.

Madelyn Rael was peacefully born sleeping Janurary 8th at 11:26 pm. She weighed just under one pound. She is just perfect in every single way...she is beautiful....and I am so so in love with her. I had lots of time, although not enough....to hold her, snuggle her, kiss her, and tell her how much I love her. I feel absolutely lost without her now. That was the worst time of my life, having to say goodbye.....but if I could live in that moment forever, of having her in my arms....I would do it, no matter how much pain it caused me. I just need to hold my baby girl again...

One other thing that was found....they determined that she had passed a few days prior to me going in to be induced....so I am very thankful to have been given that information. Although I still knew that induction was the best choice, I am so very thankful that my little sweetheart went on her own before any of that....she went peacefully within her mommy.

Thank you for all of your words.....
 
I'm so sorry for the loss of your daughter. I know how heartbreaking it can be. I pray that peace will be in your heart through this hard time.
 
I am so sorry you had to go through this.
I admire your strength and courage.
You are an inspiration.
Thank you...
 
I'm so very sorry, sleep tight little Maddy until Mummy can cuddle you again xxx best wishes to you and your family x
 
I am so sorry. May God hold you tight during this time.
 
So sorry for your loss, but glad you had cuddles. We had a week of visiting our son before his funeral. It gave us chance to say what we needed and hold him as much as we could. If the worse happens again Id chooselabour in order to hold him or her xxx
 

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