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xxmyheartxx said:
I had my scan today, I need to go back next week as they couldn't see the bright white around babies skull, she's 99% certain it's because I'm before 12 weeks, the other 1% is baby could have anencephaly which obviously is incompatible with life, it's going to be the longest week ever. Baby was active on the scan, It's just heartbreaking for me at the moment x
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Sending positive vibes your way, hopefully the week flies by and you get good news Thursday. I'm sure it's just how early you are.
 
The Chinese lunar calendar says girl which is also what I'm predicting. I'd be happy either way. I haven't had a scan yet and everyone around me is trying to predict I'm having twins which do run in my family. I hope not though, not sure how I'd handle that.
 
I know i was only thinking about her too @Sander

@Baby_brain hope you are doing ok. Please feel free to keep checking in. I'm still part of the march 2019 due thread. Hope you are keeping well and taking it easy x

Insomnia is killing me the last couple of nights it's 4:20 am here in Ireland and I have been awake since 2:30.. what is up with me
 
Sushai said:
Sooooo much to catch up on, I can never keep up!

12 weeks for me today! Can’t believe I’m 2 weeks away from 2nd tri!!
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My gp counts sec tri from 13 weeks I have seen a few say 14 and 13 starting it. Either way you are so close.. can't wait to get into the second tri x
 
I've booked another private scan for this Sunday when I will be 10 +5

Now that my sickness has mostly gone, I have no indication of if it's all ok in there and I just can't wait until my 12 week scan to find out!
 
Girls appreciate when the sickness is gone seriously I used to stress so much and now i enjoy the days where I feel great!
 
xxmyheartxx said:
I had my scan today, I need to go back next week as they couldn't see the bright white around babies skull, she's 99% certain it's because I'm before 12 weeks, the other 1% is baby could have anencephaly which obviously is incompatible with life, it's going to be the longest week ever. Baby was active on the scan, It's just heartbreaking for me at the moment x
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Praying for you! I'm sure all is fine and its just because you're early. I'm only going to be around 11 weeks and 1 day at my dating scan myself.
 
Hi guys, it’s almost like you knew I was lurking...I have been checking in every day and glad to see you are mostly all doing very well. Sending lots of thoughts to myheart. I am sure this will be a nervous week but hope for you that it all turns out ok.

AFM. What a week it has been...finally got seen by the EPU on Monday. They offered me a D and C but the wait would be nearly 3 weeks. So I chose to have medical management. The first dose worked and I was sent home to miscarry. It was a horrible night and absolute agony but I passed my baby on Monday night. I then had another rough day when I passed a lot more clots. Bleeding eased off a bit yesterday but has got really heavy again today. Mentally I feel a bit better now the baby is gone (I know that sounds horrible.) They gave me a sick note for only two days but my GP has extended it until the end of next week so I will see how it goes. I am just super drained at the moment but trying to keep busy with jobs around the house. Follow up at the hospital on Tuesday. Thanks for thinking of me.
 
Baby_brain said:
Hi guys, it’s almost like you knew I was lurking...I have been checking in every day and glad to see you are mostly all doing very well. Sending lots of thoughts to myheart. I am sure this will be a nervous week but hope for you that it all turns out ok.

AFM. What a week it has been...finally got seen by the EPU on Monday. They offered me a D and C but the wait would be nearly 3 weeks. So I chose to have medical management. The first dose worked and I was sent home to miscarry. It was a horrible night and absolute agony but I passed my baby on Monday night. I then had another rough day when I passed a lot more clots. Bleeding eased off a bit yesterday but has got really heavy again today. Mentally I feel a bit better now the baby is gone (I know that sounds horrible.) They gave me a sick note for only two days but my GP has extended it until the end of next week so I will see how it goes. I am just super drained at the moment but trying to keep busy with jobs around the house. Follow up at the hospital on Tuesday. Thanks for thinking of me.
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Thank you hun.
Sending you many hugs, take it as easy as you can :hugs: :hugs:
 
I have booked a private scan tomorrow just for their opinion, They are aware of what's happened yesterday, they advised that it might just too early. The sonographer who I am seeing tomorrow used to work at the hospital and set up herself 10 years ago and I've used for all of my children so value her opinion if that makes sense. Hopefully we see a nice bright skull x
 
Baby_brain said:
Hi guys, it’s almost like you knew I was lurking...I have been checking in every day and glad to see you are mostly all doing very well. Sending lots of thoughts to myheart. I am sure this will be a nervous week but hope for you that it all turns out ok.

AFM. What a week it has been...finally got seen by the EPU on Monday. They offered me a D and C but the wait would be nearly 3 weeks. So I chose to have medical management. The first dose worked and I was sent home to miscarry. It was a horrible night and absolute agony but I passed my baby on Monday night. I then had another rough day when I passed a lot more clots. Bleeding eased off a bit yesterday but has got really heavy again today. Mentally I feel a bit better now the baby is gone (I know that sounds horrible.) They gave me a sick note for only two days but my GP has extended it until the end of next week so I will see how it goes. I am just super drained at the moment but trying to keep busy with jobs around the house. Follow up at the hospital on Tuesday. Thanks for thinking of me.
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I'm glad they finally got you in and a treatment plan. That must have been so hard. I'm glad you had some time off work to recover physically and mentally. What kind of home projects are you tackling?
 
Baby Brain - it doesn’t sound awful, I think I would feel the same way. Carrying a baby without a heartbeat must be unimaginable, and I think I would also just want it to be out. I’m glad you got time off work, I hope you’re taking time for yourself to heal and grieve. Big big hugs xx

Myheart - I hope your private scan goes well! I’m sorry I’m sure this is such a stressful situation, but if both sonographers seem confident you’re just too early, they’re probably right. After all they see pregnant women all day every day!
Thinking of you :)
 
Baby_brain said:
Hi guys, it’s almost like you knew I was lurking...I have been checking in every day and glad to see you are mostly all doing very well. Sending lots of thoughts to myheart. I am sure this will be a nervous week but hope for you that it all turns out ok.

AFM. What a week it has been...finally got seen by the EPU on Monday. They offered me a D and C but the wait would be nearly 3 weeks. So I chose to have medical management. The first dose worked and I was sent home to miscarry. It was a horrible night and absolute agony but I passed my baby on Monday night. I then had another rough day when I passed a lot more clots. Bleeding eased off a bit yesterday but has got really heavy again today. Mentally I feel a bit better now the baby is gone (I know that sounds horrible.) They gave me a sick note for only two days but my GP has extended it until the end of next week so I will see how it goes. I am just super drained at the moment but trying to keep busy with jobs around the house. Follow up at the hospital on Tuesday. Thanks for thinking of me.
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Baby_brain... as somebody who has been through a similar thing, please do not go back to work before YOU are ready. Your mental health is really important and you need to recover from the trauma. Thinking of you, you are stronger than you think.
 
xxmyheartxx said:
I have booked a private scan tomorrow just for their opinion, They are aware of what's happened yesterday, they advised that it might just too early. The sonographer who I am seeing tomorrow used to work at the hospital and set up herself 10 years ago and I've used for all of my children so value her opinion if that makes sense. Hopefully we see a nice bright skull x
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Good luck! Will be thinking of you x
 
xxmyheartxx said:
I had my scan today, I need to go back next week as they couldn't see the bright white around babies skull, she's 99% certain it's because I'm before 12 weeks, the other 1% is baby could have anencephaly which obviously is incompatible with life, it's going to be the longest week ever. Baby was active on the scan, It's just heartbreaking for me at the moment x
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Hi hun I'm sure its because its early and ure not 12 weeks yet. I'm sure ure next scan will go well. I'm surprised they did ure dating scan so early I have to wait till I'm 13 weeks.
Thinking of you and pray ure next scan goes really really well. :hugs:
 
Nolimitxox said:
We had a dating and viability scan this morning. Just under 9 weeks, 168bpm, and our Chinese Lunar Calendar prediction says GIRL. Hubby and I are so in love it's ridiculous. I knew we would be happy and excited but I wasn't prepared for how much we would love this baby already. Holy crap.

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Awwww so lovely hon. I was the same at both my scans. As soon as I see HB so much love. In already so attached to this little baby and so in love. Lovely picture hon
 
Baby_brain said:
Hi guys, it’s almost like you knew I was lurking...I have been checking in every day and glad to see you are mostly all doing very well. Sending lots of thoughts to myheart. I am sure this will be a nervous week but hope for you that it all turns out ok.

AFM. What a week it has been...finally got seen by the EPU on Monday. They offered me a D and C but the wait would be nearly 3 weeks. So I chose to have medical management. The first dose worked and I was sent home to miscarry. It was a horrible night and absolute agony but I passed my baby on Monday night. I then had another rough day when I passed a lot more clots. Bleeding eased off a bit yesterday but has got really heavy again today. Mentally I feel a bit better now the baby is gone (I know that sounds horrible.) They gave me a sick note for only two days but my GP has extended it until the end of next week so I will see how it goes. I am just super drained at the moment but trying to keep busy with jobs around the house. Follow up at the hospital on Tuesday. Thanks for thinking of me.
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Awww baby brain you have been in my thoughts as well. I think u did the right thing choosing the medical intervention. I'm still so sorry u are going through this heartache. Just know u are in Our thoughts.
 
Hi ladies I ordered my doppler yesterday but it wont be here until the 29th March to the 3rd April. I'll be almost 12 weeks. I have a scan on 1st April and another scan on the 9th April which will be the dating scan where they check for adnormiltys. I'm going to get them to have a good look at baby at the scan on the 1st April because I'll be 11+6 and I want my mind put at rest so then I wont have to worry so much about the dating scan. Cant believe I have to wait until I'm 13 weeks for the dating scan but happy I'll he having a scan the week b4. So glad I had them 2 privet scans now other wise I wud have had a very long wait.
Hoping the doppler will arrive b4 the Scan and praying I will be able to find the HB.

They class the 2nd tri here from 13 weeks some doctors even class it form 12 weeks so were all so close now ladies.
I'm so nervous about all the screening testing. Hubby isn't nervous one bit. He has Romney gypsy blood in him and he said he know that this baby will be healthy. I wish I cud be more like him and more calmer but I'm a born worrier.

Sickness came back a bit yesterday but it hasn't been to bad today. Boobs are still tender but don't seem as tender as they was.
Anyone else been suffering with insomnia. Like u feel totally drained but have trouble sleeping and then when u do fall asleep u keep waking up?
 
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