Congrats on V day!
only a week for you too Emerald!! Woo x
I'm measuring 3-4 weeks behind their dates bump wise (somehow) and by the dates they've given me as a due date I would have tested positive a day before I even conceived which isn't possible! so technically she's measuring more like 5 weeks behind and I said this to the midwife this morning and she said "oh well, just stay positive and she'll come when she's ready, you want to stay low risk so you can have your natural birth"
I mentioned not feeling her move much for days at a time and she went "you will be doing, you just don't realise" - I'm bloody over 25 weeks and see my belly move at times, I know what it feels like!! So I said this and then she tried to tell me that my anterior placenta wouldn't be affecting me feeling her movements and said I didn't know what I was talking about when I said it must do, I just wanted to slap her! I asked if I'd have a section in the same place as usual if my placenta is so low and anterior, she looked shocked and said "you don't need a section".. Then she went "you need to go to hospital if she doesn't move much but try not to go all the time for nothing, you want to stay low risk.." and then she actually turned around and said "don't start this just so you can be induced early like everyone else because you can't be fussed waiting and going to 40 weeks" - excuse me?! I said "I'll have been pregnant nearly a year by then, if you look at my notes you'd see I mc'd at Christmas..." and she shut up then.
Noticed on my notes after I'd got home that my blood pressure is rising compared to each time I go, still just in normal range at the moment but I've got a feeling it won't be next time.. Mentioned tingly hands to the midwife (warning sign of pre eclampsia) and she went "you're only a young girl, you won't have it don't worry" - my mum had it at 18!!
She didn't give me my matb1 form either, I have to wait til 28 weeks now.
I feel so let down!