OH has only ***UPDATED P3***

[Dizzy321]

1 week of work left
then we will both be jobless
what the hell are we going to do...I just dont have a clue so so scared, i dont want to loose our house we have worked so hard for

just got to prey something happens and he gets another job

 

[maybethistime]

Sorry to hear this hun cant u go down the local CAB office and see what they can do to advice/help. With probs with the crunch there might be things they can do to help before it even gets that far

 

[Dizzy321]

I have phoned them and they said I can apply for certain benifits from the first day hes out of a job we cant afford for him to be out of work even a week cant stop panicing, why does this have to happen to us

 

[maybethistime]

oh hun, have u written to the morgage company? to let them no u are under hardship at the min maybe they will give u some time? there must be something that they can do seeing as ur DH losing his job is no falut of his own there seems to be so many people going through this its horrible

 

[Dizzy321]

yes there is so many people going through this and loosing there homes and everything, I dont want it to happen to us my home is my life

Going to ring mortgage company see if I can get the mortgage on interest only for a year maybe until we get through all this. Thank u

 

[maybethistime]

thats ok hun good luck I hope they can do something for u x

 

[Vici]

My OH was made redundant too hun. We didn't go to interest only but our mortgage company agreed to let us have a couple of months payment holiday! Thankfully OH went self employed and has had a small amount of work - enough to keep us ticking over - so its all been paid but its worth bearing in mind

 

[Always&4ever]

Oh no, I'm sorry hon

 

[FEDup1981]

oh no, thats crap hun. I hope u can switch ur mortgage over . Hope it all works out for u xxx

 

[Dizzy321]

Thanks girls, I am soooooo scared I just prey it all falls into place

 

[maybethistime]

wat did the morgage company do hun? would they swich it over for u?

 

[Dizzy321]

I rang them and with the mortgage we have they dont do interest free so we have to re mortgage and get interest only, also we took a break just before rosie was due had a 3 month break so not sure if they will let us take another break!? surely they must be helping people out in my situation with all this ecomony s**t going on!!

 

[maybethistime]

ohh hun, fingers crossed they do something for u and like u say all this shit going on the govenment claiming they are helping people in ur situation ball

 

[nataliecn]

Oh no!
Is there anything you could do from home in the meantime?
Anyone you know that needs a babysitter that you could maybe bring in to the house?

I really hope everything gets sorted out hun! No one needs stresses like that!

 

[Dizzy321]

i know i really dont need this stress

 

[maybethistime]

 

[Vici]

Always worth asking your mortgage people hun, they can just add it on the end so its not like they miss out. Most would prefer this than people defaulting! Good luck hun x

 

[Dizzy321]

yes its not like i wont be paying, i will just pay intrest until we get through this x

 

[Jemma_x]

i really hope you can sort something hun

 

[danni2609]

Oh hunny i really hope he finds another job soon and the mortgage gets sorted out xx