Oh I feel vile

[dozydormouse]

Came home with nice bottle of wine and an invitation to nip upstairs and bd before dinner, as oh working from home today. But he has a bit of a cold, maybe later, not just now, he needs to do ambit of washing up first. It's nearly always the same, whether I'm ov or not, which I am right now! Am I so revolting? He loves me, we've been married five years, yet it's so often a battle to get any action!

Sorry, close to tears so needed to vent so I'm not so obviously upset to him-'sure it'll make it worse.

 

[snd80]

Men! They just don't see or feel things the way we do... it's ALL about them! Hope he changes his mind!

 

[ForeverYoung]

The most frustrating for me is when he tells me he's too tired and he's not up for it, and later I catch him watching a dirty movie or something. Men are ridiculous. I wonder if they know how unattractive it makes us feel when they do things like this?

 

[EngineerGirl]

Aww...sorry to hear that, that's rough. Have you talked to him about it when you're both rested, fed, and relatively happy to see what the deal might be?

 

[dozydormouse]

Thanks ladies, all worked out ok in the end Think he realised how unhappy I was and how hard I was trying not to be. I know he felt a bit rough because of his cold but he felt a lot better afterwards!