Oh rant!!!!!

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  1. Mummy_to_be87

    Mummy_to_be87 Well-Known Member

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    Okay so Im 28 weeks pregnant tomorrow and excited, sometimes I feel vulnerable when my OH sees skinny, beautiful women, I admit yes it does make me feel fat and ugly and like he isnt interested in me anymore!! Last night when I was lying with back ache, insomnia, needing to wee every hour, headache, heartburn and the rest my OH sleeps soundly, oh doesnt he have it easy!! Well then I heard him muttering the words ''LAUREN!!'' like OMG who the hell is LAUREN!!!! So of course Im upset, Im wondering WHY he is saying another womans name!! Is he cheating on me? Is she some skinny NON PREGNANT woman who isnt going through all this to make him a daddy? Im just pretty sad and feeling very low, he denied it this morning when I spoke to him about it but he gave me a wee snidy grin as if he knows who this LAUREN is but denies it as he knows I will start up then he has a cheek to say its all me and its my HORMONES!! does he REALLY want my HORMONES to make an appearance on this matter!!!!!!

    Sorry for the rant but I needed to get it off my chest!!
     
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    Mummy_to_be87 Well-Known Member

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    OH I forgot to mention....about an hour before this happened my OH got his manhood caught in his jean zip and he was in agony while I went up and down stairs which made me out of breath to get him water and ice cubes etc I was really patient and helpful so when he mentioned LAUREN in his sleep my first thoughts were ''I should have just yanked this bloody zip and gave him pain!!!!!!!!!''
     
  3. ashlee23

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    i know how u feel, very jealous of ppl with lovely slim figures n i think hormones do play a part in makin us feel insecure!
    my ex once said his exs name in his sleep, not really in a sexy way but i was fuming! couldnt really be mad with him about it though, u cant help what u dream. n also gotta say im just glad i havent been talkin in my sleep through this pregnancy as, especially near the start, i had some pretty naughty dreams that did have some random people in :haha: xxx
     
  4. Mummy_to_be87

    Mummy_to_be87 Well-Known Member

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    I understand that totally, I guess Im just fuming and maybe I should be a bit nicer to him, I just hope its not a sign of him cheating as he does go out more than he used to :dohh: my hormones play a big part in my attitude to everything these days...he has come to me and wants to take me shopping tomorrow and for dinner so maybe he is genuine :shrug:
     
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    yeah know exactly how u feel. i get so paranoid n dream of having my pre-preg figure back n actually feeling sexy again- sometimes think thatll never happen! and i also think we are all more insecure and maybe even a little paranoid wen pregnant and id hope ur OH would never dream of that - u can always think of it another way: he knows he has soooo much more to lose now as ur goin 2 b the mother of his child, i doubt any woman can compete with that (and maybe just discreetly drop in to conversation that if he ever cheated ud cut it off with nail clippers - it makes u feel better, promise lol) xxx
     
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    :haha: nail clippers :haha:

    I think Im never going to get my figure back but hopefully we will when the babies are here, though no pressure...we have done an amazing job...making a baby is a miracle who cares about a few extra lbs :haha:

    I think Im over reacting, I have calmed down a bit now since hearing your opinion on the matter, I do tend to fly off the handle when I get stressed :flower:
     
  7. fairykate

    fairykate Mad as a box of frogs

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    I feel the opposite about skinny women!! Well, maybe only when trying to choose an outfit for my Xmas party lol!

    I love my bump etc and so does OH and will be very sad to see it go and be back to normal again afterwards. In fact I think I look better pregnant than I did before - maybe it just suits my shape better or something? Anyway, my point is that you should learn to feel confident in your body whatever its shape and love yourself :hugs:
     
  8. Chasesmommy

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    I feel the same way! I'm paranoid that my OH will find some pretty girl who doesn't have nutso hormones like me. One with a nice body and a quiet mouth! Even though I know he would never cheat on me or look for someone else I can't help but be terrified! It's ridiculous because before I was pregnant I was never jealous! I hate it!
     
  9. redstiletto

    redstiletto Mom and WTT #2

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    I feel the same. I'm soooo paranoid I won't get my pre-baby body back. Hubby has always been attracted to women with skinny waists and big tits, the so-called porn-star looking ones and here I am with a huge belly and fat feet. :cry: But I did tell him if he were to ever cheat on me I'd cut off his dick, shove it down his throat, and pull it out of his ass. lol
     
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    Check his facebook to see if anybody in there is named lauren.. I would be pissed if my OH calls out another's chick name in his sleep.
     
  11. TTC86JMS

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    what i tell OH when im being jealous is :
    "just wait till i loose my bump my dear boy,you'll see how much men i will get!!!and you kno i can."
    that always pushes a button,cos he is even more of a jealous freak than i am.
    honestly,you shouldnt feel bad about your pregnant body,just keep yourself nice,wear your makeup as usual,and dress as sexy as you possibly can with a bump. believe it or not,men will still hit on you sometimes
     
  12. Mummy_to_be87

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    :haha: I will do, I notice men still eye me up on the street :haha:

    I love my pregnant bump I just feel low sometimes but I really shouldnt as Im doing something natural :happydance:
     
  13. Dannieo

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    You poor lamb, I know how you feel. People openly gawp at me because I'm so big (if I hear "Are you sure it's not twins" one more time...), but my OH tells me that I'm beautiful and I'm carrying his baby and he is proud of me.

    Sit your OH down and in a calm way explain how you're feeling ATM and say yes it might be the hormones, but you need some reassurance. That you would like to know who this person is as it is stressing you out and upsetting you. It could be that she's off the TV, like that Lauren from The Hills (the blonde plastic looking one) or something.

    My OH once said his ex's name, and it just so happened to occur while I had my mouth around his penis. Let's just say he's lucky he could get me pregnant after THAT!!! I can laugh now, as it was 7 years ago and it was after a heavy night out and he'd been arguing with her over the kids that day, but he was told that anymore of that nonsense would result in him singing soprano for the rest of his life.... He's not done it since!!!
     
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    Mummy_to_be87 Well-Known Member

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    :hi: I would have been extra raging if I was in your situation when another womans name was mentioned :haha: I have sat him down yesterday and he said he honestly doesnt know any Laurens and I have got over it now, Im guessing it is Lauren out of Gilmore Girls, Lorelai Gilmore, as we watch it every night before bed, he even suggested it could be a girls name he thought on for the baby but we joke about it now, like tonight he is going out with the men and I said ''are you sure you arent going to see Lauren?'' :haha: My OH has also told me that im beautiful and he is proud of me so I feel much much better now :happydance:
     
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    Oh good! I'm glad you've talked it through! Men are very simple creatures!!!

    I can laugh now because I know he'd NEVER want his ex in that way, but at the time.... woooooh!!! :haha:

    xxx :hugs:
     
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    glad ur feelin better today hunni xxx
     
  17. Laurenmomma

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    its me! haha only joking sorry trying to make u feel better! im so paranoid at the minute with oh and feel the same that he doesnt want me anymore n that hes lookin at other women but honestly its these bloody hormones!

    im glad hes made u feel better but id keep him on his toes by being more confident! dont put ypurself down your beautiful to a lot of people with a bump or not! xx
     
  18. Mummy_to_be87

    Mummy_to_be87 Well-Known Member

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    Thank you ladies for being so nice to me and helping me by giving me advice :flower:

    :haha: Laurenmomma now I know why my OH is always on the B&B site only joking :D

    The hormones are terrible, one day Im up then the next Im down, once the baby is here it will be brilliant so I can feel back to normal :haha:

    :flower:
     
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    Chris does as a wind up... but then again, I do the same to him! :D (please note, we do not joke about the paternty of the baby as that would be wrong...)

    I found out today that Chris PAID for a dance at the local gentlemans club when I went on a cruise earlier this year, HA! I locked him in the car for an hour and then let him out.

    I try not to take things too seriously, but if he did that now he's be on outside in the cold, but we had only been dating a few weeks then, I wasn't too fussed.
     
  20. Mummy_to_be87

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    :haha: you locked him in the car :haha: I will try and laugh more as I do tend to take things really seriously :blush:
     

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