LostandFound
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So i bet this is a common issue. However, i'm almost 39 weeks and trying to get the place in order and OH will just NOT get on board at all. The place is a mess. Every time i clean something, it gets dirty again due to his habits (which we fight about anyway even when i'm not pregnant).
I feel like there is just too much to get done this week and it's making me really anxious (hormones I know) so I decided to hire a cleaner to do some parts and gardener to take care of outside. however, when OH found out he's not happy and says we shouldn't spend the money, he will TOTALLY get round to stuff. But I know this just isn't true. I've been waiting weeks and weeks already.
He's also just not participated at all in any appointments, antenatal.... basically done nothing at all to prepare for being a birth partner. It's like he doesn't want to adjust at all to our current circumstances so I feel alone in it all.
No idea what to do!
I feel like there is just too much to get done this week and it's making me really anxious (hormones I know) so I decided to hire a cleaner to do some parts and gardener to take care of outside. however, when OH found out he's not happy and says we shouldn't spend the money, he will TOTALLY get round to stuff. But I know this just isn't true. I've been waiting weeks and weeks already.
He's also just not participated at all in any appointments, antenatal.... basically done nothing at all to prepare for being a birth partner. It's like he doesn't want to adjust at all to our current circumstances so I feel alone in it all.
No idea what to do!