Louise88
Dd- ciara and ds- James
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My oh got serious GD when we found out we were having a girl last time, he didn't talk to me for 2 days and wouldn't let me go out and buy baby girl clothes because he kept convincing himself that they were wrong and it was really a boy. It took him a few months to bond with our dd and even now isn't fussed about looking after her etc. his friend has 3 boys and when their 3rd boy was born (knowing that they wanted a girl) he turned to them and said I don't why you's want a girl I'd love 3 boys. He has also turned to me and said this baby better be a boy I don't want another girl and admitted he'd be devastated if it was. This has now put pressure on me as I feel if this babies not a boy then he'll not bond with her as I get the impression if its a girl he won't give her the time of day basically. He's also said we're going to keep having babies until I have a boy! I've drawn a line at 3 regardless. His ex gave birth to a little boy in march and he went really funny about it and mentioned if he'd stayed with her that would have been their boy (which obviously hurt me as I feel our dd isn't good enough for him) its put me in a massive panic incase this babies another girl and has got me praying for a boy for his sake it's starting to give me GD.
Sorry for rambling on I just feel this is the only place I can talk to others about gender disappointment.
Sorry for rambling on I just feel this is the only place I can talk to others about gender disappointment.