Ok, got what I wanted. Now I'm scared!

[bat8301]

In March, we lost our Gracie in my second trimester due to an incompetent cervix. As soon as we got the go ahead, we started trying again. Well, this morning I got my BFP!!!! I'm so excited, but I'm sooo scared. I don't want to go through it again. Has anyone else gone through this? How did you get through without having a nervous breakdown ? Thanks in advance.

 

[Vickieh1981]

I am sorry for the loss of your little girl. We also lost our little girl in March just into the second trimester.

I don't really have any advice. I am not pregnant again yet but will definitely be terrified when/if I do get my BFP.

Have they spoken about putting a stitch in?

 

[bat8301]

yeah, I'm going to get a cerclage at 12 wks. I'm just worried I won't get there this time.

 

[lynne192]

went through this with everyone one of my pregnancies was worst with my last pregnancy because i was sure everything would be fine and so did medical staff and it all went shit. with my son i had scares every week, i just found a hobby and put as much positive thinking into my pregnancy as i could, make sure you have the help and support you need, are you likely to be going on bed rest anytime because if you IC? i was on bedrest for most of my pregnancy with my son, when he was born funnily enough the "tap tap tap" of the keyboard settled him because i had used my laptop so much while on bedrest lol