ok so who wants to get pregnant in 2011? (closed group)

I am getting a bit concerned. My expected O day is tomorrow and I should have watery but have creamy. :(



hmmm well I dont know much about cm but hopefully it will change tomorrow and you will ov tomorrow night or thurs? what CD are you?

I was ultra watery the morning I got my smiley face, its funny as I even posted on here my Im wet just like on O. my O came 3 days earlier. perhaps yours will be a little later :hugs:
 
feels slow on here, havent heard from ny today how are you? and huggles where are you? :flower:
 
I am 20. The last 2 cycles I believe I Oed on 21. Last month for sure.
 
well the morning sickness and tiredness are normal for this stage. Generally from 6 weeks onwards the morning sickness hits, and while so far it's only been nausea rather than full blown sickness, it definitely only started after 6 weeks... And being tired is pretty normal I think too, a lot of the other ladies are really tired now too. The baby is growing SOO MUCH, and with the sickness we're not getting the same nutrients in either so it's understandable really....

But luckily for me it's autumn now, so these fresh apples I'm loving are EVERYWHERE. We put a message out on a mailing list for anyone with overloaded apple trees and have now got permission to go and raid several local trees for truly fresh ones! yay! lol

And thankfully I'll be heavily pregnant over winter & early spring; when it's cool! YAY! lmao
 
Thanks Flying and sarah.. i think ill wait for sarahs bfp. did hover the mouse over and saw it says happy dance,, maybe need to leave space in between..

flying i feel just like you. i am probably since the pushed back dates, just entering 5 weeks. i wanted to ask NY about this but im taking those progesterone pills and when i wipe sometimes, i get pale yellow discharge. its like white dicharge with a tinge of yellow, sorry if TMI. googled it and its called leukorrhea. its normal yellow or white discharge and happens with the release of progesterone in the body.

i am super obsessed about the signs and symptoms as im such a worrier..

i have such lack of symptoms that sometimes i fail to believe i am pregnant.

doctor at one hospital who told me i was 5 weeks already, because she calculated LMP according to day 14 ov, said i could come on 8th march for a scan and i would be able to see something. she assumed i would bee 6 and half weeks, but now im only 5, so just gona have to wait patiently until the 23rd for when im praying i get to see the hearbeat..

that should settle me down nicely until the 12 week wait.

flying, about the food, its good your having small meals. the mistake im doing that some doc picked me on, was the fact that i had three meals a day and all large and full meals.

doc says we should be eating 6 small meals a day and not filling our stomachs upto the bloat point.

thats tough for me though because im such a foodie !!

just going to google water birth !! for those of yopu interested, there is a full on live birth video posted by someone in first tri, the threads title is , hold on, ill post the thread title. its a full on video with original sounds,made me squrim and start thinking about water birth !
 
Sheryl: Creamy is good - creamy is almost EWM and that's the most fertile! Watery usually comes after ov. Fx'd this is your month - get :sex: !!!

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AFM - I'm still here, I'm just rubbish at keeping up with this thread :blush:
I do catch up every couple of days though. Although sometimes I just need to keep my distance for emotional reasons.
I think I'm going to be ov'ing this weekend. AF arrived 4 days late last month so has pushed my cycle up a couple of days.

Good luck with the polyp removal Sarah - can't believe it's almost time!
 
Sarah... so pleased you Polyp removal is just around the corner...

Hope everyone is well..

Huggles... :hugs: I completely understand... what used to be a ttc thread has now ended up with pregnant ladies in it... it can't be easy to deal with and my apologies if I've been a little insensitive :hugs:
 
MummyCat - no need to apologize - even the ttc'ness causes emotional upset at times. I'm just going through a very rough patch in so many different ways right now, so i just need to give myself space at times. You haven't been insensitive in any way - tbh i just skim over most of the pg posts anyway cos i just can't really deal with those at the moment. In fact, if i have to be entirely honest, i tend to skim over a lot of the posts in here at the moment. I'm just a bit messed up in my head at the moment from a lot of things so apologies for not being around more, but I do try and keep up a little bit here and there.
 
oh honey!!! :hugs:

You have been through a hell of a lot. I'm not sure I'd be able to cope on a forum full of people trying to conceive, people falling pregnant and people having healthy babies if I'd been through even a little of what you have...

So make sure you're not too hard on yourself... allow yourself to think of you first and foremost... and don't apologise for not being on here much... :hugs:

If you ever need to chat to someone about anything... I'm a PM away and happy to listen and support in whatever way possible... but completely understand if you just need your distance!

:hugs: :hugs: and more :hugs: and keeping everything crossed that your BFP is around the corner! :flower:
 
I'm with you Huggles - reading but not posting often. I'm trying to back away from TTC for a bit and just let what happens happen, so will be even less active for a while probably. DH is worried about my health with the stress of TTC so I'm trying to take my mind of babies as much as possible.
 
im so sorry too huggles and NDH, if you feel very upset about all of this, please do let us know if this bothers you. i know i post a lot on here, thats because im nto so active on first tri. i am too attached to everyone else on here, but if you all feel this upset, then i shall reduce my posts on here to make you feel better.. sorry again :hugs:

hope you feel better. xxx

lots and lots of :dust:
 
Babyhopes - your posts really don't bother me, I'm quite happy for you to continue posting as per usual on here. I think even if you were to stop posting on this thread completely I probably still wouldn't be on here all that much so from my side I really don't think you need to stop posting. I just go where I feel comfortable when I feel I can be there. And unfortunately this particular thread is not one I am a frequent poster on, and I doubt I will be a frequent poster on it ever, so please don't feel you have to stop posting on my account.
 
Hello girls, im here. Sorry i've not said much. It seems like if I do...it will just be pissing and moaning about my situation and I dont want to bring just that to the thread, ya know? Im just not having a very good pregnancy. It sucks to think you are probably Miscarrying every day. Just frustrating that I couldn't have a normal time of it this time around. Who knows what is going on- sometimes ive got brown spotting, sometimes I dont. I dont think its a good thing though, kind of that mother's instinct. Guess we will just see what happens.

My 30th birthday today and i'm just wishing for a healthy growing gummy bear in my tummy. Seems like a small wish!
 
what used to be a ttc thread has now ended up with pregnant ladies in it...

but that was the whole point! thats supposed to happen. this thread will eventually have 100% pregnant ladies in it, cant wait for that :hugs:

Huggles I completely understand, sounds like you are going through a hard time and I just want to give you lots of :hugs::hugs::hugs::hugs:

did you see a therapist after your loss? I struggled for years after the death of my dad and my grief took over in many different ways....became anti-social, started binge eating etc. Only last year, 7 years after his death, did I start going to see a therapist and its really helped. Its not for everyone and is pricey, I was just wondering as you have been through a lot :hugs:

anyway, I do think that the stress of TTC and the TWW are hard for many people, and Ive read so many times of people who stop 'trying' so hard and then get pregnant.

please dont feel that you have to post, I just missed you :hugs:
 
i did see a therapist for 6 sessions after jarrod's death. It helped a bit but i stopped the sessions because it started becoming more stressful than helpful. I don't talk to people easily. I don't open up easily. And i used to then totally stress about what i was going to say and i just found it all more stress than i could deal with, so i stopped going. I was actually doing fine up until last month, it's just that the bfn hit me super hard and i don't think i've recovered from that. Sounds really silly, people get bfn's all the time, but it's brought up a whole lot of other things.

And there's two other things that are totally stressing me out as well that i don't really want to talk about here, but I'm just not really feeling very strong emotionally at the moment, and i'm pretty sure 90% of it is ttc related. So i'll keep popping in here randomly and skimming through the posts, but i probably won't post much.

thanks for caring :flower:
 
I'm with you Huggles - reading but not posting often. I'm trying to back away from TTC for a bit and just let what happens happen, so will be even less active for a while probably. DH is worried about my health with the stress of TTC so I'm trying to take my mind of babies as much as possible.

awww do take some time for yourself Big big :hugs:

how about you girls dont read the posts please just come and say hi and give an update on yourselves, thats all I would like as I feel like we are a little family and its weird when someone is not around :hugs:
 
funnily enough part of the reason i stopped posting was because i felt like whenever i did pop in here i just talked about myself and never commented on anyone else's news! I felt like you'd all think i was totally self-centred! Will try pop in a bit more, even if it's just to say hi.
 
Hello girls, im here. Sorry i've not said much. It seems like if I do...it will just be pissing and moaning about my situation and I dont want to bring just that to the thread, ya know? Im just not having a very good pregnancy. It sucks to think you are probably Miscarrying every day. Just frustrating that I couldn't have a normal time of it this time around. Who knows what is going on- sometimes ive got brown spotting, sometimes I dont. I dont think its a good thing though, kind of that mother's instinct. Guess we will just see what happens.

My 30th birthday today and i'm just wishing for a healthy growing gummy bear in my tummy. Seems like a small wish!

omg happy birthday!!! are you do anything today? I hope you get pampered whatever you are doing!

so are you spotting again? I would be exactly the same,worrying all the time. when is your next scan? now of course I dont know much about the first tri, but doesnt the implantation phrase take a while, doesnt the bean need to snuggle in for a long time? I read theres lots a of blood vessells down there so thats why theres often spotting. but Im sure you know all that. is the spotting the same as before you went and got those pills? have you asked first tri people if others have spotted a lot?

personally I want to hear all your moans and groans so please go ahead, dont ever think you are bringing the thread down we are here for the ups and the downs :hugs:
 

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