ok so who wants to get pregnant in 2011? (closed group)

[flyingduster]

omg, sherylb!!!! CONGRATS!!!!!! so so sooooo happy for you!!!!

Baby, yay for some clear diagnosis and treatment! That must be a relief to KNOW what is going on?? And for a lovely healthy bub still.


pinkanhopeful, I'm not really sure what advice I can offer. I know nothing about the mirena, but I know there are a number of threads on here specifically for supporting those who've had theirs removed so they might be able to help more. I understand that will all forms of female contraceptive though, it can really throw your cycles off for many months later so perhaps it's still that that is causing issues with your cycle??

The OPKs aren't always very good, especially if you only use them once a day. If you aren't sure if you've ovulated yet or not, perhaps talk to your doctor and get a blood test done to see if you HAVE ovulated yet or not.

In the end, I know it feels like forever, but 3 months really isn't very long to be trying. For every month that the timing is perfect and everything is right, there's still only 25% chance of getting pregnant. Add in to that that you're not sure when you are ovulating and that both you and DH are healthy in that respect then the chances of falling pregnant every month suddenly become horribly disheartening. It SUCKS!! SOOOO much! Especially when so many others around you are falling pregnant at the drop of hat!!!! I know I'm not much help at all, and I'm so sorry. I wish I could be, I wish I could just have the answer and tell everyone! But at least you've found a wonderful place here where SOOOO many others are in the same boat and can sympathise at the very least.

 

[NDH]

Congrats Sheryl! Just Sarah, Huggles and I left now.

 

[babyhopes2323]

it cant get any more stressful, bubba might be healthy but ive read that sometimes when the other sac is empty and the body feels its useless, it will try to get rid of it, causing uterine contractions which could harm the first baby.

but that was something online. im not sure, what with that and a bleeding sac, im just stressed and on bed rest and it dosent help to have one complication after another.

flying, hope you're feeling better atm.

congrats sheryl

 

[MummyCat]

Huge congrats Sheryl!!

Keeping my fingers, toes, legs, everything crossed for NDH, Huggles and Sarah!

 

[babyhopes2323]

hoping that everyone else left here gets their much awaited BFP's as soon as possible.
xxx

 

[sherylb]

Thanks guys!!

 

[Huggles]

congrats sheryl! When did you test?

 

[sarahincanada]

Congrats Sheryl! Just Sarah, Huggles and I left now.

omg sheryl congrats you did it!!!!!!

just the 3 of us left, I have a feeling I will be the last but thats ok, it will happen!!!

 

[sarahincanada]

it cant get any more stressful, bubba might be healthy but ive read that sometimes when the other sac is empty and the body feels its useless, it will try to get rid of it, causing uterine contractions which could harm the first baby.

but that was something online. im not sure, what with that and a bleeding sac, im just stressed and on bed rest and it dosent help to have one complication after another.

flying, hope you're feeling better atm.

congrats sheryl

awwww preethi, Im keeping everything crossed for you, I do think everything will be ok. i wish you could be less stressed about it all, it doesnt sound enjoyable! I will probably be the same. next week is a big week for me, and you get another scan so roll on next week!

 

[babyhopes2323]

aww sarah i wish i could feel better about it at the moment, but it is stressful when you are being diagnosed with stuff instead of being able to enjoy your pregnancy as normal as other women.

moved my appointment to the 21st monday so i think we are on the same day ! is polyp on the same day?

xxxxx ur getting closer to that BFP my dear, just cant wait !

 

[sherylb]

I tested late last night.

 

[sarahincanada]

aww sarah i wish i could feel better about it at the moment, but it is stressful when you are being diagnosed with stuff instead of being able to enjoy your pregnancy as normal as other women.

moved my appointment to the 21st monday so i think we are on the same day ! is polyp on the same day?

xxxxx ur getting closer to that BFP my dear, just cant wait !

im tuesday so you are the day before! so what is the purpose of this next scan? will they be able to tell you something different to the other ones? and give me a summary of whats been happening the last 2 weeks...from what I can understand you've had spotting and they found a 2nd sack, and its empty? I didnt have time to read all the posts so thats what I understand has happened but please fill me in.

Im sooooo hoping I get pregnant after the polyp removal, I have 3 months to get pregnant and be able to tell my family when they come in august. so fingers crossed xxx

 

[sarahincanada]

I tested late last night.

tell me everything! I havent been on much these last 2 weeks. Did you test before that? Im assuming your charts were showing a high temp so you guessed you were before you tested? did you do anything special this month? any symptoms?

it was just a month ago you were talking about not trying for a few months, and I thought this would happen! how is work going, and will the pregnancy effect anything? and news about hubby and a job?

 

[sherylb]

I tested late last night.

tell me everything! I havent been on much these last 2 weeks. Did you test before that? Im assuming your charts were showing a high temp so you guessed you were before you tested? did you do anything special this month? any symptoms?

it was just a month ago you were talking about not trying for a few months, and I thought this would happen! how is work going, and will the pregnancy effect anything? and news about hubby and a job?

I tested Monday and it was negative. My temps actually weren't as high as I expected and I thought AF would arrive Tuesday. Since Tuesday I have had CM flow that occasionally feels like AF. Mostly Tuesday. It turned from clear to yellow yesterday. I have also been nauteous in the mornings. Today my appetite has been zilch. All I have had is some water and a little chicken tortilla soup. I didn't do anything different except the days. We caught it the 4 days before O and skipped O day. Work is exhausting. I only have 4 weeks left there anyway so it won't be a big deal. I am having a really hard time working 8 hour days though. I am supposed to be doing 4 9s and 4 on Saturday but this week switched it to Monday thru Friday. I didn't sleep at all Monday night so I went into work 2 hours late after telling my boss I would make up the hours. No job offers yet. He has been doing contract work for almost a week but not sure how long this will last. I get my first paycheck direct deposited tomorrow and am still trying to figure out how much we can afford to set aside for baby stuff. Maybe I will put it all in our savings account for now. And if in a few months he doesn't have a new job and we need it we will have it.

 

[Huggles]

well ladies, check out my ttc journal for the full story, but i think i'm pregnant!

 

[NDH]

Wow! I'll have to check later as I'm supposed to be working (shh). I hope it's a sticky bean!

Now I hope I don't get mine for a few months so I don't leave Sarah all alone. I have to be pregnant by July though as I have to go to Canada the following July for my cousin's wedding and don't want to travel alone with a baby under 3 months old.

 

[babyhopes2323]

oh sarah, i started spotting and having brown discharge well after they found a second empty sac.

what happened then was i went to the docs, and she scanned me and said baby was fine and it was the other one coming out. and she gave me a primolut depot injection to curb the spotting or any bleeding, but then when i went home, i had full red blood like a period on a tissue. i was frantic and called the doc, she said the injection is oily and so will take a while to settle in, dont worry its the second empty sac. i got several other opinions telling me the same thing

then i was not convinced and went to a different doc. she scanned me and saw that i had a subchroionic bleeding under the babys gestational sac and that was causing the bleeding. this bleeding usually happens in about 20 % of pregnancies and dissolves on its own or something. but some cases are not so lucky, well the not so lucky part i read on the internet,

i am prescribed now with cyclogest which is a progesterone vag suppository, injections every week and my progesterone pills three times a day and plus ive to be in complete bed rest for 5 days and that means waking up to wee and shower only.

this sucks and the scan was originally on tuesday meant to be same day as your polyp but i got it a day forward because it would be the 7th day and i need to get those injections plus i need to speak to this doc and tell her that it was the subchroionic bleed that was the cause and not the second gestational sac which is still very much present in my uterus,

they say it will get absorbed by the body as well, but its been a while and nothings happened.

i read on the internet that in some cases, very rare, though possible, the body thinks of it as useless and therefore tries to rid of it and in that process, causes uterine contractions which could harm the first baby,.


i want to clear this and the bleeding issue with that ob gyn who couldnt find it out the last time. anyway its about time i switched ob gyns to someone close to my area.

right now im living with my mum since DH is in germany on a business trip and this ob gyn is actually , good, quite confident and is preggs herself !

so thats my issue in detail. im on bed rest etc..

arent you way too excited for your polyp??

aaahhhh cant wait myself !

 

[babyhopes2323]

oomg huggles !!! if you have your BFP as well ... wow.... this thread seems to be sooooo lucky.. im damn sure that NDH and sarah will join asap and then we can go on to have a thread on first tri !

wow wow.. this is great !

congrats huggles, off to read your journal !

 

[babyhopes2323]

huggles thats a definite BFP !!


cant wait for you to do the digi

 

[Huggles]

thanks babyhopes. I must say i'm quite excited. Dh wants me to test again, just in case, so going to buy a double pack of normal early response on my way home later and do one this afternoon and then probably the second one tomorrow morning. If they're both positive i'll do the digi on sunday.

I hope your bleeding and stuff stops soon and that the second sac disappears.