ok so who wants to get pregnant in 2011? (closed group)

[MummyCat]

Babyhopes...I know it's hard... but try focus on the positives.. you have a baby with a healthy heartbeat and a string of Doctors taking such good care of you! Perhaps a complicated start will mean a trouble free labour and a well behaved little baby!

 

[babyhopes2323]

sheryl, she has not classed me as high risk, she would have said so otherwise.

the baby is still growing, its got great heartbeat, nothings wrong with it. its just that i could do without the blood clot crap thats got me worrying.

Thanks Mummy .. hopefully everything will turn out fine... i dont mind being closely monitored in a way, it means i get a scan every week and get to see the baby !


Thanks huggles, whats going on with your tests? tested any further?

 

[babyhopes2323]

sheryl, pregnancies in general are unpredictable ! you know as i was getting an injection today, the nurse told me about a woman delivering a still born at 24 weeks. we think that the 12 week period is safe, but to be honest, there is no such thing until you actually get your baby in your arms breathing and everything well.

she was telling me about things that go wrong in third tri and all throughout 9 months. so nothing is ever written in stone. all we can do is hope for a good outcome out of all of this.

i dont mean to be negative, but this is a fact that i thought i should mention.

 

[sherylb]

I know. This is going to be a really long 8 months but I am doing good with my stress levels this week so hopefully it will get better. Especially after 4 weeks from now when I have my first dr appt and am home again.

 

[nypage1981]

Big congrats Sheryl and huggles! How exciting for this thread. Let's send baby wishes to the girls who need bfp!

Sorry to hear about hard times baby but glad you have such a strong growing bean. That one will be just fine. Ive read a ton about sch and usually its fine! Please believe it will be. Take care of yourself and know you are doing everything you can now and the rest is out of your hands.

I've been having a blast at Disney and cocoa beach. We are exhausted and flying home tomorrow. All vacationed out. For now. I will be ready in a month again. Lol. I still spot, which I shouldn't on the progesterone so don't really think it is working. I ave the feeling of something amiss but did all I could have done. Think its been a mmc but of course can't be sure yet. hope to get into the doc this week to find out. Hope all is well and talk soon!

 

[Huggles]

babyhopes, what you said is so so true - just look at what happened to me last year!

Sheryl, glad your stress levels are ok.

Nypage, i really hope you're wrong and there's a strong little been growing in there

AFM, did the digi this morning - definitely pg

 

[flyingduster]

I agree with the worries the NT check can cause, high risk means nothing really, as the baby can still be totally fine!!! The high risk might still be 1 in 12 or something, which yes it's high risk compared to 1 in thousands, but heck, 1 in 12 is still pretty good, and I have no intentions of having 12 kids. lmao!! We've decided, for now, to go with the check anyway. I'm not naturally a worrier. I know that I'll worry if I'm at high risk of a chromosonal problem, but I don't think I'll worry myself tooooo much. We'll see I guess!!!


Baby, !!!! This bleeding thing totally sucks!!!!!!! BUT it is good that you have so many doctors keeping tabs on you, and that you know you have to stay on bed rest. It sucks, but at least for now there is something you can do to HELP this lil bean, and that is to sit tight and look after it. We're thinking of you, and sending loads of sticky dust and happy growing thoughts for you and your bub.


ny! Ohh hun, I hope hope hope that the lil bean has stuck really well and there's no problems, even with the spotting! I'm sending YOU heaps of sticky dust toooooo!!! Do let us know what the doc says, and GOOD LUCK!


Huggles! Yay! digis don't lie!




AFM, things are good. I did a 6 day week again last week, but due to a public holiday on monday I still have a 2-day-weekend!! yay!! And hubby doesn't work on mondays anyway, so we have a 2-day-weekend TOGETHER! Even better! lol. We went out for a wander around the university campus today, the architecture here is amazing, and we've always enjoyed photography together, so a wander around our city with cameras is our ideal sort of day!!! Got some neat photos too, so it is even better!

haha, and while wandering I was being silly and nicked off with hubbys beanie (I made it for him ages ago) and put it on so he'd chase me, but he just laughed at me and said it suited me! So I left it on all day, and caught sight of myself in a mirror at some point and had to agree; I normally DON'T suit hats of any type, but this one, I suit! So while out we went and bought some more wool and I'm knitting myself one now so hubby can have his one back. I haven't knitted in AGGGESS!!! lol! I've missed it, so once I've done this beanie I might just have to start on baby stuff. hehe.

 

[NDH]

Yay Huggles!

And glad to see everyone elses beans are holding on despite concerns.

 

[babyhopes2323]

Thanks nypage for all the support !!!
I'm so glad that you enjoyed your holiday
All I can do is pray and sit tight. I'm sure your spotting is not anything to be worried about . Praying for you xxxx cant wait to hear about your scan xx

Huggles, yay so excited that digi is brill !!

Flying thanks for all your support I know exactly what u mean.... About sitting tight with hope xx

Funny about the beanie x take care sweetie can't wait to hear about your scan....

Praying for Ndh and Sarah too xxx love to all

 

[MummyCat]

Morning!!

Ny.. welcome back hun! Super jealous of your hols! Keeping my fingers crossed that all is okay!! I can understand you preparing for the worst, but hoping for the best.. it's very natural to do that to prepare yourself for bad news... but I really really hope you'll be sharing good news with us soon!!

Huggles... for the digi hun!!!!

Flying.. your day sounded lovely!! I'd love to see one of your pics of the city! (Love to see one of you in the beanie too... but I know some people don't like puting pics up of themselves online!..so i wont pester you! )
I enjoy knitting... though I'm rubbish... perhaps if I practiced more I might improve!

Baby hope you are well...

NDH... thinking of you hun!! Hope to hear good BFP news from you soon!

Sarah... got everything crossed for your op!! Hoping it all goes according to plan!!! Not long now chick!!!!!

 

[sarahincanada]

well ladies, check out my ttc journal for the full story, but i think i'm pregnant!

omg congrats!!!!!

 

[sarahincanada]

oh sarah, i started spotting and having brown discharge well after they found a second empty sac.

what happened then was i went to the docs, and she scanned me and said baby was fine and it was the other one coming out. and she gave me a primolut depot injection to curb the spotting or any bleeding, but then when i went home, i had full red blood like a period on a tissue. i was frantic and called the doc, she said the injection is oily and so will take a while to settle in, dont worry its the second empty sac. i got several other opinions telling me the same thing

then i was not convinced and went to a different doc. she scanned me and saw that i had a subchroionic bleeding under the babys gestational sac and that was causing the bleeding. this bleeding usually happens in about 20 % of pregnancies and dissolves on its own or something. but some cases are not so lucky, well the not so lucky part i read on the internet,

i am prescribed now with cyclogest which is a progesterone vag suppository, injections every week and my progesterone pills three times a day and plus ive to be in complete bed rest for 5 days and that means waking up to wee and shower only.

this sucks and the scan was originally on tuesday meant to be same day as your polyp but i got it a day forward because it would be the 7th day and i need to get those injections plus i need to speak to this doc and tell her that it was the subchroionic bleed that was the cause and not the second gestational sac which is still very much present in my uterus,

they say it will get absorbed by the body as well, but its been a while and nothings happened.

i read on the internet that in some cases, very rare, though possible, the body thinks of it as useless and therefore tries to rid of it and in that process, causes uterine contractions which could harm the first baby,.


i want to clear this and the bleeding issue with that ob gyn who couldnt find it out the last time. anyway its about time i switched ob gyns to someone close to my area.

right now im living with my mum since DH is in germany on a business trip and this ob gyn is actually , good, quite confident and is preggs herself !

so thats my issue in detail. im on bed rest etc..

arent you way too excited for your polyp??

aaahhhh cant wait myself !

awwwww you poor thing, wish it was going easier for you. make sure you rest loads and try not to think the worst. I know thats easier said than done, but the worrying could make things worse for your little bean you know? think positive and you have all of us all around the world thinking positive for you too xxx
p.s YES Im excited to get this thing out and start anew, but also a little nervous about the op

Editing as I read your other posts after the one above. I feel so bad that this is happening to you, but like the other girls said you have a growing baby with a strong heartbeat....focus on that not what 'could' happen. If we constantly think about what could happen we can never live a proper life.

for example I got myself in a state when I was at home and was thinking about my mum, shes 72 now and I was thinking to myself omg I probably only have less than 20 xmas's left with her, and I got all depressed. then I got home ...we have 3 rescue dogs and one is older now and I was worrying about when she will get sick or pass away. I had to stop myself thinking all these negative thoughts. Im sure when I finally get my bfp I will be a big worrier too, but I hope I can pull myself out of that and think positive thoughts.

Im not trying to say not to worry, as obviously you are having complications and so that is a worry. but try not to think of what 'could' happen. stop googling as theres more bad things on the internet than good things. you sound like you have a great team there looking after you, so thats great. I cant wait for all this bleeding/extra sac sorts itself out so you can enjoy this pregnancy. big hugs

 

[sarahincanada]

hi everyone Im back!! and look, my ticker says 2 days to my op yipppppeeeeeeeeeee! Im nervous about the op but will be glad when its done and over.

my other ticker says I will ovulate in 7 days, so thats 5 days after the op. we will be trying this cycle, I have 3 tries to get pregnant so that I can tell my family when they come over in august! thats my new goal. after that my goals will involve clomid and Im not sure what else my FS might suggest.

Im so happy, this thread was a lucky one I think!! just 2 of us to go, and Im fine with being the last one! I just know in my heart I will get pregnant this year. And if it doesnt happen till nearer the end of the year thats more time for me to try and lose some weight before and be the fittest I can be going into pregnancy (which is good for my age!). so dont be sad for me if Im the last, Im happy for all of you!

 

[MummyCat]

Oh wow... you timed that well, hopefully you'll be well enough to be jumping on hubby in 5-7 days time and you never know... might STILL be in with a chance for a December baby! You'll be preggers this year!! I'm sure of it!!

I actually think you'll be quite calm about it all... I don't think you'll stress half as much as you think you will

Thinking of you loads over the next few days my lovely

 

[Huggles]

Good luck sarah! I think there's a good chance you might get pg this cycle. There are a lot of women that get pregnant right after a d&c, and although that's not what you're having, it's also surgery in the same area, so maybe it'll work the same and you'll get a nice little bean implanting itself! Fx'd!

 

[sarahincanada]

Oh wow... you timed that well, hopefully you'll be well enough to be jumping on hubby in 5-7 days time and you never know... might STILL be in with a chance for a December baby! You'll be preggers this year!! I'm sure of it!!

I actually think you'll be quite calm about it all... I don't think you'll stress half as much as you think you will

Thinking of you loads over the next few days my lovely

thank you!
how are you doing, when is your first scan?

 

[MummyCat]

I'm okay hun!

Well... not really... couldn't move most of the weekend, but I'm going to my GP tomorrow to get checked out. My back is killing me.

Scan... probably around Easter... another 4 weeks. Not too long!

Midwife coming on Wednesday for booking in! xx

 

[sarahincanada]

Good luck sarah! I think there's a good chance you might get pg this cycle. There are a lot of women that get pregnant right after a d&c, and although that's not what you're having, it's also surgery in the same area, so maybe it'll work the same and you'll get a nice little bean implanting itself! Fx'd!

Im still so excited about your bfp!
and I have read things like after polyp removal the area that has to heal is a good area for implantation as its not smooth but bumpy and so the embryo can latch on. but the way I look at is theres still lots to happen before then....I have to ovulate, I have to produce a good egg, sperm has to find it etc etc. so Im not convinced all will be perfect and happen first try! Im also not 100% going to ovulate when Im supposed to this month, last time I flew to england I had that weird non ovulating cycle after and my FS said it was probably the flight. so could happen again as I just flew then having an operation too.
if I got pregnant this next cycle then I think baby would be born near my hubbies 30th birthday Dec 15 which would be quite nice. (sigh, wish I was turning 30 this year)
its funny, I have it in my head each cycle that theres no way Im going to be pregnant (so used to getting my period now) that when I get my bfp I will be more shocked than any of you were!

 

[sarahincanada]

I'm okay hun!

Well... not really... couldn't move most of the weekend, but I'm going to my GP tomorrow to get checked out. My back is killing me.

Scan... probably around Easter... another 4 weeks. Not too long!

Midwife coming on Wednesday for booking in! xx

oh no! what is wrong with your back? is it like a stabbing pain?
I had a terrible stabbing back pain before I flew to england, went to the chiro and massage in one day and it helped. Im now going to go regularly to try and stop it happening. my pelvis gets twisted and traps a nerve. I mentioned to my chiro i want to get pregnant and he said he could help me avoid the back pain and also help me get strong for pushing in labour.

how far along will you be at easter? you are very patient compared to everyone else!

 

[MummyCat]

Not sure what's happening with it! Basically feels like the PGP I had with Lottie.. it's just crippling.. I can't bend down. Constant aching, with shooting pains added to it! hope the Dr can give some decent advice!!

I'll be 12 weeks, so hoping all will be okay... a tad nervous after having had a MMC last time round, but not much I can do about it!