ok so who wants to get pregnant in 2011? (closed group)

[Dew]

Aww! NY congratulations! Your baby is adorable! You must be ecstatic!

 

[nypage1981]

I am quite stoked to see a real baby in there thats for sure. I am in shock! But happy shock!

 

[Dew]

I am quite stoked to see a real baby in there thats for sure. I am in shock! But happy shock!

I am so happy for you. I can feel your happiness right here. Good about NT test too! Enjoy your pregnancy.

 

[MummyCat]

Thanks for all the Mummy Day wishes!!

OMG NY.... HUGE congrats on your scan!!! You have a beautiful healthy baby there! Here's hoping you can put your feet up now and enjoy this pregnancy! It's time you get a chance to anyway!!

hope everyone else is well... Sarah and Dew... those symptoms sound promising!! Keeping everything crossed for you both and NDH.... almost time to catch that egg!!! (if I remember correctly) so egg catching dust..coming at ya...

 

[babyhopes2323]

oh honey thats awesome NY, im so happy for you,, can i please have you get more excited now instead of worrying ..?? all i want to hear from you now is good stuff and im not going to talk about any MC and i dont want you to talk about anything either plus, im sorry but i really want to stay positive so i dont want anyone else to talk about MC's to me either if thats okay.. talk about it to anyone else, but i dont want it written to me, its basically because im already such a paranoid freak and i dont want to think about anything negative and get myself worked up.. no offence to anyone here.. xx love you all so much,, and am genuinely happy for all of you..

praying for the women who dont have their BFP'S to get one everyday !

ny.. yay again so happy for you and mines on wednesday so woop woop again, ill be about 10+5.. so glad about your NT results as well, thats awesome news, i still may not go for the NT just to save myself some greif, at the same time if i do decide to go and the results measure like yours, i would be ecstatic !

take care, i realised the prenatals cause me to have MS when i dont eat.. its better when im on a full stomach and before pregnancy, i used to take the prenatals anyway and a folic acid everyday. i still take folic acid and progesterone and a prenatal..

i like the idea of the chewable fruit vitamins.. yummy..

 

[babyhopes2323]

dew, im so sorry about your loss, and im sure this time you'll have a sticky one and its going to be amazing for you !!

please dont take this in the wrong way, but i mean it in the nicest possible way, could you please refrain from telling me about the MC ..? i dont mean to be selfish or rude at all, but ive just really got so many worries on my plate right now.. i dont want to worry about the doppler and HB and then you said about the MC and not finding the HB and that is upsetting to hear and im trying to stay positive

so please dont take this badly, its a request.

 

[babyhopes2323]

sheryl, id suggest taking saltine crackers and having em first thing in the am for MS? its supposed to help when youre on an empty stomach first thing in the morning, feeling sick

 

[Dew]

dew, im so sorry about your loss, and im sure this time you'll have a sticky one and its going to be amazing for you !!

please dont take this in the wrong way, but i mean it in the nicest possible way, could you please refrain from telling me about the MC ..? i dont mean to be selfish or rude at all, but ive just really got so many worries on my plate right now.. i dont want to worry about the doppler and HB and then you said about the MC and not finding the HB and that is upsetting to hear and im trying to stay positive

so please dont take this badly, its a request.

I understand totally....I shouldn't talk about MC on this thread with all you beautiful pregnant ladies around...request accepted...sorry if I hurt anyone, not my intention, just get carried away at times....

 

[MummyCat]

Babyhopes.... I know you wish to stay positive..... but there are a few of us who have gone through a lot of pain and heartache to be here too.

Just because we mention we've had a miscarriage.... doesn't mean you'll have one. I still had symptoms and pregnancy experience from my miscarriages, so if someone asks a question about symptoms? or nausea etc... I may reference my pregnancy that ended in miscarriage.... NOT because I'm trying to upset anyone... but because it was still a pregnancy for me and because that experience in a weird kind of way has made me more relaxed.

asking people not to ever mention their miscarriages is almost like asking for them not to share a part of who they are and what they've been through.

You have had so many scans... so many doctors appointments and all have confirmed that baby is okay and heartbeat is strong.... you need to start believing it... they wouldn't lie to you!! Think positive... you'll be holding a healthy baby before the end of the year. There are a lot of women who would love to be in your position.

I know you mean well... but I think it might be upsetting to others that you ask them never to mention it!

 

[MummyCat]

I understand totally....I shouldn't talk about MC on this thread with all you beautiful pregnant ladies around...request accepted...sorry if I hurt anyone, not my intention, just get carried away at times....

I don't feel you have any need to apologise hun. You certainly didn't hurt me with your comment... it made me appreciate your journey more, knowing some of the heartache you've been through. Sadly sometimes it's part of life but the fact that you can talk about it openly is brilliant because you have dealt with your loss well!

I've had 2 miscarriages and one gorgeous little girl too... there are happy endings after miscarriages...

 

[Dew]

I understand totally....I shouldn't talk about MC on this thread with all you beautiful pregnant ladies around...request accepted...sorry if I hurt anyone, not my intention, just get carried away at times....

I don't feel you have any need to apologise hun. You certainly didn't hurt me with your comment... it made me appreciate your journey more, knowing some of the heartache you've been through. Sadly sometimes it's part of life but the fact that you can talk about it openly is brilliant because you have dealt with your loss well!

I've had 2 miscarriages and one gorgeous little girl too... there are happy endings after miscarriages...

Never meant to hurt anyone but I am crying like a baby now....life never gets easy....thanks for your kind words

 

[nypage1981]

Baby- I was just mentioning it to make Dew feel better because after that happens, it's hard to feel like it will again. But seeing my situation, I tried to give her some hope. I wasn't writing it to you- I have NO thought in my head at all that you will have this issue! I was more worrying about your not being on the prenatals with folic acid- but thats nothing to do with MC! I've never thought you would have one....not once. Its very Hard not to mention something so large that at least 3 of us on here have been through. Sorry, didn't mean to upset you but it sure upset us when we went through it! I would think with all your scans and being bumped forward so much that you'd be much calmer!

You for sure need to just have faith in your pregnancy. Other than your bleed that has resolved I think it all sounds soooooooo good! Your scan will be awesome, and your doppler will be awesome and you are just fine

And im super duper excited and super duper worried. I will ALWAYS be worried! Definately not trying to sound not excited for my pregnancy, but its a coping mechanism to expect the worst, and be surprised and totally happy for the best if that is what I get out of this! Hope you feel ok with allowing some talk of things that arent always shiny happy thoughts- but thats what TTC is- the good and the bad. Trying to support everything we all go through at such different stages and experiences takes a verrrrry open mind.

 

[MummyCat]

Never meant to hurt anyone but I am crying like a baby now....life never gets easy....thanks for your kind words

Oh sweetheart!!! You wouldn't have hurt anyone my love!!!

You have been hurt more by your loss than anyone on here can be by reading about YOUR experience! Please don't cry .... go get yourself some tea and chocolate (or your favourite drink and yummy food) and step away from the pc for a bit!!



Feel better soon hun... you're welcome to PM me if you need to chat!!

 

[nypage1981]

Dew- you are fine! I know well enough that it can all happen and my risks for everything being pregnant so believe me, hearing any of it doesn't scare me more than I already scare myself

 

[sherylb]

I agree with the majority on this issue. I haven't experianced it myself but before getting pregnant I knew it would be devastating if it happened to me.

I am still waiting for some kind of healthcare coverage and haven't had any way of knowing this pregnancy is healthy except for my 2 blood tests.

 

[babyhopes2323]

im sorry if i upset you so much dew and i didnt ask you not to mention it ever, ofcourse you can, thats what we all should be here for which is support and i stressed so much that it wasnt meant in a bad way, i just requested that you dont state it to me, but in general ofcourse youre open to talk about anything.

mummy, i know what youre sayin and i woouldnt wish this on my worst enemy and gosh i didnt mean to be such a bad person or anything !

its difficult when youre not speaking to someone and youre typing because you dont get to see the reaction of the persons face and i didnt mean it badly

ny, i wasnt actuallyu meaning that you spoke about it at all, i was actually talking to dew and i apologize profusely if it has hurt all your feelings everyone as it seems like im being the bad guy here.

i really didnt mean anything at all, i can imagine what it must be like and i myself have had a loss and though it might not have been an MC, it is pretty much the same thing. it is a loss so im not perfect, ive had it too, so i dont know

maybe i should not say anything much if im going to be so misunderstood. i dont want to offend or upset anyone and its tough on me as well when im being misunderstood by women ive only prayed and had best wishes for so long !!

ive always wanted you all to have your happy endings and i just thought we should be more positive to achieve that and i was not trying to be selfish. jeez i dont know what to say anymore.
sorry

 

[babyhopes2323]

its difficult when you are typing it out, and so maybe no matter how i would have said it, you all seem to think it was meant badly. i never meant to offend anyone and i cant stress how much i mean it when i say i didnt mean to offend anyone and mummy, i think you took it quite badly as well and i have to say that i know its not easy and i thought maybe sending positive vibes and talking positive to women who are TTCing could help them stay positive and achieve what they want without worrying all the time and thats what i was trying to say. if it was taken so badly then i apologize.

i dont mean to be a bad person here and dont want to be misunderstood for one, ive been on this forum since well long ago last year and havent even once said anything to hurt anybody so i certainly wouldnt start now.

 

[babyhopes2323]

mummy, im sorry but i felt this bit that you mentioned

"You have been hurt more by your loss than anyone on here can be by reading about YOUR experience"

actually makes me sound like an animal.. i know what it feels like to lose as well. its quite hurtful.

i have to repeat myself. i did not mean to offend dew

 

[sherylb]

She's not saying you don't understand what it's like to have a loss. It's just different from person to person. Why don't we all drop this now? It wasn't meant to offend. And not to be rude but Baby you were frantic for about a month of your 10 weeks and had a scan for almost every post you made so you really have no room to talk about being positive 100% of the time.

 

[babyhopes2323]

you know sheryl, i dont even want to start, i was frantic, but i started learning to be positive after people like flying and everybody else gave me reassurances and taught me to stay positive so im trying to use that and be positive and am not expecting personal attacks from everyone.

i was frantic i agree and yes ive had more scans, but because of the help ive had from all the women here, ive learned to change and try to b positive and i dont see that as a bad thing, so id like to drop it right here and not be attacked anymore thankyou.