ok so who wants to get pregnant in 2011? (closed group)

[Huggles]

Oh ok, that's good. But so if you accidentally leave the cushions out in the rain they'd still be ok? that's pretty cool! Looks so fancy for something that can withstand the rain!

 

[sarahincanada]

yep, its all in outdoor fabric like any other outdoor furniture Ive been looking for a really nice one for ages at a good price and love this one

 

[babyhopes2323]

im having a massive heartache everyone.. it is so bad !!! just yesterday we came to chorlton manchester to stay with our friends , and we went to a pub,i was drinking water and i was sat down and felt wetness ..

went to the toilet and i wass bleeding !!!!!! pink blood but it was blood all over my underwear, it was 11:30pm on a saturday night.. i cried and ran to dh, we rushed to saint marys hospital in manchester., straight to A&E, but have i got to tell you.. sorry sarah and mummy, but NHS SUCKS !!!!!!!! THE WORST TREATMENT EVER !! here i am a bleeding pregnant lady and they made me wait over three hours to see the gynae.


i finally met him at 3:30am and he put a speculum inside me and then i started full on red blood flow all over the ER bed.

he did a small scan and said baby is ok but they dont know where the blood is coming from.

i stayed in overnight, terrible rude nurses who were constantly saying people are waiting before me and those people were laughing and talking and i was in pain. they attented to me at last. i was the last to be seen. i was so mad i started saying is this what people pay their NHS taxes for ?|? its ridiculous .. a& e is supposed to be emergency. not make people wait for hours and hours. i said my baby could be dying ands your not doing anything about it., they said keep your voice down., i just said thank god i dont live in this country |!! and i cried all night. this morning had a scan, baby is fine and they discharged me, but they told me to keep a track on my bleeding and rush to hospital if it were like period changing pad frequently types.

i came back to a friends house and we canceled the trip we wedre supposed to go to, now going to lake district tomorrow because i want to keep an eye on my bleeding. they said its because of low lying placenta that has probably come a little off the womb., and they said miscarriage is inevitable if the bleeding is super heavy, but my cervix is closed, that still does not mean anything,.

he was happy to let me go home, take it easy and now im just super worried, stuck in manchester , have to go back to that shitty hospital if my bleeding worsens.

im so worried, been crying all night, havent slept at all, and i havent read all your posts sorry but i am in a devastating situation at the momnent and i dont want to lose my baby at any cost.,

i am so upset and dh has been too.,

i spoke to marucs and forgot to tell him about the guy examining me, all he heard was heavy bleeding and said it could be the staRT OF AN MC, but i said they found HB and everything was fine otherwise and they put it down to unexplained bleeding.,

marcus= just said take it easy, hope bleedinbg stops., bleeding has not been much since i reached the friends house, but hoping every little stain stops as well. baby is safe for now, but i am not convinced at all !!

i am going to sleep because i am really upset and it may be a while before i come on again, maybe this evening or tomorrow. im trying to take it easy and relax.

hope everyone is doing well, i sounds like everyone is anyway. this pregnancy for me from the beginning has been full of scares and i just believe now entirely the fact that 12 or 14 weeks does not make a bloody difference. anything can happen at any point in a pregnancy.

what i believed was a load of crap.

im glad atleast the rest of you are doing much better than me and are not undergoing the heartache that i am having at the moment.

 

[MummyCat]

OH NO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Preethi hun I'm so sorry you're bleeding... and very sorry you've had such a bad experience... but you're right... it's crap! I could hardly breathe properly last month and spent three hours waiting with a two year old in the middle of the night (between 1am and 4am) you'd think they'd speed things along for you... but nope!

I must say that the maternity side of things was brilliant... but Emergency rooms are rubbish.

You need to put your feet up and rest... completely!! I hope the bleeding stops and that once you're home you get some answers!

to everyone! Hope you're all okay, been feeling a bit off lately... all is okay with baby, just not feeling great. Uneasy tummy, headaches... tired.. etc etc

 

[babyhopes2323]

mind you mummy, i was moved from ER to maternity ward but the nurses were rubbish. it was horrible !!

hope you feel better soon xx

 

[sarahincanada]

came on here to wish all you lovely pregnant mothers a happy mother's day and preethi was so shocked to read your story....Im so hoping it was just a reaction to the travel? and nothing serious. you poor thing, what a nightmare to go through Ive heard the nhs isnt great, havent experienced it myself as Ive lived in Canada since I was 22. Im keeping hopeful that it was just a random bleeding and sending you lots of love and a hugs over the seas please rest lots and update us when you can as I will be thinking about you

 

[sarahincanada]

sorry mummy missed your post as I was rushing to reply to preethi...hope you feel better soon and get lots of pampering today. Im just waiting for my period, I think its due Tuesday.

 

[Dew]

Yeah me too came here to wish Mother's day....so sad to know what you are going through Preethi ....sending lots of love and best wishes....hoping that the bleeding stops and baby stays unaffected. I can totally understand your frustration over medical care you received, I would have been the same under such circumstances. I think average wait time in the US emergency is also 3 hours please take proper rest and stay relaxed as much as possible...we are wishing well for you

 

[Dew]

Mummy...hope you feel better soon...I always thought that when pregnant, women will be treated like royal princesses by their husbands, oh well!

 

[nypage1981]

Preethi my heart breaks for you I can't stand the thought of something bad happening to you now. Could it maybe be the sch bleeding again? I think total bedrest is actually what you should do honestly. If a bit of placenta has ripped away you should stay laying down for a week. If it can repair itself and save your baby it is worth the loss of a vacation. Please take it easy, a lot of walking can rip more away and irritate low placenta. I read on here some women with low placenta on bed rest. I am praying for you and hope this fixes itself and your baby is so strong in there.

Happy mothers day to the moms and to be. Hope you have a lovely day. Hunny brought me roses, the paper, and a caramel Frappe in bed. Then he made me stay here and watch smut tv while he makes me breakfast. Love that treatment!

 

[MummyCat]

Preethi that sucks!! Perhaps that hospital is worse than others.. but still no excuse.. they have a duty of care and should be there to make you feel better physically at least and hopefully have a pleasant bedside manner!

Thanks for your well wishes... I'm okay really.. just feeling off! It's not a problem, doesn't stop me from having to run around after my daughter and husband!

I think I had too much time between eating.. I think baby is moaning at me for more food.

I had breakfast at 7am cos I was up at 6:30 (bowl of cereal) at about 11am I had an apple and at 12:30 I had 2 roast beef and tomato sandwiches, by which time I was starving. At 3pm I had a small packet of crisps with my single daily cup of coffee and we're having sausages and salad for dinner at 6ish tonight. I'm drinking lots of water, but think I might need to find another healthy snack for in between... maybe carrot sticks of something.

Do you ladies think you're eating enough?

 

[nypage1981]

I always think im ok until suddenly huge spikes so bad I get so sick. But I'm still in a having to eat phase. I dont know why but I hate food! Lol. So weird but got a feelig it will change so I go with it. Seems oj need a more filling snack. Celery and peanut butter maybe.

 

[MummyCat]

yeah I get to a point where I have to shovel something into my mouth so today while I was making sandwiches I was chomping on cucumber that I had to hand and I really did start to feel a bit better!

You're right... maybe some more protein! Perhaps I should get some more yoghurt in the house Or cottage cheese that I can dip carrots and celery into!

 

[sherylb]

Yesterday I ate a ton compared to what I usually have. I had a toaster struedel, apples with caramel, ice cream, dinner and then 2 hours later a big glass of chocolate milk and 2 sausuage links.

 

[nypage1981]

Cottage cheese is a good one. It's tummy wiyh small pineapple or peaches in it too.

 

[flyingduster]

omg Preethi!!!!! and loads of healthy sticky vibes sending your way hun!!! Hang in there, take it easy, and look after your bub!!!!!



As for eating, I'm still having to eat 6 small meals a day (breakfast/morning tea/lunch/afternoon tea/dinner/evening snack) but the meals aren't much larger than the snacks at morning/afternoon tea! I just can't fit much food in... And I've actually lost weight since getting pregnant (around 7lb), though I have so much to loose I'm not at all worried about the bub! lol. And I know it's simply from eating tiny tiny meals, and they're usually fairly healthy too! lol. But I need the constant food every few hours or I starve! The small meals don't last me long.

 

[Dew]

Preethi, still thinking of you, hoping you are doing well. I agree with what NY said, please take proper rest

Sarah, I am keeping my FXed for your BFP this cycle, it will give me lots of hope and encouragement. AFM, I am expecting ovulation on 13th (CD12), I will post my chart on CD9, really hoping to see spike in temp after ovulation.

I don't think I need any more tests. At the most, may be next cycle I can get progesterone levels tested around CD21, has anyone done that? I believe there is nothing wrong with my reproductive system (*knock on wood*), Sarah is right, I just need more time, it's gonna happen soon

Have a wonderful week ladies

 

[babyhopes2323]

thanks ladies, well the bleeding did stop, got small old brown spots when i wipe, heard the HB on doppler yesterday and we are still on our trip but cancelled driving all the way down south etc, we will be staying in the lake district and yorkshire region and dh is taking good care of me so i am just resting.

wish this kind of scare does not happen again.

hope you all are doing well. xx

 

[flyingduster]

Ohhh Preethi, I'm so glad the bleeding has all but stopped now. Brown is ok, not ideal, but sooo much better than that bright pink gushing stuff!!!!!!!!!

I'm glad DH is looking after you, stay quiet and rest, and look after yourself!

 

[flyingduster]

Oh, I just remembered I intended to get a proper bump pic... one to match my first pic I got. So here ya go:

17 weeks, 3 days, sucking my tummy in as much as possible....:
https://i80.photobucket.com/albums/j162/flyingduster2/IMG_2058.jpg

Compared to just over 4 weeks ago:
https://i80.photobucket.com/albums/j162/flyingduster2/IMG_1789.jpg