ok so who wants to get pregnant in 2011? (closed group)

[Huggles]

Good luck Sarah!!!

 

[babyhopes2323]

good luck sarah !! is anybody else feeling the same as me? ive had extreme low blood pressure and im dizzy almost all the time if i stand for over 5 mins i just have to lay down. i cant stay still for a while without feeling dizzy, ive heard its normal, but im having a tad bit of cramping too.. hopefully all is ok.. x

 

[nypage1981]

Good luck Sarah.

I'm off to the doc in over an hour too. Will find out if im still pregnant or not. sigh. So fricken scared. Kinda know deep down that things are just not right. And of course it cold gloomy and rainy today. Will update later hopefully.

Preethi you could be feeling dizzy from all the progesterone. It java side effect.

 

[Huggles]

I'm not having that yet, but I vaguely remember feeling similar last time. Try to be sure to keep your blood sugar up (lots of small meals) and also to stay hydrated. Hope you feel better soon.

 

[Huggles]

good luck nypage - thinking of you

 

[MummyCat]

Preethi, I feel faint and lightheaded if I dont eat! hope you feel better soon!!

Good luck NY... thinking of you

 

[nypage1981]

Hello!

I am back from doc again. He wanted to try the doppler for HB today even before 10 weeks. Said most are heard by 11 weeks but a lot at 10 so if no HB he'd do a scan for reassurance. Well, after seemed like he searched for a while he found it! I started bawling and my tummy was heaving so he lost it and i held my breath and when found it again just said "sounds about 160." Didnt time it but I hope he knows that it sounds ok. I have no idea what is good for how far I am, I should google it.

He has no clue why I spot, said its not affecting baby right now so nothing can be done. Nice. I wish it would stop but glad i've got a HB externally. I didn't get that far with my MC so its some renewed hope.

I can have my NT genetic testing scan in about week n half so i'll see it then I hope. Im still so scared because im getting more hopes up now and if something goes wrong i'll be that much more devastated so I really hope everything goes ok the next scan. I do feel better finding the HB externally though for sure!

 

[MummyCat]

Oh hun... that's great news!!!

Just take it one day at a time... 160 is a great rate!! hopefully you'll be completely reassured when you have your scan!!

 

[babyhopes2323]

I must have been hungry then!!!


Yay Nyp and 160 is brilliant, so there's absolutely no need to worry and don't know why u worried,there wasn't a bleed.I'm so confident ur carrying to full term xx

Well I still haven't found an ob gyn and hospital I want to stick with so off tomorrow to meet a dr marcus page from Malta. Another one of my conquests.hopefully will see beanie again... I'm used to seeing beanie on a regular weekly basis

Hoping this brown discharge stops for us Nyp and hoping to get some reassurance on my other issues!

I should eat more often! This morning I woke at 4am for two baby bananas as i couldn't sleep from all the hunger!


Can't wait for first tri to get over and all of us breathe sighs of relief after all this worrying on crazy first tri xxx

 

[Huggles]

nypage i'm so glad to hear the good news!
babyhopes, fx'd you find a doctor and hospital you like.

 

[nypage1981]

Thanks girls! I am pretty happy about the doppler!

- the reason i've worried so much is this- my MC started with brown spotting for weeks. I thought brown was ok. But eventually it turned into bleeding after i'd seen heartbeat twice. ALso, it was missed, I went at 9 weeks, and baby stopped at 6.5 weeks and i was still just spotting. So of course, I keep going to doctor expecting the baby had stopped progressing becasue of the spotting. I would actually rather to have a bleed that can be diagnosed, you know? Like told that i've got a subchorionic hemmhorage and then know why im bleeding rather than this constant spotting from lord knows where.... I sure hope its just a crazy coincidence and that im "one of those girls who spots the first trimester."

Baby- yes, def keep eating. Around that time I started feeling soooo horrible if I got hungry at all. And if you let yourself get hungry, then you feel icky and NOTHING sounds good to eat so its a terrible cycle. I am now puking in the morning after prenatals are taken. Even with crackers. SO my doc said I can skip them and im like uhhh no. I dont feel comfortable skipping them so am trying Flinstone chewables! I will take folic acid also. Hope i dont puke them up tomorrow. Its like, super violent puking and I cry and sniffle and its horrible.

Baby- my last name is Page! Hope you like the doctor with my last name. haha. Im excited you will get to see your baby again-

 

[babyhopes2323]

haha i figured your last name was page, you did mention it somewhere else on some other thread i think . i hope i like him too., hes from malta.

i dont feel horrible but yes i feel really hungry like theres a big hole in my stomach and i need to fill it immediately. please do not even vaguely wish to be diagnosed with a subchroionic anything ! as im diagnosed with a hematoma and it is not a nice feeling ! why would you want to be diagnosed?? id rather spot knowing its normal and old blood than worry about a clot and placental abruption by a hematoma which im going through now.i dont have an abrubtion but do have a clot near the placenta, dont ever wish for that. its god awful not knowing whether it will absorb or whether your pregnancy will progress !

thanks huggles i hope i find a doctor to settle on too !

 

[mangokiss]

Hi Ladies , I just joined .. Im feeling kinda lost becuase I cant understand why I cant concieve ! Im 24 years old , I have a 4 year old son , We've been trying for almost a year ! Ive had 1 miscarriage and thats as close as we have came Looking to someone to talk to and maybe get some pointers !!
I Would LOVE to get pregant and Give birth in 2011 !!

 

[nypage1981]

Baby I would rather be diagnosed with nothing at all but hear better outcomes of women with an area of bleeds rather than just spotting for weeks. Spotting for weeks seems like things stopping and breaking down.I wish neither of us had any spotting bleeding or anything. How annoying. It's so draining and emotional. I get so mad some times. Some day this will all be worth it for us!

 

[nypage1981]

OOh baby one more thingmaybe ask if baby aspirin a day will help with the clot? It is said for women to take it to prevent clots in the placenta so would this maybe be a good thing? I take 81 mg low dose per day to prevent a clot

 

[flyingduster]

Wow you girls can talk! lol!! Sarah, I'm thinking of you! That polyp should be looooong gone now! YAY!!!

ny, I'm so sorry the spotting is still there, but YAY for the heartbeat!!! How awesome!!!

Huggles! Yay! A scan!!!! And what a wonderful date! hehehe.

Baby, definitely keep snacking on things! I felt bloated if I ate too much, but horrible if I ate nothing, so snacking constantly was all that helped!! lol.


I finished my beanie last night! heh. I will get a pic sometime, maybe later today. For now I'm at work and my first dog has just arrived so I better get to work!

 

[babyhopes2323]

Ny, were you prescribed aspirin? i though aspirin was bad for pregnancies? and paracetomol was ok? i dont want tos tart on any more meds than i already am on ! folic acid plus three tabs of progesterone per day and a weekly 250mg of primolut progesterone injection. im sick of all of this and just cant wait to hear good news at some stage.

i read so much online and i know that spotting brown is old blood and no always the sign of an mc especially since you found the HB atleast thrice, so please dont wish for a diagnosis of anything, im only saying so because here i am at 12am researching hematomas and placental abruption and ive got this appointment tomorrow and ime ating my own brains out with all this crap and confusion. it dosent help.. wish i could forget it all. but i cant

wish we both become ok soon.. "sniff" "sniff"


flying.. i wish i could be like you !!! look at you.. all excited and calm ,.. i guess thats because you havent been to your early scan yet. i think early scans cans sometimes ruin things for you because if its too early to see anything, then your5e worried, if they scan and find something youre worried., but if your oblivious and positive, the stress is not added and it makes life easier !

 

[babyhopes2323]

HI Mangokiss, welcome.. have you tried charting your fertility? by checking your temp rise for ovulation every morning?

i wouldnt know much about it as i hardly used it before i got my bfp.. but it could help?

 

[nypage1981]

Baby I wasn't prescribed it its just over the counter. And low dose is ok in pregnancy. Not normal aspirin its baby aspirin. Just prevents clots forming that can harm baby. But I understand you don't want any more stuff to take. You are working so hard to keep your sanity and I hope tomorrow you find the clot and sac are dissolving themselves. You are a googler just like me and today my doctor told Oh he should cancel my internet for the pregnancy. Lol.

 

[babyhopes2323]

hahaha my mum says the same !!! she says the main cause of your worries are the internet and my dh says in a very dulcit tone.. - the internet.. great for answers eh?? very sarcastically..

i very much doubt it has reduced in size and most probably it wont because it usually dissolves or shrinks if it does within week 20. not before that. it depends on each individual circumstance.. but bed rest is supposed to help. im cramping now so very worried and going to go to bed until tomorrows appointment gives me the answer to the question - is it better to bleed it out? or not bleed and let it absorb. !!

good night.. im going to try and keep my sanity tonight by praying. xx