Ok what would u do?

[suzan]

Doc adviced us to wait a couple of cycles to ttc again.
I woke up this morning to wee and then went to sleep again and then woke up again to do the same thing, so when I stood up, I was having crazy pains as ovulation pains so I grabbed one ovulation stick and it turned out POSITIVE!
Oh wow, the test line is sooooo dark.. but DH and I agreed to ttc after the next AF as I had a small suction surgery bec of sac remnants..
I wana BD! maybe we can catch an eggie! But the problem he wont he is gona tell me that it's soon and we agreed and it's dangerous and https://www.themommyplaybook.com/forum/images/smilies/yapyapyapf.gif
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How can I convince him!!!!

Or maybe I should better stick to the agreement, it's probably better for me..

 

[loopylew]

you could try use your female charm if you really want to BD. Id've thought if you are ovulating then your body is returning to normal but i have no idea really, sorry hun xx

 

[jo27]

I would wait hun, one cycle won't do you any harm and if that's the medical advice you've received best to stick to it x

 

[suzan]

Thanks Jo. I was thinking the same.

 

[HAYS]

yeh ditto hun, must be frustrating tho
xx

 

[justme00]

DOn't tell him you're ovulating. Just say you are frisky and maybe he won't turn you down. :0)

 

[Vickie]

I know it's frustrating but it's probably best to stick to the medical advise. At least he only wants you to wait a month!

 

[wishes]

Aww, i know it must be driving you ad... but id stick with the medical advice.
Every now and again, they surprise us by actually knowing what theyre talking about!

 

[Tiffers]

Aw hun! I know how you feel. It is soooo hard to wait because we want to get pregant again as soon as possible. There are lots of stories about women who get pregnant straight away after a m/c and don't have any problems.. I think its your call babe. Good luck!

 

[Samantha675]

As frustrating as it is, I would wait. Give your body a chance to finish healing.

 

[Rumpskin]

I agree with the girls Suzan, wait for your next cycle - wishing you a BFP for next month lovely xxx

 

[poppy]

Hey Suzan,

I know the urge to have a baby is so strong and when you get the positive on your opk you feel like you are 'wasting' an opportunity, but you should probably follow the doctor and your hubbie's advice. For your own health and a prospective baby. Maybe your lining needs to build up again after the procedure.

Whatever you choose to do, I wish you the best.

xxx

 

[suzan]

Thank you girls.

We did baby dance, but used protection. My conscious was going to kill me if we didn't use any!

I guess, from the inside, we really avoid doing crazy things when our conscious asks us for the better. One cycle is no harm on waiting.