OMG i was sooo angry!!!

[2245db01]

i am so angry with my OH, every friday night he does the night feeds so i get a night off but the last week and half my 4 month old son hasnt been sleepin at all and he was up every hour last night (like he is for me most nights too recently) and at 6am he started screaming so hubby tried puttin his dummy in and he spat it out and carried on crying, then to my horror.... he said 'oh fuck off then' i sat up and went mad! he is 4 months old for fucks sake! (sorry for language) he said 'he has had me up all night' i was like yea like he does me every night for the past week and half! so i got Kaydon out his cot and he was soaked, his nappy had leaked and he had wee all up his back, so took him downstairs and changed his nappy and put clean vest and pjs on him then i got massive smiles, we went bk to bed and i fed him and he slept in my arms in my bed (1st time ive ever done that) i felt so bad that he was crying cause he was wet and my husband had ignored it! i could of cried

 

[2245db01]

and to top it all off he has spent all day out messing wit car! he is blody 29 this year and right now he is attaching something so his car has flames when he puts his foot down! im so fed up, feel like a single mum, he will get in and then go spend an hour in the shower! im so pissed off its unreal he does nothin wit me and kaydon, he is so selfish, feel like going out but have no where to go

 

[maybebaby3]

i dont expect anything off my DH. i do all the nights on my own and co-sleep and he sleeps on the sofa

 

[2245db01]

why are men so lazy???? they created these babies too yet dont seem to wanna have anythin to do wit them

 

[lynnikins]

aww hugs hun, my OH is useless in the night i figured that out with ds1 and havent even bothered asking for night help with ds2 , it took DH 7 trips to turn the light in the boys room off and put ds1 back in bed to figure out the reason ds1 was awake was cuas he had a dirty nappy and he has a bad bad rash atm poor boy was in the dirty nappy for 2+hours and DH didnt even check or try to figure out why ds1 was awake, grrr i would have gone spare if i was home but i was out after having done the boys bedtime myself before going so dh didnt have to do anything unless they woke

 

[maybebaby3]

men! they are so damn useless sometimes! i think that they take it for granted that we will do all the hard graft coz it's the 'woman's job'. talk about old fashioned! in that case maybe i won't go to work as that is the 'man's job' isnt it?

 

[A3my]

grrrrrr, I'm not surprised you were angry, poor little man. you shouldnt feel bad its your OH's fault for not noticing

maybe you're so right, I'm expected to cook, clean, do all the washing and housework and look after the children as its the "womans job" - trouble is he doesnt want to do the "mans job" and support his family! men

 

[maybebaby3]

what is it with them! agh!!!!!