I think for most of last night i looked like a rabbit caught in headlights but thinking about it, she was scared and lost control as thats the worst birth ive seen and heard of reaction wise, so as well as gas and air and tens machiene im gonna add meditation and mind over matter to my list lol. My husband sat there all the way through with his jaw open , lol, and after he said "i couldnt do that, i couldnt cope with that" good job for blokes they dont have to.....whoever said women were the weaker sex eh?