OMG

[jaytee146]

I just got off of facebook and I was one of the people I went to school with is celebrating a birthday... I click on that person's name and say Happy Birthday! and notice a name at the bottom of the screen... this person has the same name as FOB's ex.. the same person who he use to talk to me about.. we I know that this can't be this young lady but just incase i click on her name.. up comes a picture of her holding who appears to be my little girl. she's just had a baby maybe a few weeks or a month before me and her baby looks identical to mine.

Do I message this young lady and ask her about it or do i let this go? why am I so broken down by this. i mean I knew he was a dog but I am having issues excepting the fact that my little girl look like hers.

 

[teal]

It's a hard decision honey. If you're not sure what to do maybe sleep on it until you're mind is a bit clearer

I'm sorry I'm not much help. I think, for me, it's something that I would want to know one way or the other. do you think this woman would be open to talk to you, is she approachable? Then you need to decide that if this girl is your daughters half sister would you be ok for them to have a relationship growing up.

Sending you massive, massive hugs xx

 

[Lemonflower]

It's up to you sweetie! I would ask her if it was me!!
Be prepared it could be his daughter and how it would make you feel!
Xxx

 

[Lemonflower]

.. Sorry double post.

 

[jaytee146]

I can't do it... I start typing and can't say anything.. I'm just leaving it alone