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Lucky mum to 2 munchkins!
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My DD3 has been sooo challenging since the minute she was born. We had huge problems breastfeeding and i was in agony for the first 8 weeks. She was very underweight. At 9 weeks she was hospitalised for suspected meningitis which was traumatic all round. We never found out if she did. After that she started being very sick with blood in her nappies and was diagnosed with a dairy allergy. She had cried almost solidly from seven weeks to about 4 months which was when this was put forward as a reason why. I gave up all dairy and soy and continues to feed her until 1. During this time she was slightly happier but still very very demanding, crying often, not sleeping, needing to be held almost constantly. She. Is now 14 months, dairy free and utterly miserable. She cries when playing, cries before eating, during every meal, in the car, in the pram, whilst being held and whilst being changed. She wants to be picked up constantly but then cries to go down. She is jealous of any time I give her sisters and pushes them away, however- she idolises then when they are playing and copies everything they do. She struggles with constipation and is quite rashy/eczema prone but her sisters were too. Her poor sisters get no attention at all, my marriage is hanging on by a thread and I feel I am losing my mind with worry and stress. I even find myself shouting at her sometimes because the moaning get too much. I then cry ehen I see how upset she gets.
Shes developing normally- met all milestones early except talking which we are waiting for. She is very loving and laughs often between the crying. She has gone from 9th percentile to 75th in-line with her height. She is extremely busy- a climber and into everything. Her poor sisters adore her as do I but I feel like she is tearing family life apart as her misery overrides all the nice things we do. I have no time or patience for my older girls or my husband and I dont know what to do!
Shes developing normally- met all milestones early except talking which we are waiting for. She is very loving and laughs often between the crying. She has gone from 9th percentile to 75th in-line with her height. She is extremely busy- a climber and into everything. Her poor sisters adore her as do I but I feel like she is tearing family life apart as her misery overrides all the nice things we do. I have no time or patience for my older girls or my husband and I dont know what to do!