Moulder86
Fiancé & mum to one
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Ok I know we can all be rather bitter about our ex's considering the situations and well normally I am too but I would like your opinions on something.
Ok he's not going to be at the birth and probably won't have much if anything to do with us afterwards as he feels it isn't fair on bubs because he could only spare maybe once a week to see him. Personally I think it's just because he doesn't want to get attached and it spoil his new happy family.
Anyway he has agreed to be on there when I register the birth and be on the birth cert. I'd rather that than unknown and I don't think bubs would like to have unkown when he's older either, makes me sound like a bit of slapper.
Anyway his ex has also agreed that his son and ours should know each other and has agreed to arrange for us to meet and his parents are going to have some sort of involvement too.
Sorry for the long rant but my question is his last name will be mine now but I was thinking about using his dads as a middle name because it's Flynn so can be used as a main name as well as surname.
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Ok he's not going to be at the birth and probably won't have much if anything to do with us afterwards as he feels it isn't fair on bubs because he could only spare maybe once a week to see him. Personally I think it's just because he doesn't want to get attached and it spoil his new happy family.
Anyway he has agreed to be on there when I register the birth and be on the birth cert. I'd rather that than unknown and I don't think bubs would like to have unkown when he's older either, makes me sound like a bit of slapper.
Anyway his ex has also agreed that his son and ours should know each other and has agreed to arrange for us to meet and his parents are going to have some sort of involvement too.
Sorry for the long rant but my question is his last name will be mine now but I was thinking about using his dads as a middle name because it's Flynn so can be used as a main name as well as surname.
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